Taurus man gets close then leaves

Have been here few times for advice. Taurus/Libra relationship for 6 months now. Everytime he we get emotionally close he abruptly leaves, and says we can't be together, but comes back 1-2 weeks later and apologizes. It's been a struggle with this guy, and I now love him. He has been hurt in the past, and is divorced. Anyone advise on his behavior?

Posted by busyeyes88
We have already given you advice. He only comes back because you let him in! He is not the problem. You are!! If s taurus man tells you, or any man for that matter, that you can't be together take their word for it!! His mind has already been made up! You are not for him. When he disappears he is looking elsewhere!! Taurus doesn't just disappear for two weeks with someone he has a genuine care and interest for!! You need to do yourself a favour and let him go!
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Yup ^^^

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Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

oh!

Posted by SophiaEva
Have been here few times for advice. Taurus/Libra relationship for 6 months now. Everytime he we get emotionally close he abruptly leaves, and says we can't be together, but comes back 1-2 weeks later and apologizes. It's been a struggle with this guy, and I now love him. He has been hurt in the past, and is divorced. Anyone advise on his behavior?

if you love him that is tough to let go but think about it logically, how long can you keep going on this rollercoaster? i suggest you take some time to really consider the deal you are getting. is this good enough? do you think it will change? how long are you prepared to wait? and if you do decide to wait then you have to accept that this is your future. are you ok with that? if you're not (and it sounds like its not something you enjoy) then you need to tell him the score. he either jumps in or jumps out. make it clear that the next time it happens there will be no going back so he has to really decide he is out. he may have been hurt and if he is still hurting then he has to decide (or you have to decide for him) that he is not ready for you and then keep moving.

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Posted by SophiaEva
Have been here few times for advice. Taurus/Libra relationship for 6 months now. Everytime he we get emotionally close he abruptly leaves, and says we can't be together, but comes back 1-2 weeks later and apologizes. It's been a struggle with this guy, and I now love him. He has been hurt in the past, and is divorced. Anyone advise on his behavior?

if you love him that is tough to let go but think about it logically, how long can you keep going on this rollercoaster? i suggest you take some time to really consider the deal you are getting. is this good enough? do you think it will change? how long are you prepared to wait? and if you do decide to wait then you have to accept that this is your future. are you ok with that? if you're not (and it sounds like its not something you enjoy) then you need to tell him the score. he either jumps in or jumps out. make it clear that the next time it happens there will be no going back so he has to really decide he is out. he may have been hurt and if he is still hurting then he has to decide (or you have to decide for him) that he is not ready for you and then keep moving.

This is a libra balancing the scales at its best!! You are so sweet and hopeful!!!

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haha! guilty as charged...😏

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Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

oh!

Come on Libraus, you know you are the exception!! Lol lol

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lol, that's good because my bull and i are proving you wrong, busy! i have such a soft spot for you lot now and it's all down to him.

Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

Oh? 😄

Nice to see a few other libra-taurus pairings here.

The advice given by the others are spot on (except the one quote above... I disagree, if 2 people, regardless of sun signs, want to make it work, they will).

Taurus are very practical people. If he says it's too complicated, that you can't be together, that it won't work, all that means is that he's put a lot of thought into it and knows it might not work out in the long term. And Taurus are all about the long-term.

Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

Not all Libra's are superficial

Posted by SophiaEva

Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

Not all Libra's are superficial

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I'm fucked. I don't let go easily, although I need to be.

Posted by busyeyes88
We have already given you advice. He only comes back because you let him in! He is not the problem. You are!! If s taurus man tells you, or any man for that matter, that you can't be together take their word for it!! His mind has already been made up! You are not for him. When he disappears he is looking elsewhere!! Taurus doesn't just disappear for two weeks with someone he has a genuine care and interest for!! You need to do yourself a favour and let him go!
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As if I did not know, but thank you for rubbing the shit in my face ...

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Posted by jeane

Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus and libra don't really get on in the love stakes. Libra is too superficial!!!

oh!

Come on Libraus, you know you are the exception!! Lol lol

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No, don't believe I'm an exception, however you sarcasm could be better.

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Posted by SophiaEva
Have been here few times for advice. Taurus/Libra relationship for 6 months now. Everytime he we get emotionally close he abruptly leaves, and says we can't be together, but comes back 1-2 weeks later and apologizes. It's been a struggle with this guy, and I now love him. He has been hurt in the past, and is divorced. Anyone advise on his behavior?

He's good at keeping things that are going nowhere hanging on,isn't he?Taurus people can become very manipulative in order to get what they want. You will think they are stubborn,that's not entirely true,there are more sides to that. This is a fix sign but associated with devious ideas and reasons it can be more superficial than a Libra.

So now that we took this "perfection" out of the way,i suggest you to mirror the crap out of him. He comes back because you give him stability,he needs something familiar so he comes back. He didn't earned that yet and yes,he's the one that has to earn it in this case so stop give it to him. He's a Taurus,so what?He should be a MAN first of all.

Taurus men like submissive women but also strong ones so take a decision and stick to it. What's that bs about "we can't be together" and the drama queen running away?Is this the kind of man that you need?Don't you have women parts,how much you need already?Someday your lipstick will disappear out of your purse and you won't know how that happen.

Man up Libra girl,someone has to.

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Literally... he took my lipstick and threw it out... he didn't like the color...