taurus man is really into me?

Do Taurus men frequently come on really strong when they start dating someone? Im an aquarius, and this guy is really REALLY into me, I just met him and he is talking about meeting my family and wanting to meet my son, being a father to him if I let him, seeing himself with me in a house with a couple of kids in ten years. Normally I run for the hills when guys talk like this, but I like this one. He is my adopted sister's cousin, so I know he's from good people, and we have been at some of the same multi-family gatherings over the years but didn't know each other at the time.
So I guess I'm wanting to know if there is a possibility that this might be real, because I've read some posts about Taurus men blowing hot and cold. I don't want to push him away, but at the same time I don't want to be a fool and fall for something that's going to break my heart. Does anyone have any experience or advice to offer?

I've learned lately that the upfront courting style is atypical for Taurus men. But, my 1st Taurus BF for 4 yrs, and another when I was 23 (he was 35) all talked about kids, a house etc. in the 1st couple of days. I'm trying my hardest to recall 2 more I've encountered and I remember them talking about marriage and family right off the bat too.

So...since this kind of Taurus man is uncommon, because they like to take things slow, I'm wondering if you notice the same things I noticed with my BFs: Detail oriented.Athletic (running, contact sports:wrestling, football, rugby). Quick tempered. Extremely controlling.Chivalrous.
Extremely punctual. Extravagant.

He might not be full of it if he has the purse to match. My BFs were serious. But, overly jealous men will kill me and I can't stand men who pick fights all the time.

Does he match that description? What do you look like? Im curious. Is your chart loaded with Venus?

I think the most aggressive Taurus men go for beauty. I've always been a little shy about it, but I don't have to be. I almost have zero fire in my chart.

I'll tell you what, Taurus and Aquarius males make great friends, we talk openly, flirt, and are both possessive..have this mentality like we know each other, Aquarius can read Taurus well.. being both fixed element it's alot of compromise, companionship, lots of ego boosts...it doesn't take long for argument to start.. then you both are passive aggressive towards each other..

Taurus and Aquarius have this understanding we can detach out emotions, and just have fun.. Aquarius is free flowing attitudes and I don't like their actions sometimes. Taurus and Aquarius flirt with each other and with other people.. so I've seen..

Taurus wants stability, control, financial stable, is possessive and jealous, wants communication and honesty and loyalty..and are extremely picky..

Thus far I can say that he is athletic, extravagant, punctual...I couldn't tell you yet about the others because I don't really know yet ( I hope he's not controlling, that would be such a buzzkill).
I would say I'm very pretty, but I don't focus on being feminine. I have blonde hair, blue/green eyes, a little overweight but I carry it in good spots.
Do they get possessive even if, say you go out with a male coworker? Because that would not be ok...can they keep themselves in check?

I will be back with charts, if that will help 🙂

His

Zodiac in degrees
Sun-Taurus23.36??
Moon-Capricorn16.56??
Mercury-Taurus8.08
Venus-Aries11.52
Mars-Pisces17.43
Jupiter-Cancer9.23
Saturn-Capricorn25.16
Uranus-Capricorn9.12
Neptune-Capricorn14.22
Pluto-Scorpio16.12
Lilith-Scorpio21.21??
Asc node-Aquarius10.49

And mine

Zodiac in degrees
Sun-Aquarius13.51??
Moon-Sagittarius26.19??
Mercury-Capricorn26.37
Venus-Capricorn28.45??
Mars-Taurus8.10
Jupiter-Taurus26.24
Saturn-Capricorn9.17??
Uranus-Capricorn3.35
Neptune-Capricorn11.07
Pluto-Scorpio15.08??
Lilith-Virgo29.26??
Asc node-Pisces4.57??

I don't know how to read charts but I have been with my Taurus for 5 yrs and seen him flirt with woman. I think when they are flirting and trying to get some sexual action from you they will say everything you want to hear. I don't think they are lying either. They do feel that way when they say it but when it comes time to get serious about things they start having their reservations about it and will disappear to think about it while you will go nuts wondering what happen to him. Mine has flirted with many but with me he stayed stuck like a sticker for 3 yrs without any such promises and started talking about house, kids and stuff like that in the third year. After that he went ahead and flirted with one and slept around with another but dropped both of them completely when I told him I was leaving. Call me crazy for still having him in my life but I had crazier things happen to me before and while he is trying to clean up his act I am trying work on myself and I know if he doesn't fix his issues of commitment and loyalty I am going to be out of his life eventually. And yes, they do get very jealous if you go flirting with another guy... Although I never have in the past 5 yrs but even if I joke about it my Taurus gets jealous.

I really hope that's not all he's after, I have no intention of sleeping with him right away! His last relationship lasted about four years, I dont know much about it other than at the end she sabotaged his facebook. I guess I'll have to wait for a while and see where it goes...if theres any excessive jealousy I guess I'll have to call it quits and run though, almost all my friends are male!

Posted by jeflogue
Thus far I can say that he is athletic, extravagant, punctual...I couldn't tell you yet about the others because I don't really know yet ( I hope he's not controlling, that would be such a buzzkill).
I would say I'm very pretty, but I don't focus on being feminine. I have blonde hair, blue/green eyes, a little overweight but I carry it in good spots.
Do they get possessive even if, say you go out with a male coworker? Because that would not be ok...can they keep themselves in check?

I'm a novice at this Taurus thing. I hate to dissuade someone from a relationship. There might be one good thing that makes people last forever. I love that Aquarians are observant, intelligent and are not clingy. Your Taurus isn't the slow type. He might want a ready made family. I think that's great. I would score him on how good he is with the kids. There's going to be a system in your home since you have kids, so maybe he won't have bad control issues. People with control issues tend to display them quickly. My Taurus' were controlling. In retrospect, it might have been in how they reacted to me. My Taurus' were only jealous on a competitive level. They wouldn't get jealous of me spending time with guy friend who wasn't rich or attractive. In my experience, Taurus' are incredible fathers and they seem to age well. I would place a lot of weight on that.

Well I'm a Taurus female and it seems as if he's fallen for you hard.Well,as far as the jealousy thing goes,as long as I know you love me,I won't mind you flirting around with girls,at the end of all this,I just want to know that you love me,reassurance yeah.Possessive, well,I think aquarians are more possessive than Taurus? well,that's based on my experience with an aqua.

Hah a lot of the problems in my life now that you said that about sag moons... not that I ever mean to offend people but it has happened way too often. I would say I'm not possessive really, I get irritable when a guy tries to make me jealous but I'm more likely to move on than cling tighter. If i suspect the guy is in fact looking elsewhere, i just move on. Towards the end of my longest relationship (pisces) we'd taken a break to see other people and decide if we really wanted to continue together, but the entire break he was on my tail with all the sappy shenanigans, but had been dating one girl. I finally decided to give it a shot but I figured out pretty quickly that he was still talking to the girl (she was a crazy one! Called me all the time trying to break us up, texting me asking where the lube was because they needed it and similar unattractive things, even when we weren't together, told him she was pregnant and all sorts of crazy butter. This is probably because he lived with me for almost a year after we broke up)
I just told him I was done, not an ounce of possessiveness. I guess that's just the best way to kill my feelings and quick lol

I wonder what her sign was... but back to my taurus situation, we had another date. He is by far the most physically affectionate man I've ever met, which is great but I have a hard time relaxing enough to enjoy it. I told him I thought it was going too fast and he said that was ok and he'd slow down, but later kept trying to stick his hands up my skirt. I guess I'm just going to have to wait a little longer and see how it progresses, he is so sweet but I guess I just dont trust it.

Busyeyes88, that wouldnt really suprise me!
As an update...today he felt we needed to have a "whats your fetish" talk, and told me he thinks some transsexuals are hot and....he wants a "hot wife" relationship, and that this scares most women away. I am imagining this might be why he is so eager.
It certainly makes me very hesitant to continue, as I can't imagine telling someone something like that so early on unless you were trying to weed out people who won't satisfy you.
I am pretty confident I don't want to ever do that. I couldn't care less who someone I'm involved with is attracted to, just so long as we are mutually exclusive. I wouldn't look down on anyone else for doing that, but I would hate every second of it...

My advice is to take is Slow. Slow slow slow.
I met a taurus who seemed to fall Head over heels for me. He came after me for 6 weeks. Presents, time attention. This guy was constantly contacting me wanting to see me. He was professional good looking and seemed so genuine. At 6 weeks I fall and tell him I care for him back and he's gone. Told me he hot scarred of his feelings.
Who knows the real reason but the best advise is take it slow guard your heart until you feel 100 certain he is genuine and don't have sex with him!

Posted by Pink33
My advice is to take is Slow. Slow slow slow.
I met a taurus who seemed to fall Head over heels for me. He came after me for 6 weeks. Presents, time attention. This guy was constantly contacting me wanting to see me. He was professional good looking and seemed so genuine. At 6 weeks I fall and tell him I care for him back and he's gone. Told me he hot scarred of his feelings.
Who knows the real reason but the best advise is take it slow guard your heart until you feel 100 certain he is genuine and don't have sex with him!

What a let down! Jeez, who raises these idiots!! _—

Posted by busyeyes88
@AP911. You are like 'Judge Judy' of dxpnet!! Lol lol

Ha ha ha... Loving JJ! It makes you think though. I have a 9 year old brother and I'm making damn sure he grows up with manners and a heart! He knows when he is older and if he treats a lady (or anyone) badly then I'll whip his arse!