Is this normal Taurus behavior?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by SophiaEva on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 and has 13 replies.

Understanding Taurus Behavior in Relationships

Taurus individuals can be flirtatious and territorial. His behavior might reflect his personality traits or current relationship dynamics. Flirting with others and reserving closeness for private moments could indicate he is testing boundaries or seeking attention. Context and consistency are important to interpret his actions accurately.

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@SophiaEva
11 Years

Post few weeks ago about Taurus man. I'm 35, he's 51. Recent new behavior from him, he blatantly flirts with every woman in class except me. He reserves flirting with me when we are alone together. I don't believe he wants FWB, he probably could have persuaded me to do that, but we are casual friends. What does this behavior mean?

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

It means he's a twat and needs to grow up.

Is this the same one from the exercise class, the dude you said you liked and he went a bit odd?

Clearly he's liking the ego rush. I dunno, maybe you liking him has gone to his head and he's off being a 51 year old Casanova or something. Oh please, I hope he's not doing the 'I'm going to make her jealous' thing.

Pffft... Some dudes just don't know they're born!

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@SophiaEva
11 Years

Should have clarified, before he knew ...I "like" him ... he was flirting with every other woman in the class. I wouldn't say it's tasteless, he pulls it's off as very charasmatic.

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13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by SophiaEva
Post few weeks ago about Taurus man. I'm 35, he's 51. Recent new behavior from him, he blatantly flirts with every woman in class except me. He reserves flirting with me when we are alone together. I don't believe he wants FWB, he probably could have persuaded me to do that, but we are casual friends. What does this behavior mean?

What is "blatant" flirting? With you and with others? What does he say/do?

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@SophiaEva
11 Years

Agent is right. He's a flirt. Blatant flirting-touching someone's arm/shoulder, kissing the back of a hand. This is an exercise class. I'm Libra, I'm not mean to people, generally nice. Having taken the advice of fellow members to move on and simply ignore him, well I did. When I went to class I smiled and said hello/goodbye, he did the same. Couple weeks pass by, I didn't go to 2 classes. When he sees me to say "bye" ... he says, Thursday... right? That's when this class is offered. I reply, I'm not sure yet. He asks why, and i fell into the trap and we got into a conversation about each others work and exercise schedule. At one point he said "you need to keep coming to class." He didn't say why, and I didn't ask. After this, his behavior changed to flirting when we are alone, or not many people around. Maybe he feels awkward of his age?

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Lets get some more details before Agent castrates him.

Oi! I went lightly... Dude's a flirt. We can all be flirts to some degree in some situation... The question is, does he do it well?

Clearly yes because OP is noticing.

Does it matter? Probably not.

OP told the dude she liked him. He wasn't exactly 'chomping at the bit' for her. He wasn't sure and whatever other polite excuse there was etc.

OP just continued as she was, a little disappointed but fair enough, plenty more fish and all that.

Dude decided to continue as he was which is flirting with others, no change there.

Now he probably doesn't openly flirt with OP for some reason. Insert speculative reason here...

He still talks and acknowledges her and still flirts with her but just alone. Is it flirting or is it just conversation?

To me it sounds like conversation. Not flirty but I'm not there.

You know what they say though about boys in the playground being mean to girls... It's because they like them 😉

I just don't really think there's enough here to offer anything worthy to OP.

He's flirting. And?

Nothing.

Need more input... Or castration... Now there's an idea!!

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11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by SophiaEva
Good point. Still searching for answer because I still "like" him. The Libra thing to do is avoidance.

yes, that's understandable but i think it is time to let this one go and besides why set the bar so low? if you have feelings the last thing you should do it enter into a fwb arrangement, even if he was keen. you're rocking it. you're fit. you're sociable. you have a job. you probably have all your own teeth. go get em tiger! find someone who just can't seem to get enough of you.

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Yuk, kissing hands... He probably thinks he's awesome and OP gave him a boost. He's off thinking he's George Clooney now...

Awww bless his little cotton socks... It's all gone to his head!