Help with a Taurus man please, please!!

Yes, lmao... the highlight of myself at the moment!! lol

I dont know maybe our signs are both too stubborn to admit to eachother.. or me having children is probably scaring him off :-/

Gotta love a bit of bingo!

Perhaps just relax a bit more on it all and keep doing what you're doing so you can get to know him slowly but in a group setting of friends so there's less pressure. There's no need to declare your undying love for him right now. He's probably not going anywhere. Perhaps be a little proactive in getting your group together a little more often. Have a few more chats with him, find out more about him. You could ask him out but there probably isn't any need considering you already have the perfect set up to casually get to know him.

I'm not a bull, or a guy, but that's my view.

Yeah I'm thinking I am being pretty impatient.. I just want to know directly from him if he does indeed like me. I havent felt a connection like this in a long time so it's probably why i just cant relax about it! I'm not ready to confess undying love lol no where near that, just want to know either way. I just dont like relying on other people to arrange these meet ups.. like this weekend is a possible but I cant quite work out if he will be there.. I know its his birthday but no one has mentioned it!We havent yet been alone at all its always been with someone there at some point. Guess i just have to put my big girl pants on and wait it out!

Bingo rocks.. I won 20 bucks yesterday lol!!

I also dont want to mention it too much to our mutual friends.. it could make it rather awkward for all!

i would concentrate on establishing a solid friendship for now. anything above and beyond seems to be your imagination running away with you.

what's the rush anyway?

Bulls always want to start out as friends first. We will not just tell you everything about us or relationships unless asked by me or them personally.. some Taurus keep emotions in check for a while and if it's cool later.. then they open up..

We like honesty and communication more than anything...if you mess with a bull use caution .. we get possessive sometimes especially when sex happens..and you two are monogamous only..

..deep down we look for stability, security, independence, goals, good mannerisms, good attitude, and know it takes two with bulls...two sided never one sided.. that may include buying a dinner for you two.. they him buying the movie tickets, or paid the tip and dessert.. pull your weight together some how..

OP- How long have you been together? How many dates have you been on?
Are you just friends now building a foundation?..it's all about mental stimulation for bulls and sex but not right away.. even if the connection is there. At least wait a couple days and you communicate what ever it is you guys want from each other?

What do you like about him? Anything you don't like,? What are the red flags?

I think im rushing my posts here abit. Okay I am in no rush though I do want to talk to him more I want to be his friend first. I want to send him a message and say "hello how are you" type thing to separate the flirting from being out. I want to get to know him and defo dont want to jump into a relationship. I can see he is quite a thinker.. so am I.. im stubborn.. so is he. He seems like he could be quite moody and im not sure how i would handle the his jealousy and possessiveness... this i why I want to get to know him first too. I would just like to talk to him more so we can find out more about eachother. Though we havent been in contact with eachother at all between times we have been out. As in I know he was saying the other day that he might be getting sacked from his job and he was having a meeting the next day... so id like to send a friendly.. "oh how did you get on with that" but because we havent been in touch at all it might seem abit odd and out of the blue to him. I could just be over thinking it all now though! I met him before Christmas just on the odd few occasions but we never really spoke.. its just been the last 5 weeks that it changed abit. Its probably all abit early and that's fine.. im totally happy to approach as friends.. I dont throw myself at people in general.. its not me!

Yes Aries lady, thats why im here lol... speaking to other people complicates things, just keeping quiet about it all at the moment!

you are over thinking it. i mean, you're already worrying about his potential jealousy yet your not even at the stage where you feel comfortable sending him a text.

calm down. let it unfold organically. it may take months. it will if it has any real substance to it.

Yeah I am over thinking!! Btw my OP has disappeared and I cant seem to get it back?? Anyway I'll relax! Thanks everyone!