seira
@seira
9 Years
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Taurus man letting you down gently
I've only have a limited experience with Taurus but they all seemed to enjoy talking and meeting. This guy doesn't seem interested in either based on what you said. But I'm not a Taurus expert.
I suggest moving forward and not giving it anymore thought. You've made your actions noticeable. It will come back around if it's suppose to.
the hot & cold behavior i suspect for a couple of reasons. one, we were co-workers and while i technically didn't report to him, he was a higher level than me on my team so he would often evaluate my work. . two, he is slightly older, in his 40s and i'm in my 30s. three, he is a divorced dad.
he often brought up his status as a single dad and noted that i wasn't as young as he thought i was which i know, isn't flirting, but i thought was intriguing because he rarely spoke about himself, if he spoke at all.
there's something about taureans i noticed that is oddly focused when they interact with people. for example, if we were having a conversation and someone came by to say hi, he would flat out ignore them and wait for them to go away. it's like he was only interested in having a direct conversation with whoever he was speaking with. one time i arrived at an event he was at, he turned away from the group and literally just stared at me until i awkwardly said hi to break the silence. it could just be him though and not an attraction thing.
this feeling is really odd to me - i don't have schoolgirl crushes and i resent that i'm starting to overthink this. i typically develop feelings, find out if they're reciprocated or not and then move forward.
it sounds like pretty much he's either not interested or unwilling to do anything even if he is so sigh, i should let it go. why can't i let this go?
he often brought up his status as a single dad and noted that i wasn't as young as he thought i was which i know, isn't flirting, but i thought was intriguing because he rarely spoke about himself, if he spoke at all.
there's something about taureans i noticed that is oddly focused when they interact with people. for example, if we were having a conversation and someone came by to say hi, he would flat out ignore them and wait for them to go away. it's like he was only interested in having a direct conversation with whoever he was speaking with. one time i arrived at an event he was at, he turned away from the group and literally just stared at me until i awkwardly said hi to break the silence. it could just be him though and not an attraction thing.
this feeling is really odd to me - i don't have schoolgirl crushes and i resent that i'm starting to overthink this. i typically develop feelings, find out if they're reciprocated or not and then move forward.
it sounds like pretty much he's either not interested or unwilling to do anything even if he is so sigh, i should let it go. why can't i let this go?
I think you should move on.
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