Taurus man still worth pursuing??

Me and this Taurus interest have known eachother for about two years. We have a large mutual friend base and met through them. We finally showed interest towards each other about 5 weeks ago or so. We have been hanging out pretty consistantly since then, once a week or so. Like a typical Taurus, he has like two jobs and has a lot going on in his life. I do as well (typical Capricorn lady lol). I strongly feel like we are both into eachother. We lock arms walking down the street, cuddle and watch tv, etc. I had reached a point where I wanted to know if he was interested in me or not because I started to feel like I was the one initiating all contact the past few weeks. I msg'd him, something along the lines, Hey, Im really interested in you, wondering if you felt the same. Its ok if you don't, I just wanted to know

I think its interesting he mentioned his past relationship. On a positive, the heads up could mean he likes you enough to let you know, and then there is him not being over her. Maybe chill on pursuing him, and in the future see if he is ready to pursue you? Until then, scale back to having a friendship. I know as a Cap, when we are honest, its 1) Just us being honest and 2) Us letting you know so the decision is all on you. If anything happens, cant say you didnt know the possibility of it happening...so again, it falls back on you. Im not sure if thats what he's doing here, but its probably best you protect yourself since he doesn't sound 100% ready. idk

He gave you the most honest answer to your question - no games. I respect that.

I would continue on with him but not put all your eggs in one basket so to speak. Take your time, as it's very possible the ex situation might come into play at some point. Tauruses have a hard time letting go and need A LOT of time to do so.

Not sure if I am a taurus expert. I have been in an in&off relationship with a taurus man. In the begining he moved really fast and about 3 months into it, he stepped on the brakes. He kept close but it wasn't the same. Then he moved away and it got harder.
The reasoning he gave you sounds like stuff he would say to me.
He always told me how busy he was. Since he knows your interested I would wait to see what he does.
I chased my taurus and it didn't really do any good.
I hope this helps you a little.

Posted by lnana04
I think its interesting he mentioned his past relationship. On a positive, the heads up could mean he likes you enough to let you know, and then there is him not being over her. Maybe chill on pursuing him, and in the future see if he is ready to pursue you? Until then, scale back to having a friendship. I know as a Cap, when we are honest, its 1) Just us being honest and 2) Us letting you know so the decision is all on you. If anything happens, cant say you didnt know the possibility of it happening...so again, it falls back on you. Im not sure if thats what he's doing here, but its probably best you protect yourself since he doesn't sound 100% ready. idk

I agree. His guard is up and I guess I should keep mine up too. Because the only thing worse than being cheated on sexually, is someone you're dating still being in love with someone else. And I am super patient and because of our large group of mutual friends I know I will run into him soon regardless and we can keep it at a friendship level till/if he feels comfortable. Maybe he won't ever I dunno. Thanks that helped!

Hm. The last time I was severely let down by someone I was merely interested in was about six months ago. Because of how crappy(and that's an understatement) the thing went, I didn't care the day after. The most I was was extremely enraged. Now the last woman I was in love with was someone whom I did not forget about for seven years. Were I to see her again, if she were single, I'd do what I was going to do the day I found out she wasn't working there anymore.

Curiously enough, the reason I'm not particularly keen on pining after her anymore is because I don't know where she's at and since she's bisexual, she's probably married at this point and if it's to a guy, she probably has kids. Also, the person with whom I had the crappy incident with was able to pull me away from the woman from seven years ago. Perhaps that was the point and purpose behind such crappiness? Pull me away from the memory of her just enough so that I could open however slowly to someone who's available and willing?

Answering the first post...
1) You need a partner.
2) The guy need a girl.
3) Both of you know each other already.
I will spell it: J U S T D O I T
You don't need to think and wonder "What if...?". Just go for it.
4) Ah, and last but not least. We Taurus need to hear it, because we are not good at "reading signals" or "making guesses". You need to GRAB HIS HAND, and by your touch he WILL KNOW that you WANT him.
Simple as that. Life is simple, people (usually water people) makes it complicated.

^^^Number four so much, damn it. Why don't people know this? 😆