
Candeh15
@Candeh15
15 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo
Comments: 5 · Posts: 4244 · Topics: 258





Posted by FrictionWe just did a personality study here at work and many of the taureans were either a Coordinating Observer or an Observing Coordinator. Meaning, that when the need arises to take charge, they take it in full stride - take ownership (often with pride) of the role and situation and delegate accordingly. When not in a managerial role, I think we take a back a seat but always are observing and calculating how things can be done more efficiently. But if the role doesn't fulfill some innate purpose or does not compliment our strengths, we usually take a step back and view from the sidelines...




Posted by c0mrade
Candeh,
Nice observation there. How do you manage to read people like that? I am exactly like you described. I am too lazy(the world calls it composed and in control, level headed.. and many other various names.. lol). Let those fake, self-seeking jerks be leaders. But when the situation asks for it, i'll not hesitate to guide people. I'll also want to make the previous ones who held my position look small by achieving the best. 🙂



Posted by Candeh15
The taurus, in general, is so laid back that he or she really doesn't need to take control, because they usually are in control without having to be so immersed in an ordeal.

Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
My father has been in and out of my life since I was a young girl, and my older brother has been the biggest and main male role model in my life. He is a Taurus (a taurus-gemini cusp to be exact) to the core.
My boyfriend, also taurus, said to me that a man knows when to step up when his time has come or when it's completely expected of them. While he was speaking of all men in general, I feel like I've noticed a certain trait among some of the tauruses in my life.
The taurus, in general, is so laid back that he or she really doesn't need to take control, because they usually are in control without having to be so immersed in an ordeal. However, when the time comes, I notice that tauruses can easily take on a leadership role and perfect it. For example, one of my closest girlfriends is a taurus. She's currently the president of our student organization (I'm secretary), and in the beginning, she really had no desire to step up. However, many people were already looking up to her to be president this year, and so when she took it on, she fully took it on. She's always been the type to always be in control anyway, but not with life as a whole. When she needs to be a leader, it's done to a tee. She is hard enough to get the job done, but compassionate enough to understand her subordinates. However, she does not always allow compassion to rule her ways, and she knows when she needs to toss away dead ends.
Not to say that my brother or my boyfriend are like this, but there is something subtle about how they take on roles/their lives in general. As I mentioned, my brother immediately stepped in as a male guardian figure I think without ever having to be told to. He is very laid back and and a softie, but he knows when to be stern and when to reprimand actions and deal out consequences. He has a complete level head on his shoulders. My boyfriend isn't necessarily a leader either, but he stands out without having to have others back him up, and he's responsible for his own actions and honest; he knows his own strengths and weaknesses, and with his strengths, he rises to the occasion every time.