Has anyone gotten back with a Taurus ex after they broke up with you after a period longer than a month? Especially after no contact. How did it happen?
Taurus no contact
everyone's relationship is different. you have to stop thinking about the what could happen and deal with the what is.
you've broken up. you told him how you felt, you are still broken up.
turn your focus to continuing your individual path. as busy already told you in your other thread, you cannot pin your hopes on him coming back and it is pointless to torture yourself with the possibility.
if he wants to come back when he is ready then you can deal with it when it happens. stop romanticising, stop fantasising and try to regain that famous inner libra balance.
be his friend if he needs you to be but be your own friend as well. there is lots of potential out there for you, don't shrink your world to laser in on him and him only. there is so much to be getting on with.
you've broken up. you told him how you felt, you are still broken up.
turn your focus to continuing your individual path. as busy already told you in your other thread, you cannot pin your hopes on him coming back and it is pointless to torture yourself with the possibility.
if he wants to come back when he is ready then you can deal with it when it happens. stop romanticising, stop fantasising and try to regain that famous inner libra balance.
be his friend if he needs you to be but be your own friend as well. there is lots of potential out there for you, don't shrink your world to laser in on him and him only. there is so much to be getting on with.
Posted by jeaneI already understand all of this and I have come to terms with it. I've been focused on myself and my focus has shifted into that. My intent in posting this thread isn't to "fantasize" or "romanticize" anything I just like to know there's people out there that can relate or might have been in a similar situation to mine. It makes me feel better especially when the ending is ideal. That does not have to mean I myself am in denial. I'm completely prepared for him to not come back or contact me in fact it's what I'm expecting. That doesn't mean I can't be HOPEFUL for the ideal outcome and decide I want to hear stories from others who have been through it.
everyone's relationship is different. you have to stop thinking about the what could happen and deal with the what is.
you've broken up. you told him how you felt, you are still broken up.
turn your focus to continuing your individual path. as busy already told you in your other thread, you cannot pin your hopes on him coming back and it is pointless to torture yourself with the possibility.
if he wants to come back when he is ready then you can deal with it when it happens. stop romanticising, stop fantasising and try to regain that famous inner libra balance.
be his friend if he needs you to be but be your own friend as well. there is lots of potential out there for you, don't shrink your world to laser in on him and him only. there is so much to be getting on with.
uh huh.
Posted by Libragirl445romanticising/fantasising = hoping to the point where you keep making threads asking the same question over and over again
Me and my Taurus ex broke up about a month ago but have still been in contact and recently most of which it has been me initiating it. We broke up due to circumstances and me having my guard up which hurt him and he felt was unfair. I had never apologized until the other day when I went to see him and poured my heart out to him after seeing him via text. Telling him why I behaved how I did and that I regret it and still wanted a chance to try again but wanted to respect his decision and give him space. During this month we would still hang out, cuddle and do things but he was definitely very distant. But I did not prod or mention anything about wanting to get back together. His response to the message was that he's glad I told him everything and that it will make things better for both of us, that I'm great and that for now he wants to focus on himself which has nothing to do with us and that we can still be around eachother because "nothing very bad happened" between us. Also that he knows it's not all my fault and he's also guilty of things too and he appreciated being with me. I replied that I understand and I respect that etc. since then he has not replied to my message.
I feel refreshed and free having apologized to him because I know it was what was holding us back, and the reason why he was having trouble wanting to work things out. Right now I guess I'm wondering if there is still a chance for us if I just leave him alone for awhile and give him some space? A couple of days ago when I saw him he kept mentioning how he hasn't been seeing anyone or speaking to anyone since we broke up and how he's been eating healthier, working out and working hard. at this point I'm ready to move on but part of me still wants him and wants to give him more time. What should I make of this situation and should I move on or just take it easy if there's a chance he might come back around
Posted by jeaneThat doesn't mean I am fantasizing it means that I would like more feedback on the situation. Personally I like to have a lot of insight and advice from different people and hear different situations similar to mine. That also helps me to move on which you are telling me to do. Please keep in mind it's a tough situation for me and try to be a little more understanding. If you are tired of seeing my threads I apologize but you don't have to keep responding to them.
uh huh.
Posted by Libragirl445romanticising/fantasising = hoping to the point where you keep making threads asking the same question over and over again
Me and my Taurus ex broke up about a month ago but have still been in contact and recently most of which it has been me initiating it. We broke up due to circumstances and me having my guard up which hurt him and he felt was unfair. I had never apologized until the other day when I went to see him and poured my heart out to him after seeing him via text. Telling him why I behaved how I did and that I regret it and still wanted a chance to try again but wanted to respect his decision and give him space. During this month we would still hang out, cuddle and do things but he was definitely very distant. But I did not prod or mention anything about wanting to get back together. His response to the message was that he's glad I told him everything and that it will make things better for both of us, that I'm great and that for now he wants to focus on himself which has nothing to do with us and that we can still be around eachother because "nothing very bad happened" between us. Also that he knows it's not all my fault and he's also guilty of things too and he appreciated being with me. I replied that I understand and I respect that etc. since then he has not replied to my message.
I feel refreshed and free having apologized to him because I know it was what was holding us back, and the reason why he was having trouble wanting to work things out. Right now I guess I'm wondering if there is still a chance for us if I just leave him alone for awhile and give him some space? A couple of days ago when I saw him he kept mentioning how he hasn't been seeing anyone or speaking to anyone since we broke up and how he's been eating healthier, working out and working hard. at this point I'm ready to move on but part of me still wants him and wants to give him more time. What should I make of this situation and should I move on or just take it easy if there's a chance he might come back aroundclick to expand
alright. i am trying to help you though. all the best.
I understand but a lot of your advice while valid is much easier said than done. And if I was completely capable of following through with it I probably wouldn't be on this website posting threads. At the same time each time I share my situation and get feedback I want to contact him less and less. So that is why I keep seeking advice.
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