Taurus' Parents Stressing Us Out

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Her parents didn't like that I proposed after 3 months and she has to move out super soon. When I asked her if she was still moving in, she avoided the question.

Now her parents don't even want me staying over there anymore, which is a huge shift. I have done nothing but treated their daughter with respect. After assuring her that she could live here and that I have the stability that she seems to seek (she was stressed out by not having stable full time work but seemed to be blaming our relationship for it).

We agreed to meet up for the gym tomorrow so her seeing me seems to be a step forward. Why her parents suddenly seem to dislike me because I proposed and offered her to live with me, I am not sure.

I have assured her that I love her and her being in my life, as she felt the reasons I wanted to marry her "weren't good reasons", but they seemed fine to me? How much do you think is her parents meddling with our relationship? She was distant, got warmer and then hopefully will warm up in person again.

Her contract is finished in 16 days so she will need to make a decision soon to move in with me or otherwise. She would save lots of $ moving in with me.
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She is turning 23. Her mom is Jewish and dad is French. Not particularly religious although she is practicing.

Parents are kicking her out this month and she hasn't looked into a place to stay yet AFAIK.

Dad seemed to love me but her mom seems to hate her mostly and/or whoever she dates. Fortunately, she hasn't given up on us and said she loved how I refuse to give up on our shared love no matter what just the other day.

I said she doesn't have to pay rent for the house but we can share food expenses.
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I guess not many people have experienced the Pisces and Taurus match in the thread? *looking at the negative posts*

She was saying 'it was good to be true' the other day and she has said it before near the beginning, in the first month of us together.

If she is willing to talk to me and stay in the relationship despite her parents not wanting me around, does that mean she will ride the tide and want something longer term?

A friend was right in saying that I should have gone for a promise ring rather than an expensive engagement ring but she has never had a guy buy her jewelry before. She knows I am serious and really want her to move in.

Is there anything I can say or do to convince her to hold on for a little longer while she still lives with her parents? I don't like the fact that she told me our relationship is stressing her out when its been so wonderful without others' meddling!
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I guess not many people have experienced the Pisces and Taurus match in the thread? *looking at the negative posts*

She was saying 'it was good to be true' the other day and she has said it before near the beginning, in the first month of us together.

If she is willing to talk to me and stay in the relationship despite her parents not wanting me around, does that mean she will ride the tide and want something longer term?

A friend was right in saying that I should have gone for a promise ring rather than an expensive engagement ring but she has never had a guy buy her jewelry before. She knows I am serious and really want her to move in.

Is there anything I can say or do to convince her to hold on for a little longer while she still lives with her parents? I don't like the fact that she told me our relationship is stressing her out when its been so wonderful without others' meddling!

Im not a Taurus but I would have serious doubts over a man who proposes after 3 months.
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Well, tonight we hanged out again and her parents found out we went out together last night this morning. She apologized about not being able to have me inside her house (this is ridiculous but worth it if it means we can continue to see each other) and I said,'Don't worry, I am not going to give up!'. She then thanked me rather sincerely.

She was tired near the end of the night but it sounded like she was going to move in and help pay for food for us both but the context was unclear.