Taurus woman and commitment

If she love you yea. Anything if possible she already knows this and if she wasn't sure she would break it off. Or you do ..family topics are extremely important to talk about when getting to know someone.

Kids are deal breakers in relationships, you can't force ppl to want them and you can't ask ppl not to want them. This is a big commitment for her and if she's dead set against kids, then I'm not so sure you even want to try and work this out. Only she knows if she'll be miserable with your kids and you guys need to have an honest conversation about it - if there is any chance of that, then you have a responsibility to your children not to bring this woman into their lives, which you've already done but move her out quickly if she's not going to embrace them.

Posted by Gemini8231
I'm a Gemini woman and my girlfriend is a Taurus. When we met we both said it was like this instant connection together. We have been inseparable ever since. We have been dating for 4 months and have moved in together. She says she wants to marry me that I'm the love of her life. But there is one issue. I have kids. She never really wanted kids and she constantly is in the battle of not wanting to loose me and hating the fact I have kids. As a Taurus who says she is truly in love do you think she will fully commit to me or do you think the issue of me having kids is eventually going to drive her away

I think her tactics are manipulative.

She knew you had children when she met you, dated you, fell in love with you, and moved in with you.

Unless you surprised her with children and left them at her doorstep, I hardly doubt that was the case.

She is a scary type of Taurus.

Watch out for her.

Healthy 'possessive' types for Bulls comes with ownership, along with everything else we want to build.

For every brick we build, we take ownership of....and you're just a part of that brick.

Notice, this is steady, brick-by-brick, nothing gets built overnight.

Our eyes are open, and we're crossing our 'T's' and dotting our 'I's.'

Your Bull is the dangerous type.

A scary kind of 'possessive.'

For those types of Bulls, ownership comes with total domination.

It has nothing to do with the building process.

Everything and anything is about them, what they want, how they feel, how the relationship should be navigated.

What she's really telling you is....

It's me or the children?

Don't fall for it!

Posted by canmini

Posted by Gemini8231
I'm a Gemini woman and my girlfriend is a Taurus. When we met we both said it was like this instant connection together. We have been inseparable ever since. We have been dating for 4 months and have moved in together. She says she wants to marry me that I'm the love of her life. But there is one issue. I have kids. She never really wanted kids and she constantly is in the battle of not wanting to loose me and hating the fact I have kids. As a Taurus who says she is truly in love do you think she will fully commit to me or do you think the issue of me having kids is eventually going to drive her away

you need to go see some psychologist to get help

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Your problem is not her problem.

1. She hates the fact that you have kids.

2. She says "I can't do this."



I'm sorry but if I had kids (which I wished I did) and someone said they couldn't deal with it and that they hate that I have them.. I'd say goodbye.

I mean she has a right to not want kids. But you told her from the beginning. They are a part of YOU. How can she even say "I hate that you have kids" and still love YOU?

It just doesn't seem worth it to me to be someone like that.

This isn't going to work. Move on. She will never accept your kids and there's no point dragging this out in the hope that one day she might change her mind. That is possible but based on the scenario as it is now I'd doubt that plus it's not worth the risk to you or your kids. Find someone who matches what you're looking for and who will accept you and your kids.

I've had two relationships with guys who had kids. It's not for me so I decided I never wanted to date or be with someone who already had kids. It would be unfair for me to date someone with kids now as I could never accept it or be 100% with it. Regardless of how great the guy might be.

Your girl knew upon meeting you that she didn't like or want kids and she knew you had kids. Yet you both embarked on this relationship and are living together after only four months. That's far too soon, for anyone not just a Taurus. I've been with my Taurus fella for nine months and it's only been more recently that we discussed the idea of living together but that happen until we'd been together for at least a year to 18 months. I'm soon to be 37 and he's 46 next year so the 18 month mark is ok for us as we are getting old!

The advice from others on the board is good. You should take it.

This relationship is a no go. I don't see how she can love you & hate your kids.

vry interesting topic, i will continue to read