TAURUS Woman so controlling, it drives me nuts!

@Aquastic- So what is your placements? Do you know hers?

Wait if you are with her like a couple, then you are doing something sneaky..

Why on earth would you post a whatsapp posts wtf are you doing?

Oh you guys not together but if you were then no this isn't going to work and you are friends currently then.

Yikes why on earth is she doing all this for, did you used to go out with her and break up?

@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

@Nevermore that makes sense. It's so silly and sometimes overwhelming for me hey! I even decided to take a break from this friendship and not have friends for a while .....or only befriend males other than female. I need to recover!

@Nevermore but she keeps bragging to everyone on how happy she is with her man, she was even telling me that I should stop dating my guy cause they hes not rich and ambitious as her man blahblahblah!.........

Sometimes in our entire lifetime, a Taurus will have crazy times like this.She doesn't know how it's affecting you and trust me,she doesn't even think she's controlling.She's being overprotective.She likes you a lot as a friend which is why she's constantly in your life(and no,it's not correct, everyone is entitled to personal space). Honestly, I find her naive,her talking everything good about her bf also means she likes him alot.She's very happy with that.She's not returning money and says her bf earns a lot? Hmm,maybe she borrows money to match his standards of spending? she's not able to return maybe because she doesn't have enough funds?(again,that's not right,one should cut their coat according to the cloth) I think she's actually not realising that what she's doing is not correct.She doesn't even.know what she's doing is wrong.My suggestion would be,if you really want to leave her, leave.Later,tell her what annoyed you and don't patch up.If you want to stay her friend,tel her very very politely that what she's doing is wrong.In either case,she'll be raged.After that she may return back or may not.However, atleast she'll know what she did wasn't correct and after that,she'll perhaps never do that to anyone in future.I find her very kiddish.
On the contrary,she might even be a nasty bitch.You'd know better which case she fits in,considering other things you know about her.
I've seen 2 extremes in Taureans,they're either very good or very bad and cunning.
Good Luck! 🙂

we met in 2012 . we met through a friend at a party. But only became best friends in 2014/2015 when all her friends dumped her after she fought with them.

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we met in 2012 . we met through a friend at a party. But only became best friends in 2014/2015 when all her friends dumped her after she fought with them.

Are you guys too young? I used to be very silly when I was a kid.I would do everything to the extremes,fighting, loving...But I always thought it was my Aries Mars,not my Taurus sun.Taurus people are controlled.What's her date of birth?

Thank you @Ilovemyaqua .Profound.

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Sometimes in our entire lifetime, a Taurus will have crazy times like this.She doesn't know how it's affecting you and trust me,she doesn't even think she's controlling.She's being overprotective.She likes you a lot as a friend which is why she's constantly in your life(and no,it's not correct, everyone is entitled to personal space). Honestly, I find her naive,her talking everything good about her bf also means she likes him alot.She's very happy with that.She's not returning money and says her bf earns a lot? Hmm,maybe she borrows money to match his standards of spending? she's not able to return maybe because she doesn't have enough funds?(again,that's not right,one should cut their coat according to the cloth) I think she's actually not realising that what she's doing is not correct.She doesn't even.know what she's doing is wrong.My suggestion would be,if you really want to leave her, leave.Later,tell her what annoyed you and don't patch up.If you want to stay her friend,tel her very very politely that what she's doing is wrong.In either case,she'll be raged.After that she may return back or may not.However, atleast she'll know what she did wasn't correct and after that,she'll perhaps never do that to anyone in future.I find her very kiddish.
On the contrary,she might even be a nasty bitch.You'd know better which case she fits in,considering other things you know about her.
I've seen 2 extremes in Taureans,they're either very good or very bad and cunning.
Good Luck! 🙂

Good Advice ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘

@OP- OHH didn't know that.. But still that is too much even for me and I have some clingy but detachable placements. I can get possessive over things, people, objects, and can lose the appeal to them as well.

@Ilovemyaqua. Yup you know the bull ohh so well.

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we met in 2012 . we met through a friend at a party. But only became best friends in 2014/2015 when all her friends dumped her after she fought with them.

Are you guys too young? I used to be very silly when I was a kid.I would do everything to the extremes,fighting, loving...But I always thought it was my Aries Mars,not my Taurus sun.Taurus people are controlled.What's her date of birth?

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@Ilovemyaqua no we not young, she's 27 and m 29

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@venusstar ....ja but I feel sorry for her cause she's pregnant and doesn't have many friends .I am currently planning 2 baby showers , one at work and 1 at home.

she is 27 years old

you're going to have to be straight forward with her. Don't sugarcoat anything. Tell her what she is doing that is stressing you out. As for the , star from zero and tell her you can't give out anymore money. You're on a tight budget and she should depend on her baby's father for the money.

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we met in 2012 . we met through a friend at a party. But only became best friends in 2014/2015 when all her friends dumped her after she fought with them.

Are you guys too young? I used to be very silly when I was a kid.I would do everything to the extremes,fighting, loving...But I always thought it was my Aries Mars,not my Taurus sun.Taurus people are controlled.What's her date of birth?

@Ilovemyaqua no we not young, she's 27 and m 29

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She's 27? Okay,maybe she feels closest to you than she ever has with any other friend.I don't know,see,don't be friends with her just because she doesn't have many,that ways,you'll be favouring both yourself and her.See if you really want to make it work with her or not,if not,leave.Don't feel bad/guilty that she doesn't have many friends,it's okay,everyone learns from hardships,they make you strong, so will they make her.I believe more than anything, honesty is reqd in a relationship, if you don't feel it from your heart, leave.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Ilovemyaqua. Yup you know the bull ohh so well.

Yeah?I always thought being on the cusp weakened my Taurean energy.

@Op- Its not a relationship and just friends for 2-3 years and yeah if you really think she doesn't deserve your friendship back then just confront and be honest with her. No harm..

You got a lot of things figured out with Taurus just communicate in a way to make her understand....

I am not sure if a lot of Taurus people are like this. Usually we are friends till the end, up to that time we cherish our friendship and take care of you throughout whatever. If we are selfish will I am less selfish and I can want always be around you, hang out or whatever.

You know maybe she's just having crazy pregnancy hormones and feeling very insecure. Lots of changes and maybe she doesn't know how to handle it all. No excuse for acting like a possessive crazy person, but just some thoughts on why she's being like that. I have a Virgo friend that I've known for a million years, but she was bat crap crazy while pregnant, but then she was normal again about 6 months after baby was born. She said after that, she felt like every emotion and thought was magnified and she could see herself being crazy but couldn't stop herself. It was a rough cpl of years but best friends are family so you put up with a lot before you decide you can't do it anymore. Glad I stuck it out but again, we've known each other since we were 15.

Posted by xoxoRain
That is a fucked up friendship.

She seems like an immature taurus to me. Ima bull and I'm nothing like that.

She acts like a 15 year old teenager, u should definitely stand up to her and tell her she's being batshit crazy.

I have an aqua, gf. And me and her get along perfectly fine. She's one of my best friends. I have aqua moon, so we can relate.

Ja she is immature. But m just gonna distance myself from her. I really need my space before I suffocate.

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

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I am definitely gonna put my foot down, or else I will not live freely.I reckon I can be too nice,then people start taking advantage. but when I do get pissed, yo yo yo! it's war!

And recently one of her friends borrowed money, I still don't understand why she would come to me for money cause me and that other girl(her friend) are not close and I don't even like her.But being a nice person that I am I borrowed her too....ang guess what......?

The guy I was with for a while hooked up with a Taurus...Hes cappy. She drove him nuts with all this and left her, she threatened to commit suicide and made out to her friends and family that she did so her mum would call him begging him just talk to her give her something a message anything give her a chance. He slowly got back with her and is training her on how to be with him. He pretty much does whatever the hell he wants now and she accepts, does her job, comes home, doesnt sociliaze and focuses entirely on him and her job. Im still trying to figure out if this is the secret to a happy relationship. Of course he still sees me, hes out almost every night (this is why i couldnt be with him for a "serious" relationship even though i did eventually fall in love with him)

She just moved nearby to be with him full time again and i told him to not contact me anymore go make an attempt at his relationship. He's still messaging. He seems pretty confident that he can keep the 2 of us I guess lol.

Posted by LibraLovesHim
The guy I was with for a while hooked up with a Taurus...Hes cappy. She drove him nuts with all this and left her, she threatened to commit suicide and made out to her friends and family that she did so her mum would call him begging him just talk to her give her something a message anything give her a chance. He slowly got back with her and is training her on how to be with him. He pretty much does whatever the hell he wants now and she accepts, does her job, comes home, doesnt sociliaze and focuses entirely on him and her job. Im still trying to figure out if this is the secret to a happy relationship. Of course he still sees me, hes out almost every night (this is why i couldnt be with him for a "serious" relationship even though i did eventually fall in love with him)

She just moved nearby to be with him full time again and i told him to not contact me anymore go make an attempt at his relationship. He's still messaging. He seems pretty confident that he can keep the 2 of us I guess lol.

Ja your guy is lucky to have someone so understanding like you. If only he met you first, cause obviously this Taurus monster is unbearable to be with. Ja they do like moving in or next to a guy 's place, or even worse invite a guy to move in with them while they pay for rent. , just so they can control a guy's movements, they will display a happy relationship picture to everyone while they know it's not so happy .

Posted by Arielle83
My sis is a Taurus and 3 years younger. She always made a point to let me know when mom and dad bought her the more expensive gift. She compared herself to me and now that we're older she compared get looks to me.

She taught me to be humble and non materialistic because I saw the hole she left in my dad's wallet for all her video game consoles, electronics etc. my dad even bought her a car. She wasn't a saver or a worker like me. Watching her whine and compare made me realise what I don't want to be.

I think this is an opportunity to learn about yourself. She's comparing herself cuz she basis shit on materialism, and not value. She's comparing surface shit. I just see shallow.

I love my sis to bits and realise now where she's gets her validation and it's fine, because I don't operate like that.

You have to set boundaries and tell her her opinions aren't needed.

@ Arielle 83 .....that was a good way of deaking with her while learning.

I myself have learned a thing or two about what I want just by watching my Taurus friend. To them It's about what other people see. Your sister is no different from my friend. she is also materialistic, she can't even see when she's being played cause she blinded by materials.She always advices me to go for rich guys and m not interested in a guy's money but other things.Bad influnce

Stop being friends with her?

thanks for the advice@BlondeAmbition

All signs do what? The moving in or the controlling?

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All signs do what? The moving in or the controlling?

Both!

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not me I have never moved in with a man and play wife n get dumped for being so cheap. And lastly I don't control men.

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

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I have noticed thus far. Is just that I don't like acting like dog unnecessarily , but hey I will set my boundaries , and that's only if I wanna have anymore friends, cause pew m enjoying my fresh air!

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

I have noticed thus far. Is just that I don't like acting like dog unnecessarily , but hey I will set my boundaries , and that's only if I wanna have anymore friends, cause pew m enjoying my fresh air!

You don't have to be classed as a "dog" because you stand up for yourself.. PV&J is coerce. Taurus hates weakness. If we become overbearing, we respect the one who has the guts to put us in our place than the one who will let us get away with murder... A taurus will push the boundaries as far as they can go until the person says STOP! At least this is how I am..

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I would move away from such a person cause m not about to play parent to someone my age. Moving away is the best medicine cause taurus hate to be alone. atleast in my Aquarius books aquas don't ming flying solo. People should lean to treat others like they would like to be treated. And I can super nice to a person don't won't even think I don't like them anymore. And why would I put myself into such misery just for friendship , atleast if I was married I would know it was for good cause, but friendship , I could'nt careless.

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"coerce" should read "correct"!!

. Lol I nearly googed that wordm...thanks @busyeyes

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

I have noticed thus far. Is just that I don't like acting like dog unnecessarily , but hey I will set my boundaries , and that's only if I wanna have anymore friends, cause pew m enjoying my fresh air!

You don't have to be classed as a "dog" because you stand up for yourself.. PV&J is coerce. Taurus hates weakness. If we become overbearing, we respect the one who has the guts to put us in our place than the one who will let us get away with murder... A taurus will push the boundaries as far as they can go until the person says STOP! At least this is how I am..

I would move away from such a person cause m not about to play parent to someone my age. Moving away is the best medicine cause taurus hate to be alone. atleast in my Aquarius books aquas don't ming flying solo. People should lean to treat others like they would like to be treated. And I can super nice to a person don't won't even think I don't like them anymore. And why would I put myself into such misery just for friendship , atleast if I was married I would know it was for good cause, but friendship , I could'nt careless.

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I have been friends with this Taurus Woman , for about a year now. Jeez! I can't breathe or fart anymore. she wants to know every detail of my life , and I mean every detail. She checks my phone messages, who called me and will even why they said. my whatsapp , when I post a picture she's the first to comment, or ask questions.She wants to control my relationship too, always asking personal details about me and my partner, degrading my relationship and my partner, making her and her partner look perfect. And other thing she borrows money and never pay it back while she will flaunts how much money her man is making.

I really hate it when people control me .She likes fixing peoples problems.

I guess being controling is also a Taurus trait, I use to have a Taurus friend who did the same thing to me, I guess I though it was his Scorpio rising but I could be wrong, well put your foot down and let her know she should not do that

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did she also love money too much?

@Aquastic- So what's new with this situation you posted any good or bad out of it?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Aquastic- So what's new with this situation you posted any good or bad out of it?

come again!?

You post this awhile back. I asked you how's things going with this particular situation is or was?

Oh ok. She went for maternity leave she got a baby boy now , so I don't see her. When She texts I take too long to respond , and I only respond with 1 word. I have no close friends at the moment and I'm less stressed. I am happy! No new friends no no nooo! I go to movies alone, during lunch I sit alone.I have even become more productive on my work.I've always been warned by psychics to not surround myself with too many friends or too close friends , but I never listened. So now that I've learned my lesson , I'm flying solo with my polo.

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The guy I was with for a while hooked up with a Taurus...Hes cappy. She drove him nuts with all this and left her, she threatened to commit suicide and made out to her friends and family that she did so her mum would call him begging him just talk to her give her something a message anything give her a chance. He slowly got back with her and is training her on how to be with him. He pretty much does whatever the hell he wants now and she accepts, does her job, comes home, doesnt sociliaze and focuses entirely on him and her job. Im still trying to figure out if this is the secret to a happy relationship. Of course he still sees me, hes out almost every night (this is why i couldnt be with him for a "serious" relationship even though i did eventually fall in love with him)

She just moved nearby to be with him full time again and i told him to not contact me anymore go make an attempt at his relationship. He's still messaging. He seems pretty confident that he can keep the 2 of us I guess lol.

Ja your guy is lucky to have someone so understanding like you. If only he met you first, cause obviously this Taurus monster is unbearable to be with. Ja they do like moving in or next to a guy 's place, or even worse invite a guy to move in with them while they pay for rent. , just so they can control a guy's movements, they will display a happy relationship picture to everyone while they know it's not so happy .

All signs do this!

Not ALL signs.

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true that!

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

I have noticed thus far. Is just that I don't like acting like dog unnecessarily , but hey I will set my boundaries , and that's only if I wanna have anymore friends, cause pew m enjoying my fresh air!

You don't have to be classed as a "dog" because you stand up for yourself.. PV&J is coerce. Taurus hates weakness. If we become overbearing, we respect the one who has the guts to put us in our place than the one who will let us get away with murder... A taurus will push the boundaries as far as they can go until the person says STOP! At least this is how I am..

This reminds me of a 23 year old Taurus girl who works for my mom. My sister and I can't stand her, and neither can my fiancee. Most of the time she thinks she knows more about something than the next person, she's one of those "know-it-alls", and she has a real bossy attitude about her - could be her Leo moon, not sure.... So I smile with glee when my mom or myself put her in her place, and subtly remind her who the bosses of the company are. We're not nasty to her, but rather a bit firm when needs be. She's got a good side, like everybody else, but sometimes her bad side outweighs the good.

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that's the thing about Taurus woamen, they are like mosquitos ,always on everybody's nerve. you are right by saying the bad outweighs the good. People were always shocked to know that she's now my friend cause she's the total opposite of me, and I would

Posted by MysteriousPresence
I won't say EVERY Taurus woman is like that. I have met some really sweet ones.

I have only met bad ones hey! on count they are 3. maybe is because I come across as sweet and controllable to them so they show their true colours to me.

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I won't say EVERY Taurus woman is like that. I have met some really sweet ones.

you are right.

Ja I'm yet to meet one but next time I will make sure I don't come as close as the woman I'm referring to on this thread, not that I had control over it cause everything happened so fast and she was the one pushing through .

Posted by ShadowAbsorber
She's trying to discover if you're trustworthy or not.

More likely than not, she's given her trustworthiness and whole heart to someone in the past, and have been burned, so now it's harder to trust.

and she shouldn't have to cause , I really hate pretending, so m honest to everyone I choose to share my life with.

ja she trust people very easily , even when people warn her ,she keeps on trusting and she gets burned very bad!

she's like a 3 year old, too trusting, its like her instincts don't work properly. she's had guys promising her anything even an aeroplane, and would believe them, and will brag about the aeroplane before it's even bought.

i hate getting burned so i fly solo, but if i am hungry you can come if we're cool..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
i hate getting burned so i fly solo, but if i am hungry you can come if we're cool..

good ! dets my strategy now!

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

I notice this with Taurus, Aries, Leo and Scorpio, they will walk over you and make your life miserable if you let them, but if you put your foot down and let them know that you are the man, they can literally become your bitch

And just when you think you have them, they flip the script and make you the bitch instead. And then you run away.

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it's terrible

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@FirstDecan I am a woman myself and straight.

- I don't know my placements neigher do I know hers.
-I mean when I use a picture of my boyfriend as a profile picture on whatsapp....get it?

Are Taurus people this controlling or is it just this girl?

It's your phone ; your money etc. Unless she has physically put a gun to your head, how does she get away with these things? The answer: YOU allow it!!!!

Put your foot down and tell her to stop!! ✋ but you don't... Are you scared of her? It seems like a very f**** up "friendship"!!!

+1

If you're a doormat, a Taurus will wipe their feet on you. Not all Taureans are this way, but many are. They only respect people who stand up for themself. If you seem weak and easy to control, they will take advantage. Caps are the same way.

I notice this with Taurus, Aries, Leo and Scorpio, they will walk over you and make your life miserable if you let them, but if you put your foot down and let them know that you are the man, they can literally become your bitch

And just when you think you have them, they flip the script and make you the bitch instead. And then you run away.

Water energies not good mix for taurus earth energy.. Too much water turns the earth too mud...

But having said that I would rather cope with scorp energy than cancer and pisces..

My bestie at school was a scorp..

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It's not easy to dump a friend. And no I am not talking about her behind her back, our friendship affected me in a very bad way, m just off loading. And it's better to off load here unlilke if I spoke about this with people who knew her or me.

Tell her

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Tell her

I don't have the balls to. M thinking of jst ignoring her slowly until our friendship dies. It's better I think....

I don't like even like talking about it , but talking about it here has helped me, cause people have come across something similar to mine. I thought maybe I was gonna seem like a bad person, but hey my soul just could'nt take it anymore. M glad I opened up! It's not even about advice , it's mainly good for ones soul to off load , so that my shoulders.