Taurus Women; Why Do You Stay?

I love my Taurus BFF and I can honestly say she is the only woman I can live with.

She eats me out of house and home but she always pulls her weight; she has a wonderful sense of humor but a penchant for dangerous or abusive men.

He's staying in a physically abusive relationship for 15 years and just had the courage to leave two years ago. Now she's with a man who doesn't physically abused her but he mentally abuses her.

He's a Pisces a really good provider and I think he needs a green card. At first he wined and dined her and paid for everything now he tells her she has to pay him back for all the things that he bought her. He's bought a home in a very nice area she and daughter live with him and every day she's in tears over something cruel mean or abusive that he said.

He tells her that she is fat nobody will want her etc. She said in the beginning he was everything she wanted in a man and he pretended to be this wonderful man and as soon as he caught her that's when he changed.

He doesn't buy her birthday or Christmas presents Valentine's gift nothing however if she cries he'll take her out to get something to eat. She cries and cries and cries but stays and stays and stays.

Everyday she tells me that she's getting tired she's tired she's tired! She said being mean doesn't work being nice doesn't work nothing works everyday is drama.

I finally after two years of listening to this told her that she stays because obviously she likes it otherwise she wouldn't be there. She grosses $ 1865 every two weeks; here in the South - she could afford a beautiful place for just $ 900.

But his house is in the suburbs and I guess Tauruses really like nice houses. I finally told her after she went on her I'm so tired I'm so tired these are the mean things he said this week spell I said you must like it!!!

Or she wouldn't be there right?

I don't thin he problem is astrological, it's psychological.

She did not seek therapy or healed during those two years.

15 years is a long time!

I love the staying-power of Taurus women.

What's his ethnicity??

You said she's the only friend you could see yourself living with. Why not start looking at nice houses for the two of you and her kids. By combining your incomes you'll be able to afford more for less.

Posted by LadyNeptune
What's his ethnicity??

Why is that relevant?

Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by LadyNeptune
What's his ethnicity??

Why is that relevant?

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It might be...I'm going somewhere with this.