I screwed up with Taurus man and want him back.

So...I freaked out and lashed out and I don't know how to fix this.

He Taurus man me Taurus woman.

Long story short.

We met online about 1 and a half years ago (mutual FB friends)

Our correspondence came and went, but it were always genuine about our thoughts and feelings. He was by then still married and I was involved with an other man so we respected each others boundaries and never pursued or persuaded each other.

Tho both of us were well aware that we had feelings for each other. We both live in two different continents which was safe, no possibilities to have a sneaky affair. October last year I was in his country, he was abroard. Mid last year he got divorced and I split this year with my Libra man.

A few weeks ago I was back in his country and we finally met.

Now comes the frustrated part of my story and a cry for help.

When we met we hit it off. It was like two old souls seeing each other after years, we talked, laughed, cried and had fun and ended up sleeping with each other. The next morning I was to meet some friends, he was to pick up his son and we both planned to meet in the afternoon and I should call when I was done. I did, he sounded down, and told me there were some problems with his ex, and he would call me back. He didn't. This was on a sunday. The Monday I left heading back to the capital city. He called asked if I could wait for him and take a bus later. 2 buses later he still didn't show up and I left.

Once settled I ran this whole ordeal through my head and was quiet angry and felt quiet cheap. I tried to call and ask what had happend, not reachable. So I texted my feelings and he responded immediately by calling and apologising he explained that he was mad about something with his ex that and he just wasn't in the mood to bring me in this whole ordeal. He apologised and said he would try and figure out how to come over (3 and a half hours bus ride) so to explain everything. No show. Two day later I send him a text, saying I was at the airport, heading home, that it was a shame it ended like this and wished him well.

The next day he called, said he had finished for the week and asked if I were around so we could spend some time together. Told him he should have read his texts I send him and hung up. I was done. The next morning he sends me a quoted photo which confused me. I expressed my thoughts and feelings, how all of this has hurt me, how happy I was to have finally met him and how confusing his silence and distance was making me and if he could just explain what was happening...he replied that I was awesome and that he liked me and that we were more than just friends and I should know this. I again asked..why the silence and distance. No response.

So today I got lead by my own stupid thoughts and I just had enough and so I texted him. I sort of less made him out as a fuckboy, that he had his fun, but lost my respect and friendship along the line and that this was nothing to be proud of and that I think he didn't  gave a damn anyway. The hurt bull in me felt like lashing out before thinking and I think I damaged and broken anything little that was good about this frustrating dating/flirting/unknown road I was heading into with this guy and I'm regretting every single word.

No reply...

My reaching out to you with this story is a plea for help or insight to the man bull. Can this be fixed, can I fix this and how?

I as a bull know I am not that forgiving when I'm hurt. But once over I will mend what I have broken or hurt but have a hard time healing from ones that hurt me.

Damn...the more I write the more I realise I screwed this up badly.

Why would you want to fix this? Move on, he's already showed you who he is.

Im confused as to what you did wrong here.

Posted by jeane
Im confused as to what you did wrong here.

Less about what she did and more about what she's trying to do...fix it.

Op he doesn't give a fuck about you. He doesn't respect your time, he doesn't respect you. But by all means, continue to cling to someone that is walking away.

Yeah you lashed out on someone who is going through something with possibly and ex and their kid. Majorly because if you were patient enough and understood then you all be talking still. But you put your foot down and put him down. You Don't want that friendship.

There's no excuse though to have some one miss there bus trips and still not show up. That's wrong. But maybe it's just not the time to go through relationship you guys. But nothing wrong with friendship building on the situation.

If you want someone long term he is not the one. Meaning if your ready and he's not you two are on two different pages and you must move on to someone else.

Posted by TaurusinTexas
Why would you want to fix this? Move on, he's already showed you who he is.

These are my feelings as well. You were trusting, sensitive and accomodating and he made you feel cheap and used and hastled. He was inconsiderate of your feelings, your comfort and your time. That's a trifecta from hell IMHO.

Yep! I'd just leave it, you did nothing wrong, so really you are just trying to fix his mistake, by reversing it and taking on the blame yourself.

I would take up a hobby or go on a few dates with other men, if he wants you, he will make himself known.