teach me to please my bull.

i asked him to sing to me, he told me no because i dont act right. i asked him how should i act, he said like his lady. well im a aquarius and i have no clue what a taurus guy needs from a woman. so can someone help me? lol im so lost. btw we arent together yet.

aww my aqua girl heres some tips from another aqua

#1 never ask these guys to do anything, they dont like being bossed around (they're a fixed (stubborn) sign just like us) compliment him and tell him how much you love his voice and he'll be sure to serenade you 'till you melt
#2 look sexy, be sensual, cook for him and let him feel like hes the man (if only just for one day) and he will be sure to please you honey (I know its hard for aqua girls to bend-over backwards just for a dude given that our motto is to always be true to ourselves and that is something we never compromise)
#3 Patience & I cant stress this enough BE PATIENT!!! these guys are the slowest beings on the planet, they're the snail and your the firefly, so do the math either u slow down or fly along.

I know how much of a challenge this may be and lets be honest we aquas thrive on challenge & the minute we conquer then mission accomplished and its on to the next...

I'm not a man, but I'll weigh in here.

Be yourself, cannot stress this enough. Most Taus, unless dulled by something extraneous, have keen built in BS detectors. Someone not on the level tripwires that.

That aside this is what this Bull enjoys, feel free to flip it around for the one with the built in kickstand.

Someone strong, with a clear voice. This is mentally. Physically someone that can go the distance and keep up with me. In ALL areas. I can keep going and going when I want too, like a dozer or the Energizer bunny, KEEP UP. Hell, surpass me, that's impressive and dare I say...? ( Dare, DARE.. ) arousing.

Love to touch and be touched. Kissed, caressed, snuggled with, it runs the gamut. I am physical, and require that. Don't talk about it, DO IT. Want that want, desire and need for me right up front. Same with PDA. Hold my hand, put an arm round my waist, swat/grab hold of my ass. 'Make me a sammich!'

Do NOT talk down to me, belittle me in public, question my loyalty, integrity or feeling, ever. This should not even be in question. Do NOT bandy about the sex life. DO feel free to have amazing flashbacks, but discussing bedroom tactics and chandelier swingings with your girls/guys, tacky. And as to sex, expect A LOT of it. The appetite isn't discussed in zodiac handbooks because it's inaccurate, it's because it's truth. Take your vitamins, drink your juice, there is some good loving to be had. That fire in my eyes isn't because I want to knit mittens. Learn my cues. If you aren't so keen on them, I'll push things along, at times rapidly. And do expect marks of ownership in discreet places.

If I am there giving you me, my time, my energy, my ear..if I share with you my life, my habits, ME in other words, HELLO! Shoe in. If you're in doubt, refer to the Taurean Handbook, it's bolded.

Food is ...it's sensual, it's enjoyable, if you can't cook, LEARN. It's a skill and a good one. Taking him breakfast, cooking a damned fine meal to come home too with all that wafting in the air..and if he can cook, mo' bettah. Hanging out in the kitchen in your jammies ( or with nothing on at all ) ..perfection.

Love the outdoors, and not just that, let it steep. Gardening, just setting and letting the sun shine on you, swimming ( LOVE the water! ) fishing, boating, walking, hiking, camping, out in the woods, um, YES PLEASE.

Smell good, and I do mean GOOD. I'm not talking about work sweat or exercise sweat. That is sexy as HELL. Something right swervy about the thought of a man coming home from work and tossing me over his shoulder and hauling my ass to the bedroom.

Make the dwelling a HOME. This is where one reigns. And it should be tasteful, restful, clean, good smelling. Candles/fireplace a definite plus.

Lady/gentleman on the street and a flat out FREAK in the sheets.

Know how to give a massage, feels amazing. You'll have the favor returned, in spades.

Nothing artificial. Flowers, silk, leather..I mean honestly, a leather couch? Oh yeh. Touchy touchy, can't keep your hands off of it.

MUSIC, good grief music! All sorts.

Appreciate a damned good sarcastic sense of humor, and a filthy one.

Make me think, but never let me question where you stand. For I like to know exactly where I do.

I am a closet ( HA! OBVIOUS ) romantic. Be aware. Actions louder than words.

Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark.

And another, if you're mine..be proud of that. I expect full yodeling from every mountain top. Because I'll be doing the same thing, in full voice. I refuse to be a secret or on a wish list. SPEAK UP, and LOUDLY. Not plans B, C, or D, I am IT. The one and only. Suck it up. Because what I expect, I give back.

Keep drama to a minimum. Every Tau I know ( including m'self ) can't stomach it. Be dramatastic with other girlies if you must, but no thanks for moi.

Not meant to be exhaustive, just some things to consider.

thanx everyone for your individual input...it is very appreciated.

@Starfish225 how reserved & complicated can these bulls be.. seriously?

I met this guy and he causally invited me for drinks with his friends and I agreed in my head we're just friends but all night he was extremely attentive which I didn't mind since he made me laugh. We go to his house after, talk about random things then out of the blue he asked me to slow dance with him in the middle of his apartment to some beautiful neo-soul music. I dont know how but he hypnotized me with such sensual fineness hmmm.. u can probably guess the rest.. it felt so good so natural yet I barely knew him.

...next morning like any sensible aquarius woman I try to pull away & run like hell but he insisted we cuddle and then he put his voodoo move on me again.. these sneaky freaky deaky bulls!!

So I withdraw to analyze these creatures from a distance, my research begins here: finding out their motives, drive, needs and whatever else.. next I will put him under a microscope then dissect him so I can provide answers to all mankind specially u prettyme if its the last thing I do!!

...a few days later he texts about the marks I left on his shoulder, I apologize like any person with a soul would then he asks me to come spend time with him, said I was going out with my girls, he suggested we could all have some drinks with his boys, out of foolishness I agree. I get to the spot and this man cooked and prepared some of the most delicious margaritas I've ever tasted, great music, he made everyone laugh & wooed the shxt out of me, literary acted like we're a couple.. so I freak out a little and decided to grab my girls and run! he and his friends decided to run with us, we go to the club where its dark, the music is loud and soo many ppl to mingle with.. I do my flirting thing and this bull says its time to go, I say am staying and he just walks out on me! and am like peace.. enjoying the rest of my night, afew rum & cokes later I texts him and hes home waiting for me.. heehee

heres where it gets interesting... I dont know where I stand! and this dude is taking his sweet time. is it purely physical or is it something more? how do these bulls break things down?
...we text back and forth and he calls here and there, we joke and such but I dont know if he wants me to let him know what the deal is or hes waiting for the right time.
Meanwhile, what should I do, continue with the patience/withdrawal game or grab the bull by its horns & lay it down?

Posted by PrettyMe
i asked him to sing to me, he told me no because i dont act right. i asked him how should i act, he said like his lady. well im a aquarius and i have no clue what a taurus guy needs from a woman. so can someone help me? lol im so lost. btw we arent together yet.

I think he told you this because of your behavior in the club the flirting I am just assuming, Like the others said with this sign patience is key. They like to get physical but that does not mean they want a relationship it's takes them a while to know if that is what they want and they will still be physical with you in the mean time.

i kinda have to LOL at "Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark"

Uhmm.. THIS is exactly what Taurians do, but hate it when done to them...selfish bastards 😛

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Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark.

Wow VB, I loved everything you said, can picture it all in my mind..I especially liked this ^^^^ 🙂

Posted by MrsJones
i kinda have to LOL at "Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark"

Uhmm.. THIS is exactly what Taurians do, but hate it when done to them...selfish bastards 😛

Lol, I posted before reading yours MrsJones

Posted by MrsJones
i kinda have to LOL at "Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark"

Uhmm.. THIS is exactly what Taurians do, but hate it when done to them...selfish bastards 😛

LOL Not THIS Bull...I will lay the smackdown on everything from work schedule and beyond so someone can pinpoint my butt. GPS unnecessary.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Posted by venusianbull



Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark.

Wow VB, I loved everything you said, can picture it all in my mind..I especially liked this ^^^^ 🙂

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🙂 *snappily saluting*

Posted by venusianbull

Posted by MrsJones
i kinda have to LOL at "Keep in touch, do not withdraw. That signals lack of interest to me, and I will mirror that. Hurt most likely. Don't do it. If you're working, say so. Busy, say so. But don't leave me in the dark"

Uhmm.. THIS is exactly what Taurians do, but hate it when done to them...selfish bastards 😛

LOL Not THIS Bull...I will lay the smackdown on everything from work schedule and beyond so someone can pinpoint my butt. GPS unnecessary.

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I had a tracking chip embedded in my left buttock.
I'm easy to track, unless I'm a little gassy. 😛

LMAO ^ Well that is why everything must be Scotch-Guarded. To avoid such unseemly incidents. Kind of fries the wiring a tad, especially after a great Mexican meal and some great beer. We won't even get into German food, it's..it's..well it's frightening.

he has been distant this past week. ever since we first met he has been the one to call me but he recently told me that if i dont call him then he wont call. when i do call sometimes he doesnt answer, its never good enough for him, he says i call too late but i actually call around the same time that he has always called me. im so confused with this situation and i cant do it anymore so im choosing open up my options. life is too short for me to be patiently wait for him to stop being so emotional. i know he will come around but he believes its all about him and his feelings. that alone is not fair to me because i have invested my time and feelings into this. he acts like im just suppose to accept everything he does and not be upset. he too selfish and stubborn for my taste. i care about him but i love me. so i will keep yall posted if things change for the better.

Good luck to you pretty. 🙂

lol thanx because i need it.

1. We can "speculate" all day on what's the best ways to please him, BUT only HE knows. So ask him yourself. You'd be surprised at how brutally honest he'll be in laying out exactly what he expects from you.

However, if he responds to your question by giving you overly generalized/short answers, then...

2. Be his best friend & companion. NOT his parent. Not his counselor. Not his boss.

3. Act like a lady when in public around him or when you're around his folks. Taurus' are big fans of how women "carry themselves" so if you're always looking classy & reserved, that's a plus.

4. Physically AND verbally show your appreciation for him. He needs to see that even us non-mushy Aquas can be extremely affectionate, touchy-feely, verbally appreciative & ok with being "mushy" just like he is.

5. Be patient with him. He won't fully invest in/trust you unless he's sure that you won't give up on him every time he makes a mistake or does something small.

6. Give him his freedom, BUT not too much. Give him his room & let him know that you trust him, but at the same time never be too far from his reach b/c when he needs you, he's NOT gonna want to have to go too far to reach you.

7. Do all the things that other ladies do with their mates. Cook for him. Keep a clean house. Make him laugh. Laugh at his humor, no matter how dry it may be. Sex him real good =P Verbally tell him that you love him alot. If the Aqua in you will allow this, mark your territory & be a little possessive of him sometimes..since he associates this to mean that he cares when he is this way with you, he'll naturally assume that you being that way means the same thing when done to him.

8. Show him that your differences in personality don't necessarily have to come b/w you two. He needs to know that you'll support him no matter what.

but i cant ask him because he wont even answer my calls. its been a week and i need alot of attention from the one im seeing. everytime he gets upset he does this and i know he needs space but he doesnt consider my feelings and what i need. its way too early in this relationship to be going through all of this. i just found out that he is in trouble with the law, which i had to find out through facebook. so im throwing in the towel, the advice will be used for my next taurus.

Ooooooo. — 😄