tell aries guy to be patient with tauren

I'm not quite as aggressive as a typical aries guy, the other parts of my chart are more chill and my venus is in taurus so I'm more into commitment and security so I think we'd be a good match, but I still get that "obsession" when the chase is on and not sure if her lack of mutual "obsession" is a lack of interest or just this weird patience thing that I'll never understand?

I get some good clues like she always maintains eye contact and we have good conversation but I get really bad vibes like she gets knee jerk reactions to pull away when I try to hold her hand and she's gradually slower to respond to texts

I think I came on too strong and told her I really like her and now she's bored, how can I respark her interest? I keep demonstrating financial security and a functional understanding on "how things work" in our common interests, those are turn ons right?

Let her come to you. Please don't make the same mistake I did! Concentrate on yourself but spoonfeed them the love and security.

that seems contradictory, I'm not exactly sure how you spoonfeed affection while playing "hard to get?" She seems very intentful about letting things in her life, and now there's like 2hr distance, so she's being realistic and I'm pulling the typical idealist approach and welcome the challenge

Where's her Venus?

her venus is in piscies, both our moons are cancer

mine:
Sun 5??07' Aries
Moon 9??15' Cancer
Mercury 12??56' Pisces
Venus 20??45' Taurus
Mars 21??41' Capricorn
Jupiter 3??40' Taurus
Saturn 2??20' Capricorn
Uranus 1??00' Capricorn
Neptune 10??07' Capricorn
Pluto 12??08' –? Scorpio
Chiron 23??35' Gemini
Ceres 2??15' Pisces
Pallas 8??19' Aquarius
Juno 27??44' Aries
Vesta 24??15' Cancer
Node 23??01' Pisces
Lilith 19??49' –? Leo
Fortune 18??46' Leo
AS 14??38' Taurus
MC 24??46' Capricorn

hers:
Sun 8??56' Taurus
Moon 9??28' Cancer
Mercury 15??52' –? Taurus
Venus 24??50' Pisces
Mars 6??26' Pisces
Jupiter 6??42' Cancer
Saturn 25??19' Capricorn
Uranus 9??29' –? Capricorn
Neptune 14??32' –? Capricorn
Pluto 16??37' –? Scorpio
Chiron 12??04' Cancer
Ceres 9??11' Cancer
Pallas 19??50' Taurus
Juno 19??13' –? Scorpio
Vesta 14??26' Aries
Node 12??05' –? Aquarius
Lilith 4??23' –? Scorpio
Fortune 9??29' Leo
AS 8??58' Gemini
MC 12??50' Aquarius

how do I chase but in a chill way then?

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Posted by crufax00
how do I chase but in a chill way then?

I don't think you can do much wrong with slow and steady. 🙂

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I agree with slow n steady.. my aries ex bf was moving too fast in a relationship.. it didnt last more than 6 weeks! He also said he loves me too quickly when we were getting to know eachother still.. I felt rushed then tried to catch up, but eventually it didnt work out, both of us were not yet satisfied