The Bull Market

Hello Bulls and Bullettes!

What sustains your interest in an individual long term?

I used the metaphor Bull Market as it applies to characteristics of optimism, investor confidence and expectations that strong results will continue.

How do you determine the individual you're dating is worth the time and investment to secure a long lasting future with this individual?

What are your expectations?

What makes you optimistic about this individual?

Posted by TaurusBull1977

What are your expectations?
What makes you optimistic about this individual?

For me, it's more a cosmic connection, a collage of emotions that puts me in a comfort zone, vulnerability, happiness, sadness, self-reflection, and purpose. A conversation that is genuine, natural, real, non-pretentious, a warm, fleeting feeling that crosses my heart where the mere existence of this individual heightens my euphoric state...a beautiful feeling that exists as its own separate entity, not coerced or imposed...but flowing energetically and effortlessly.

My expectations?
A consistent presence in my life accompanied with absolute loyalty, reliability and honesty.

I will promise them "Always and Forever."

Any imperfection this individual possesses will be taken in stride.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Hello Bulls and Bullettes!

What sustains your interest in an individual long term?

I used the metaphor Bull Market as it applies to characteristics of optimism, investor confidence and expectations that strong results will continue.

How do you determine the individual you're dating is worth the time and investment to secure a long lasting future with this individual?

What are your expectations?

What makes you optimistic about this individual?

Um I don't want to think too hard right now...but at the basic level- I get that lil' spark of optimism if I sense solid values, and if they're consistently consistent.lol

hmm... for me it's better not to have expectations but I always do and get bummed out when they don't meet it. I agree with Rose in the consistency part, and I need a lot of conversation, not just a listener, but also a contributor. I'm going to also echo Taurusbull and say loyalty, reliability, honesty, and for me trust and warmness(the cold silent type can be hot, but doesn't work out in relationships with me). Still until I meet him I won't really know, I have a lot of soul searching and growing to do before I can really think of the qualities and expectations I look for in a life partner.

Posted by Redbull
Do i want just any common stock that others seek? Not when i can have blue chips.

+1

Posted by soultalk

Posted by TaurusBull1977


What makes you optimistic about this individual?

Her living one block away? Seems like a promising thing for a bull.

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A bull never travels far from home

atearth Said "A bull never travels far from home."

soultalk said "So let's say someone you did like moved away for some reason, would you give up on her?"

Now that is a question. I have a disliking of long distance relationship.

I was once interested in someone who had a visa that was about to expire, they got it renewed, now lives in another part of my country. Very manipulative person so it turns out. worked out best to have not gotten involved.

I'm now in a situation with a capricorn woman and scorpio woman. The capricorn lives a fair few hours away from me and we've talked briefly about having a long distance relationship. The scorpio woman lives only a ten minute drive from me and is entertaining the idea of study her master degree in the USA in the future.

@ soultalk, I don't know the answer to that question.

Consistency seems to be a popular one.....

Take notes anyone (who is visiting this thread), and wants to attract a Bull...😉

Posted by MissFisk
Oh. I thought you guys were auctioning off male Tauruses... *moves along*

LOL.

Posted by MissFisk
Oh. I thought you guys were auctioning off male Tauruses... *moves along*

Unfortunately this Bull is off the market. 😢

The original hottie who was supposed to play Christina Grey....An Aries





This hottie is also off the market. I'm a huge fan of Sons of Anarchy.

I meant Christian Grey....Not Christina.

Posted by soultalk

Posted by TaurusBull1977
I meant Christian Grey....Not Christina.

It's okay,.he is off market now so this is normal lol

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LOL.

I read somewhere that a taurean is selfish (in a nutshell) but if you can bring out their selfless+vulnerable side out for you and only you, they are yours for the taking. Is that true?? *just wondering*

They aren't selfish, IMO. Just really cautious and very selective with people they engage with

You can always sense the warmth even when they are standoffish. A Taurus friend of mine would have a blank look on his face whenever I tell him about some of my mistakes...and I look at him and go "Yeah, yeah, I know, there's no way you would've made the same errors, I'm silly like that"

One second goes by and I see this giant smile on his face...I know he's not judging me, just frazzled at how silly I act sometimes.

Posted by aftershine
I read somewhere that a taurean is selfish (in a nutshell) but if you can bring out their selfless+vulnerable side out for you and only you, they are yours for the taking. Is that true?? *just wondering*

Posted by Damnata
They aren't selfish, IMO. Just really cautious and very selective with people they engage with

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This ^^^^

I like people with a certain innocence and lightness about them (not childish). A sense of humour is very important and respect most of all. It should come effortless and with ease, a person who makes their presence felt in my life physically, but the thing is to be your absolute self around me, man you don't have to perform for me.

Posted by aftershine
I read somewhere that a taurean is selfish (in a nutshell) but if you can bring out their selfless+vulnerable side out for you and only you, they are yours for the taking. Is that true?? *just wondering*

i think the selfishness is from the fact that we take care of ourselves first of all and from self preservation earth signs exihibit atleast by people who don't realize their selfishness. Yes, a person who brings that vulnerable side easily does have me for the 'taking' so to speak but they have to 'protect' my vulnerability and treat it with dignity. I expect this in love because i return it equally atleast I really try to.

For Taurus, absence does not make the heart grow fonder. True or False?

I want to chime in on this discussion. It takes a long while for me to warm up to someone, they have to literally force themselves onto me for me to acknowledge them because I am usually too busy thinking of myself and my immediate loved ones (this is true for friends and boyfriends.) I am not fond of the courtship period because romance does nothing for me, I am a practical person.

I remember when a Virguy once wrote me a romantic poem, it was very well written (I was going to correct it with a red pen if it wasn't!) and I was sort of charmed by the idea of it, but mostly I felt like rolling my eyes. It didn't feel genuine because how can someone be struck by someone else so early in the getting to know you stage? I think a lot of guys (or maybe just Virguys) have a typical list of things to do when wooing a girl because it always felt hollow and disingenuine to me. I prefer the stage where you become comfortable with each other and each other's routine, when we can both let our hair down and be okay with being bored with each other. Unfortunately its hard to get to that stage without enduring the courtship phase, and it is during that phase that I lose interest in guys. Its a vicious cycle.

Posted by MilkySoft


HAHA. Now I want an auction for real. 😢 I'm sure the Taurus guys would love women throwing money at them.

Magic Mike doesn't oppose to this idea. 😉