there's this friend of mine who is a taurus and i am falling for her... its hardly been a month we started talkin still i don know how i just keep thinking about her. I don know wat she feels but i surely feel for her. I want to ask her out but don know how .. Can anyone help ??
To get a taurus woman i love
i am an aquarius ... its actually not about wooing but about the love thing :-P . i mean i like her a lot and don know if she does...

you want to know if she loves you? after a month? no, she does not.
you could tell her how you feel and chances are, you will get a positive response. it'll be something along the lines of "awwwh..." followed by silence and/or "why?"
overall, when you're ready to say it, just say it. don't worry so much about being hurt. if shes going out with you, investing time in and on you, she clearly has affection for you. where she may be slower to recognize a deeper feeling for you isn't really the point. in a way, your feelings for her, your demonstration and declaration of those feelings are needed to flame her desire/love for you. so now may not be the right time, but you will need to be first. grab the bull by the horns so to speak and let her know where you stand. the more secure you are in your feelings, the more secure she will become in her own...love, hate and everything in between.
you could tell her how you feel and chances are, you will get a positive response. it'll be something along the lines of "awwwh..." followed by silence and/or "why?"
overall, when you're ready to say it, just say it. don't worry so much about being hurt. if shes going out with you, investing time in and on you, she clearly has affection for you. where she may be slower to recognize a deeper feeling for you isn't really the point. in a way, your feelings for her, your demonstration and declaration of those feelings are needed to flame her desire/love for you. so now may not be the right time, but you will need to be first. grab the bull by the horns so to speak and let her know where you stand. the more secure you are in your feelings, the more secure she will become in her own...love, hate and everything in between.
we've been meetin and hanging out everyday since a week nw 'but' with a couple of frnzz not alone ... so i am nt sure abt her feelings..
and yes most imp she broke up with her ex jst before we met so this another prob for me as it was a 1 yr relationship..
ok i wud wait... n ya we move fast lol... but i got patience ya... maybe i will jst let her know that i feel for her...
i have a bad feeling if i wait she may get back to her ex coz as far as i know she still does have feelings fr him...

I have to agree with Caligula and BullGem on a number of things they've said, respectively:
1) Caligula- "you want to know if she loves you? after a month? no, she does not.
you could tell her how you feel and chances are, you will get a positive response. it'll be something along the lines of "awwwh..." followed by silence and/or "why?"
- It's hard for us Taurus folk to trust people and wonder what their intentions are, that's why we work sloooow. I had a Virgo ex tell me within 2 months of our relationship that he loved me. It was an awkward moment. Don't make her feel uncomfortable. Take it slooow like honey dripping. Get to know her, compliment her, listen to her. Be friends. Then when she's ready, you'll be able to taste some of that honey...ya dig?
2)BullGem-"any taurus just out of a relationship is too vulnerable to get into another so quickly. If she does...red flag, it's rebound. and i'm sure you want more than that from her.
Besides, one year in taurus world, is nothing. Maybe it is to you, but one year is very little; for some wanting to get with a taurus, THAT's how long they could be waiting to get anywhere real with them."
- Abso-treetrunking-lutely- From my own experience, in the first year, I am still getting to know that person. I'm enjoying that relationship and seeing if we can work out in the long term.
I think the best advice, would be to take it slow, work on yourself and your needs (she'll respect you for it), work on the friendship, and be honest with each other. Two things can happen: If it works out, Great!, then you'll have a solid foundation (remember we love stability) to continue to learn and grow with each other. If it doesn't, then you know haven't really invested much time and effort in a romantic relationship that will go no where, a friendship at best. Hope this helps...Good Luck!
1) Caligula- "you want to know if she loves you? after a month? no, she does not.
you could tell her how you feel and chances are, you will get a positive response. it'll be something along the lines of "awwwh..." followed by silence and/or "why?"
- It's hard for us Taurus folk to trust people and wonder what their intentions are, that's why we work sloooow. I had a Virgo ex tell me within 2 months of our relationship that he loved me. It was an awkward moment. Don't make her feel uncomfortable. Take it slooow like honey dripping. Get to know her, compliment her, listen to her. Be friends. Then when she's ready, you'll be able to taste some of that honey...ya dig?
2)BullGem-"any taurus just out of a relationship is too vulnerable to get into another so quickly. If she does...red flag, it's rebound. and i'm sure you want more than that from her.
Besides, one year in taurus world, is nothing. Maybe it is to you, but one year is very little; for some wanting to get with a taurus, THAT's how long they could be waiting to get anywhere real with them."
- Abso-treetrunking-lutely- From my own experience, in the first year, I am still getting to know that person. I'm enjoying that relationship and seeing if we can work out in the long term.
I think the best advice, would be to take it slow, work on yourself and your needs (she'll respect you for it), work on the friendship, and be honest with each other. Two things can happen: If it works out, Great!, then you'll have a solid foundation (remember we love stability) to continue to learn and grow with each other. If it doesn't, then you know haven't really invested much time and effort in a romantic relationship that will go no where, a friendship at best. Hope this helps...Good Luck!
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