Fault Finder

My bestfriend is a taurus girl and we have been friends for thirteen years now. Recently, i have befriended a girl at work, she is new and a capricorn. Its only been a few months and i already wanna ditch her, she is annoying. There's this flirt at work and i mean this guy flirts with everything. Nobody takes him very serious. Now he started with the cap girl and she is all serious about it. She told me he saw her with her boyfriend (the old man) and that she saw it in his eyes that he was hurt. I told her not to take it too seriously, she said 'no, i know he likes me, i can feel it, blah-blah'. She does things like that all the time, 'that one likes me, this one likes me too..'. I find it annoying. My problem is that i do this with every new friend, i always find something annoying about them so i could break the friendship.

Anybody else who does that?

The other day she told me that she hates it when guys say, 'hello beautiful' and she's not even beautiful, so i dont get the 'hate' part. I snapped at her and told her that i find her to be very annoying at times. We've been ignoring each other ever since, easy way out for me and i hope she remains silent.

Oh no, honey, it has nothing to do with jealousy. Like i said, i always find turn offs with every new friend, with her it just happened to be her 'they all want me attitude' that annoys me. I person can look at u without wanting u, she doesnt seem to think so. May taurus friend is one hot lady, if i were ever to chose someone to be envious of, it would be her. I dont expect others to understand, but she gets to my nerves. Another example: there was a guy owning a bookshop nextdoor to our work, in december they moved and they left a forwarding address on their window. Guess what?, she thought it was for her. Friendliness from a guy means secret love to her. I read about a condition where ppl think that everybody is inlove with them. I forgot the name, i'll check it. I find her secret loves to be really annoying.

Its called erotomania. I googled it a while back when i started noticing a pattern in her 'admirers'. Before i thought it was limerance, but erotomania described her very well. She even went to the guy's new work address, he was surprised (shocked to me) to see her there, but he wasnt rude and didnt say much to her, according to her. She told me he was maybe shy to admit his feelings. What feelings?

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Its called erotomania. I googled it a while back when i started noticing a pattern in her 'admirers'. Before i thought it was limerance, but erotomania described her very well. She even went to the guy's new work address, he was surprised (shocked to me) to see her there, but he wasnt rude and didnt say much to her, according to her. She told me he was maybe shy to admit his feelings. What feelings?

i knew a girl like that and she is annoying. she is a libra. she has a problem with personal space.

if any man showed her sexual attention she would say, oh they like me they want to be my man. I would like at her like are you for real. i could swear he just wants to fuck you. she has the misguided notion that if a man wants sex from her he wants a lasting relationship.

the rumour that was going around was, if you tell her she was pretty and how beautiful she is, then she will have sex with you. and it was true.

i dont think its necessarily finding fault in a person. its just that person is annoying and doesn't mesh well with you.

I know chem, its so annoying. This one has a real fault, but with others im aware that im looking for anything annoying so i could have an excuse to end the friendship. I like and enjoy their company in the beginning, then i'll start noticing things, anything. Jokes become lame etc. I guess its all about newness, d/k.

What are your plans for today, chem? Im working a night shift today so i wont spend time with hubby. I wont even see him, ill be gone by the time he gets home. Whatever..I watched ppl the whole day getting lovey-dovey. A special on tv about 100s of couples getting married in Robhen Island. So lame..

well im at work now its just 10 AM. we had my traditionally heart shaped pancakes this morning. i'm getting off early so i can start dinner and set everything up. he hasnt already beat me too it. i got all my gifts and my sexy outfit ready. and..the box my ring is in is wrapped in red wrapping paper with a silver bow on it. 😄 im tired of waiting i better be getting that damn thing tonight.

i'm going to do some yoga this afternoon to limber up (oh sorry TMI).

i hope you can guys can do something later. i remember when i used to work the night shift..uuuugh. i always had to do things the day after or really early in the day.

geesh that has typos, i really need to stop multitasking. im not good at it. 😢 im doing some distillations and getting nothing on 2 of them. its pissing me off.

I hope u enjoy your romantic evening, im so envious, lol. I wont see him until friday, our date will be on saterday. We are going to a funfare, lol. Oh well thats how we do romance. Post us the bling when u get it

She'll be 30 in december and she is in a long term relationship. No i've never talked to her about it before, only when i snapped at her. I want to change coz it gets lonely sometimes, my real friends stay hours away. Ive been doing some soul searching lately, some things are hard to overcome, but with time..I found your words inspiring, thank you.

I think that can sometimes be a cardinal sign thing, thinking every man wants them lol. My Aqua mom was annoyed by her Aries friend with this. My Virgo sister is annoyed by her Cancer sis and Cancer cousin with this. Libras can think this way as well, as well as Caps.

Whoa Hugh, im not blue dot, im me. Whats your sign?

Inana, oh is it? I really thought it was a mental illness. Maybe i need to learn more about other signs. I seriously dont know much about caps.