Scorpiogrlll
@Scorpiogrlll
9 Years
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Very confused by Taurus guy’s behaviour
Posted by FknMeow
Maybe he's checking to see if you're still on there.
Nope he’s definitely still on there
Posted by FknMeow
Be like, you say you want all these things but you're talking to other girls on tinder so wtf. It'll probably give him a boner.
Ahahahahaha that made me lol. What if it scares him away cos he was just joking about it tho
Me as a Taurus man would describe it this way after reading it:
As Gobby says I can agree to that. To add some to it I think he is testing you and meanwhile looking further for other options. Like, he leaves the door open but not going much into it. If I were you I wouldn't chase him that much, don't come over as desperate in search for someone. If you do you're easy target for him. Some contact is fine but don't haste and see where it goes slowly.
Him telling it to his family is kinda weird. I mean, I would do it when its "official" and when the time is right. He is like boosting his ego or something. And the other questions are kinda weird also.. I personally wouldn't ask them like that, or at all dunno.
Don't fall for the words, wait for the actions. I find it weird when some Taurus man are like this. Im straightforward and would definitly be true, honest and loyal, always (27-04 my birth).
And Tinder is shit by the way..
As Gobby says I can agree to that. To add some to it I think he is testing you and meanwhile looking further for other options. Like, he leaves the door open but not going much into it. If I were you I wouldn't chase him that much, don't come over as desperate in search for someone. If you do you're easy target for him. Some contact is fine but don't haste and see where it goes slowly.
Him telling it to his family is kinda weird. I mean, I would do it when its "official" and when the time is right. He is like boosting his ego or something. And the other questions are kinda weird also.. I personally wouldn't ask them like that, or at all dunno.
Don't fall for the words, wait for the actions. I find it weird when some Taurus man are like this. Im straightforward and would definitly be true, honest and loyal, always (27-04 my birth).
And Tinder is shit by the way..
OP, you've written about this guy before.
What is it that you want?
As in, what do you want from your life right now? What position are you in? Are you looking for someone to just have a FWB situation? Perhaps because you don't have the time right now for a relationship, work or studies are occupying your time. Maybe you just want some uncommitted fun right now as you're not emotionally available or something. Are you looking for a committed relationship? To date, to get to know someone well, to filter out the unsuitable ones, to find someone you match with and who matches with you, who wants the same things etc.
What is it YOU want?
What is it that you want?
As in, what do you want from your life right now? What position are you in? Are you looking for someone to just have a FWB situation? Perhaps because you don't have the time right now for a relationship, work or studies are occupying your time. Maybe you just want some uncommitted fun right now as you're not emotionally available or something. Are you looking for a committed relationship? To date, to get to know someone well, to filter out the unsuitable ones, to find someone you match with and who matches with you, who wants the same things etc.
What is it YOU want?
Posted by Scorpiogrlll
We’re currently just FwB, but he’s told his family about me and that I was his girl. He also kept talking about me having his babies, and asked me if I was sleeping with other people. He always talks about how nice it is spending time with me too. Things like that makes me think he’s interested in something more, but then he tells me he’s still on tinder.
I can’t tell what his intentions are. Was he just joking and messing around, or did he mean what he said? The fact that he’s still on tinder is majorly throwing me off.
I can't stress this enough.
Know who you are, and know what you want.
This will draw the best Taurus men into your life, and will keep the worst Taurus men away from it.
Why is he mindf% &king you?
You don't have a leg to stand on. You have no idea where you stand in this relationship. You don't know if you're coming in or going.
Have you actually met his family members?
Something tells me you didn't.
His agenda?
To hold on to his sidepiece, while he continues to keep his options open. He just needs to be reassured that your options are closed.
Remember our mantra..."I have"...this applies to ALL Bulls, whether or not our intentions are candid or disingenuous.
Friendships, marriages, relationships, homes,cars,businesses, sidepieces, mistresses....It's all ours!
Not all Taurus men are honorable men.
The 'jacked-up' ones can be deceptive, because it's easy to lure in their suitors with that stable, grounded Earth energy. So you don't really see past the soothing energy, nurturing and stability vibes they give off. Trust me, the messed up Bulls exist.
What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.
The dishonorable Taurus man will 'talk' his way out of delivering promises. How is this accomplished? He will give you the illusion that it's headed towards committment by throwing subtle words here and there. "My girl." "Babies." "I told my family about you." When you do decide to hold him accountable to everything he has told you. He will quickly revert back to reminding you, that the both of you never had this discussuion....and it's not a relationship.
How to hold this 'fixed' sign accountable?
Remind him.
When he throws innuendos, tell him save it for the pigeons, feed them that bread and butter, you're simply not interested, it's a FWB and nothing more. Don't allow him to fill your head with nonsense fairytales.
Let him know you're a grown ass woman.
If he wants commitment, show and prove!
Don't be surprised if he had issues with women in the past regarding drama.
Something tells me one of his exes probably drove past his house and threw a brick through his window.
Something tells me one of his exes probably drove past his house and threw a brick through his window.
What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.
Well said TaurusBull1977, that also describes me exactly.
The dishonorable ones should be avoided at any cost to spare yourself some headache.
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.
Well said TaurusBull1977, that also describes me exactly.
The dishonorable ones should be avoided at any cost to spare yourself some headache.
Posted by AgentP911
OP, you've written about this guy before.
What is it that you want?
As in, what do you want from your life right now? What position are you in? Are you looking for someone to just have a FWB situation? Perhaps because you don't have the time right now for a relationship, work or studies are occupying your time. Maybe you just want some uncommitted fun right now as you're not emotionally available or something. Are you looking for a committed relationship? To date, to get to know someone well, to filter out the unsuitable ones, to find someone you match with and who matches with you, who wants the same things etc.
What is it YOU want?
I just want things to be status quo. He keeps buttering me up and it’s throwing me off
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by Scorpiogrlll
We’re currently just FwB, but he’s told his family about me and that I was his girl. He also kept talking about me having his babies, and asked me if I was sleeping with other people. He always talks about how nice it is spending time with me too. Things like that makes me think he’s interested in something more, but then he tells me he’s still on tinder.
I can’t tell what his intentions are. Was he just joking and messing around, or did he mean what he said? The fact that he’s still on tinder is majorly throwing me off.
I can't stress this enough.
Know who you are, and know what you want.
This will draw the best Taurus men into your life, and will keep the worst Taurus men away from it.
Why is he mindf% &king you?
You don't have a leg to stand on. You have no idea where you stand in this relationship. You don't know if you're coming in or going.
Have you actually met his family members?
Something tells me you didn't.
His agenda?
To hold on to his sidepiece, while he continues to keep his options open. He just needs to be reassured that your options are closed.
Remember our mantra..."I have"...this applies to ALL Bulls, whether or not our intentions are candid or disingenuous.
Friendships, marriages, relationships, homes,cars,businesses, sidepieces, mistresses....It's all ours!
Not all Taurus men are honorable men.
The 'jacked-up' ones can be deceptive, because it's easy to lure in their suitors with that stable, grounded Earth energy. So you don't really see past the soothing energy, nurturing and stability vibes they give off. Trust me, the messed up Bulls exist.
What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.
The dishonorable Taurus man will 'talk' his way out of delivering promises. How is this accomplished? He will give you the illusion that it's headed towards committment by throwing subtle words here and there. "My girl." "Babies." "I told my family about you." When you do decide to hold him accountable to everything he has told you. He will quickly revert back to reminding you, that the both of you never had this discussuion....and it's not a relationship.
How to hold this 'fixed' sign accountable?
Remind him.
When he throws innuendos, tell him save it for the pigeons, feed them that bread and butter, you're simply not interested, it's a FWB and nothing more. Don't allow him to fill your head with nonsense fairytales.
Let him know you're a grown ass woman.
If he wants commitment, show and prove!click to expand
Thank you so much for this. I ignore all that BS he’s spewing my way now lol
Posted by Majin
What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.
Well said TaurusBull1977, that also describes me exactly.
The dishonorable ones should be avoided at any cost to spare yourself some headache.
Define action oriented, in a fwb context?
In a FwB situation depends on what you expect from him. If its only sex then there is nothing to expect, except doing it which is the case most of the time with FwB.
I mean, if you expect nothing much and only like the words and attention you get and your needs are being fulfilled then thats it. Its hard to say an action that is ment true and out of heart that can be done here.
Oftopic maybe but just my opinion;
Im against it though, it will damage the woman the most on the long run but everyone to his own. The men love it of course and can have multiple ones at the same time. No worries, no relationships, no jealousy just the benefits. What are you worrying about then if its nothing official im asking myself? Just see how it goes just like he does probably on Tinder. Its disgusting.. Im all in or all out, no time for this bullcrap. I won't "use" someone to make me feel good/better. As I said everyone to his own. You don't need to reply to this as it is my opinion.
I mean, if you expect nothing much and only like the words and attention you get and your needs are being fulfilled then thats it. Its hard to say an action that is ment true and out of heart that can be done here.
Oftopic maybe but just my opinion;
Im against it though, it will damage the woman the most on the long run but everyone to his own. The men love it of course and can have multiple ones at the same time. No worries, no relationships, no jealousy just the benefits. What are you worrying about then if its nothing official im asking myself? Just see how it goes just like he does probably on Tinder. Its disgusting.. Im all in or all out, no time for this bullcrap. I won't "use" someone to make me feel good/better. As I said everyone to his own. You don't need to reply to this as it is my opinion.
Posted by ScorpiogrlllPosted by AgentP911
OP, you've written about this guy before.
What is it that you want?
As in, what do you want from your life right now? What position are you in? Are you looking for someone to just have a FWB situation? Perhaps because you don't have the time right now for a relationship, work or studies are occupying your time. Maybe you just want some uncommitted fun right now as you're not emotionally available or something. Are you looking for a committed relationship? To date, to get to know someone well, to filter out the unsuitable ones, to find someone you match with and who matches with you, who wants the same things etc.
What is it YOU want?
I just want things to be status quo. He keeps buttering me up and it’s throwing me offclick to expand
You want to maintain the status quo. Well, it sounds like you already have what you want. It's a FWB, you're having sex, and you want to continue this. As others have said, just ignore his words because they don't mean anything to you. You only want sex with him. Why do you care he's still on Tinder looking for others for attention, sex or whatever? You're only on the FWB contract. It's his business what he does with his time when he's not with you.
If you're fwb's then to him it's very casual regardless of what he is saying. Taurus men ( my husband is one) are usually very focused on one person when they decide that person is the one.
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