I am a 22 year old virgo guy,madly in love with this taurus girl who is 1 and a half years elder than me.She was my classmate when we were kids and left when we were in the 3rd standard.I lost contact with her ever since until last year she sent me a friend request on facebook.I had no memory of her and even asked some of my friends if someone with this name really studied with us.She added me on august and I fell in love and proposed to her on 27th december last year.After 10 days of lots of chatting she rejected me.But I always felt that she had feelings for me.So I kept on trying and after rejecting me two more times she started to ignore me and asked me never to talk to her again.It was my mistake though I was like forcing her to accept.I thought of moving on with my life,so I deleted all her contacts,unfriended her from facebook,deleted our messages and her pics but I couldnt move on and felt like crying.I was more hurt and there came a time when I felt like breaking down but there were no more tears left in my eyes.I tried to persuade her to accept my friend request on facebook again but she was sad too because I had unfriended her and she was not ready to accept my request again.But after a lot of persuading she did accept but started to ignore again.Some days ago she started talking to me like before.And the way we talk it feels like she has got the feelings for me too.She even tried to make me jealous many times,like it was some kind of a mind game.Now we talk so much one day and the next day she just ignores me.I dont understand what she is up to and if she feels the same why isn't she saying it? She knows what I feel,she knows that it hurts me but still she just doesn't care.But her facebook statuses,pictures and quotes she uploads all of them ar like as if she feels about me.A friend of mine asked her if she had feelings for anybody she told him that she likes someone for a long time and if she tells him even the 1st letter of the name then he would understand who she is talking about.And all the criterias she answered just points to me.But she doesn't say a word and when I talk to her about it she just ignores as if she doesn't care.Its been 5 months I'm waiting for her.I dnt know what to do.Any advices?
She has sun in taurus,moon in leo and I have sun in virgo,moon in aries
My ex pater is Sun Virgo with Aries Moon. Very impatient and insistent. Very forward at the start, wanted it all now, now, now. Always in a rush, always wanting to have answers immediately. Very selfish in that respect. All about him, very little about anybody else.
Sound like you? I think it might.
You're 22 for God sake. That's far too young to be asking someone to marry you especially asking them so quickly without really getting to know each other. I appreciate cultural differences and 22 might not be considered young etc.
In your post it sounds like it's all about you. Perhaps all you need to do is chill out a bit... Or a lot... Relax on the over analysing and worrying. It can be quite tiresome when on the receiving end.
There's so many young guys the youngest guy is 21 right.. haha..
Good luck to you man, hope you keep a Taurus female, we'll treat you right..all we ask is start as friends, to work towards a stable relationship.. and if we like you even the shy bulls will express their love some how for you.. pay attention it maybe subtle....or even straight forward, blunt and direct..
Face to face. She said that she would think about it and then around 10 days later she rejected without giving me a reason as to why she did that.Even the day before that day she was talking to me and I got some hints that she feels the same for me too.
She doesn't have to give you a reason why she doesn't want to marry you. What do you want to do, give her a bloody feedback or questionnaire form to fill out?
Last year you proposed aww how sweet.. I'm sorry man...hm she's a fixed element..it takes alot of the stubborn bull to settle..alot of work.. it's not easy.. only the strong survive.
So cute and so young..lol...go to college and make a stable life. You'll have to take care a Taurus for ever...lol.. but use your charm.. what's your venus and mars?
Well the fact is i'm not rushing into anything,even I told her to take her time,I am patient myself but seriously the ignoring part,it really hurts a lot.I miss her so badly and she ignores me thats when it hurts. @tiziani as you mentioned its true that 22 years old is a little less but that doesn't change the fact that I love her.I have this fear of losing her and thats the reason I told her what I felt before it is too late.I thought maybe if I waited too long i'll lose everything.
Taurus don't like to be pushed or told what to do. Don't force her into anything, it's a turn off. I have a Virgo trying to date me right now, and he's WAY too forward, so I ignore him too. Taurus move slow!
You're making a lot of assumptions. You assume that she's trying to make you jealous when maybe she's just talking to you like she would any other friend. You assume that the things she posts are about you when you don't know that. They could be about someone else. And you assume that the person she likes is you when you don't know that either.
What you do know is that she rejected you 3 times & asked you to never speak to her again. Plus she ignores you a lot.
I'm a Taurus female & one of my oldest friends is a Virgo male. At one point he told me that he thought we were meant to be together. I do not share the same feeling. And one thing I really hate is being begged, pestered, persuaded or someone trying to get me to change my mind. I think it's kind of disrespectful really. Respect her decision. She knows what she wants.
Ouch rejected 3 times.. damn and you still hanging in there..lol..
Hun move on for the moment. I told you once a bull makes the mind up it's fixed...so take the lost and use the experience... pros and cons about this person.. I don't see any pros at the moment in your case..
you're young and there will be so many other girls for you out there that want that...make sure you know this person, have fun, have goals, and get your shit together..
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She has sun in taurus,moon in leo and I have sun in virgo,moon in aries