Waving the Red Flag?

My Taurus man got way mad at me and I know he needs time to blow off steam, but I also so know he has rejection issues, so it's tricky! Anyway, I called him last night and he picked up (first time since Wednesday!).

I braced myself for anger, but he just sounded really low. The fact that he picked up without getting mad or mean said a lot.

Anyway, to cut to the chase, I sent him a sext this afternoon, then got really scared! Now I'm on here! Lol What is the most likely reaction of a mellowing out after anger Taurus man, to a sext from his other half who got him mad, but, with whom they have great sexual chemistry and mind blowing sex?

Before anybody states the obvious, yes I know not all Taurus men are the same and only I should know how he would react, but let's talk hypothetically! Any contributions will be appreciated especially the male viewpoint. 🙂

i wish i could help you here but mine never tells me when i piss him off. i wish he did but he prefers to just keep it to himself.

we also never leave things unresolved. we prefer to thrash it out and then come to a solution quickly.

you've tried the sext, i guess the only thing to do is wait to see how he responds.

have you resolved things though? have you talked it all out and gotten to the bottom what he was so angry about?

once you do and feel comfortable being friendly again, then i would say food or make up sex. i would only try the food/sex route only if you know he is no longer angry though.

Why is he mad at you?

Posted by jeane
i wish i could help you here but mine never tells me when i piss him off. i wish he did but he prefers to just keep it to himself.

we also never leave things unresolved. we prefer to thrash it out and then come to a solution quickly.

you've tried the sext, i guess the only thing to do is wait to see how he responds.

have you resolved things though? have you talked it all out and gotten to the bottom what he was so angry about?

once you do and feel comfortable being friendly again, then i would say food or make up sex. i would only try the food/sex route only if you know he is no longer angry though.

So if he never tells you when he's pissed off.. how do things get resolved? And I don't mean it has to be an argument, you can have a discussion and let things out without it being an argument.

I'm asking because my ex would never tell me when he was pissed off as well. Then YEARS later it all came out when he was caught cheating. I know not all men/Taurus in general are like that.

I just felt like at the end, by him never telling me, it actually left things unresolved, which made it a bigger problem later.

Just wondering how that goes together.

*He never tells me and keeps it to himself.

*We never leave things unresolved, thrash it out and come to a solution.

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Posted by Love2Love
My Taurus man got way mad at me and I know he needs time to blow off steam, but I also so know he has rejection issues, so it's tricky! Anyway, I called him last night and he picked up (first time since Wednesday!).

I braced myself for anger, but he just sounded really low. The fact that he picked up without getting mad or mean said a lot.

Anyway, to cut to the chase, I sent him a sext this afternoon, then got really scared! Now I'm on here! Lol What is the most likely reaction of a mellowing out after anger Taurus man, to a sext from his other half who got him mad, but, with whom they have great sexual chemistry and mind blowing sex?

Before anybody states the obvious, yes I know not all Taurus men are the same and only I should know how he would react, but let's talk hypothetically! Any contributions will be appreciated especially the male viewpoint. 🙂

The only thing that ever helped my ex Taurus and I get over things was when I apologized. Sending him random sexts when you know he's upset won't work. Just be upfront about it, because he will hide his feelings...he won't like confrontation.

Posted by jane84

Posted by jeane
i wish i could help you here but mine never tells me when i piss him off. i wish he did but he prefers to just keep it to himself.

we also never leave things unresolved. we prefer to thrash it out and then come to a solution quickly.

you've tried the sext, i guess the only thing to do is wait to see how he responds.

have you resolved things though? have you talked it all out and gotten to the bottom what he was so angry about?

once you do and feel comfortable being friendly again, then i would say food or make up sex. i would only try the food/sex route only if you know he is no longer angry though.

So if he never tells you when he's pissed off.. how do things get resolved? And I don't mean it has to be an argument, you can have a discussion and let things out without it being an argument.

I'm asking because my ex would never tell me when he was pissed off as well. Then YEARS later it all came out when he was caught cheating. I know not all men/Taurus in general are like that.

I just felt like at the end, by him never telling me, it actually left things unresolved, which made it a bigger problem later.

Just wondering how that goes together.

*He never tells me and keeps it to himself.

*We never leave things unresolved, thrash it out and come to a solution.

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Ha! Good question. It normally comes out during the course of other conversations where he tells me how I made him feel.

Or i normally start picking at something and then he'll calmly mention something that I did that annoyed/hurt/upset him in the past. You're right. It's really me making the initial push to talk about something and then everything comes out and then we get to the bottom of it.

I tell you in the 4 years we have known each other I think he has been angry with me once. Annoyed yes, not angry though. Even half the time he is annoyed I am not aware. Partly my insensitivity to what I am doing is partly to blame as well but he just brushes it off.