When a Taurus man really likes you........

What does he do?? I know that when a Taurus likes you but lose you they tend to flirt to make you jealous and they ignore your very presence..Because they are trying to hurt you or get some sign that you still care... I guess. But when they like you would they openly flirt with women in the front of you if they have the intention of starting a relationship with you... I want to be very careful about who i spend my time with. Any advice or helpful hints from any gender will be gratefully accepted.

If he really likes you he doesn't give up! Cause when we stop trying then we start moving on! We start thinking things wont work out and we start doing things that make us happy! Going out dating meeting new people and being around good friends! I'm going through this now and i have no contact with my ex what so ever. I don't want any contact with her because they can start screwing with your head especially if your finally doing good for yourself! My ex tried to stick around when we broke up but it was so unhealthy for me that i had to tell her off and just move on! If i let her stick around id be miserable with all these weird thoughts in my head. Thats how i am at least so if hes not contacting you anymore hes probably trying to move on with his life! He may still care and love you but he knows its best for him to just go his way and move on. Hes gonna make himself happy and only way is to completely shut you out of his life!

I dated a Taurus man on & Off for 3 years. He played alot of hot and cold with me.
In the end I found that he had many women/friends as he would call them. He used us for different things. We served different purposes to him.
Haven't had good luck with Taurus guys.
Sorry.. 🙂

@taurusman thank you for your feed back. you really perked my curiosity. Have you ever tried to make your ex jealous by openly flirting with other women in the front of her? Like openly admire there body etc. When you know she is near you or watching you?

Posted by BikerCh1ck
He has the opposite behaviour from your taurus ex

He really seems to be very different from him. Only problem is that he is openly flirty with other women. He would constantly poke me on facebook but he would be all over liking women photos, and statuses...etc. He has never done it for me. But he would contact me every so often and ask me about my day etc... But these women keep his facebook page hot.

Posted by pixie242
@taurusman thank you for your feed back. you really perked my curiosity. Have you ever tried to make your ex jealous by openly flirting with other women in the front of her? Like openly admire there body etc. When you know she is near you or watching you?

No i would never flirt to make my ex jealous. If im flirting with another women im flirting cause im interested! If your my girl and im still not over you your gonna have 100% of my attention! Thats why im saying hes moving on but me for instance im not doing it to make jealous unless i really despise you! Id have to hate you for me to do something like that!

Posted by SirenSting
My Taurus ex's were all over me ALL the time before, during and after our relationships. Texting, calling and hanging out often. The only time they really started to flirt with other girls or stopped talking to me, was when I had pretty much made it clear that our relationship was going nowhere or it was over.

I did have one Taurus ex that tried the make her jealous game and when he realized it wasn't going to work, he was all over me again.

I think Taurus' know what they want and will make it obvious if that want is you.

I agree if that's what we want that's what we go for!!! Its hard to move on but when we finally see its over then its over and we move on!

But thats not to say if for some reason months later you guys start talking again and there still a connection it can work its way back in again! Iv had to ex and after sometime they both came back and after some time of just hanging out again the fire rekindled.

Posted by pixie242
I thought that they knew what they wanted to...but this taurus i cant understand him....We were together for a while and he was completely sweet always telling me he cared about me and how nice i looked. But then i broke up with him and a day later we are back together..I just cant get it together around him.... things went wonderful for a while then we broke up again.. we would see each other every know and again..I would see him with another woman. He would talk and flirt with beautiful women in the front of me... All the time it was like he knew he was hurting me so i left him alone completely ( I dated another taurus but we broke up weeks ago) this taurus didnt know that though..He saw me make a post on a male friend facebook page then he went crazy saying he needed to see me.. he showed up a half hour early and the moment he saw me he rushed over and held me and kissed me...and literally tried to undress me like he was hungry for me. I was stunned and tried to stop him he became very verbal saying why i was pushing him away. And that he did nothing wrong and that i was the one who did him wrong. He also made it clear that i should be apologising to him trying to make things better and promising to do better this time around.... Then we went on a ride and he explained how he felt and what made him distance himself away from me in the first place We had a real nice talk then he goes all he cant trust me but he wants me in his life for a long time so please tell him that i am willing to be with him and work through it..Im confused as to how you can be with someone and not trust them. Im confused about the entire ordeal because afterwards he told me he was leaving the country the following day an that he knows i havent had sex in a while..he wanted to make love to me. at first i was all no i dont want to but then i know who im sleeping with question was coming next so i said ook.. we made love and he promised to come back and he didnt i called him but he said he was caught up. the following day he texted me saying he couldnt make it back out.. I feel like used me for sex before he left. He has continued talking to me wanting to find where i am and who i am with, what im eating etc... But the entire flirting thing still has me holding out and being snippy with him. I cant let it go.

Im going to be honest if he want to be with you he will make it clear

Im going to be honest if he want to be with you he will make it clear and be with you! I think hes using you for sex and keeping you around because he knows he has you on a leash! Iv done this before when i was single and young and had a girl just for a fuck buddy because i know she was always gonna be there whenever i wanted! So i will tell you this if hes anything like me and want to be with you he will make it clear and not play games and be straight up! Iv always treated my girlfriends like they were my princesses! When we meet a girl that we want to be with we will make it clear and pursue you to be in a relationship with us. It takes us awhile to figure that out but since you guys were already together he should know what he wants and if hes playing games and not committing to you than ice him out!!! BTW how old is he? And you?

Posted by taurusman
Im going to be honest if he want to be with you he will make it clear and be with you! I think hes using you for sex and keeping you around because he knows he has you on a leash! Iv done this before when i was single and young and had a girl just for a fuck buddy because i know she was always gonna be there whenever i wanted! So i will tell you this if hes anything like me and want to be with you he will make it clear and not play games and be straight up! Iv always treated my girlfriends like they were my princesses! When we meet a girl that we want to be with we will make it clear and pursue you to be in a relationship with us. It takes us awhile to figure that out but since you guys were already together he should know what he wants and if hes playing games and not committing to you than ice him out!!! BTW how old is he? And you?

he is 36 and i am 20...He has been texting me all day and night...He has been making plans to keep me in his life long term like he wants us to start a business together and also he is making time by taking a week off to spend with me on my upcoming birthday... I made it very clear to him that if he isnt going to give me what i need let me go so i can find someone who will. When it comes to me he is very possessive and jealous. He doesnt want me speaking to any other man. HE doesnt want me to be anywhere without him. N he tells me he has his eyes on me. He always says he is watching me because he wants us to work out.

This taurus im talking about now lives in florida....He cant watch me if he is away..When he is here where i am he spends time with me. He gets to know my family and comes around alot when he knows that we are together. He sees their needs and try to help out. He has been around me lots of times and never bothered me about sex..he would just touch me or pull my leg onto his lap and hug me. Rub my hands and legs with this thoughtful expression...He does little things for me like paying for me to et my hair and nails done, take me grocery shopping. See that my needs are met... Whenever i try to sit away from him to get my own thoughts together he would pull me closer..His actions seem so genuine because he is trying to draw me into every aspect of his life so that he can see me more often.. This particular time he really pushed for sex because he will be away from me for 3 whole months...He is planning a trip so that i can come to spend time with him because he said he cant be without me at his side for very long... I can feel he is different but i just want to be very sure... Im over my past taurus...I just sat down and thought about all the things he put me through, all the lies he told.. all the times that he tried to make me feel like nothing... I got over him... Besides I refuse to put my life on hold because of one bad relationship... As long as there is life there is a chance to love...I have been single for like a month now.. U would not believe how fast a libra can drop you when they realize how much you wronged them...Thats just my nature...Anyway... I really wanted to know about the taurus habits... His flirting before we made up really bothered me because i liked him alot...

If he paying for things and making you feel special like always being affectionate and always trying to spend time with you then he is into you! Im now confused what your worried about with him. I think hes old enough to know what he wants and if he wants you than i think that's a good thing for you!!!

Posted by taurusman
If he paying for things and making you feel special like always being affectionate and always trying to spend time with you then he is into you! Im now confused what your worried about with him. I think hes old enough to know what he wants and if he wants you than i think that's a good thing for you!!!

His flirting with women and openly appreciating there bodies in the front of me is what bothered me... We live far away from one another. I keep wondering if that flirting is a sign that he dont respect relationships..I guess my fear is that if he is flirting in my presences he can cheat while he is away.. I guess i really wanna know if this is his way of messing with my head or something..

ahhh i see! Honestly iv never had a long distance relationship! i know that would be very hard on me since when im with someone i always want to be around them! Im a very affectionate person and to be honest i would be flirting with another women especially when im with my loved one bacause im so into the person i love that no one elses beauty catches my eye more than my girl! But thats me and your taurus may have other signs that make him different than me!

wouldnt flirt

Posted by taurusman
wouldnt flirt

Okay thank you..You have been very helpful.

Posted by soultalk
First off, to be honest you are too young for him. I am saying you are too young, and not he is too old, because if you were in your 30's and he 46, then you would be more mature to handle the age difference. Also, you are just 20, you need to focus on your studies, career, think about standing on your own feet and being able to provide and take care of yourself. You can still wait before you settle (in marriage), so why not try to have meaningful relationships than jumping from one failed relationship into another? Also, it does not look like you love this man? You just want someone in your life after the last taurus. Be in a relationship for the right reasons, because you feel love and respect. Not because, it's been 1 month since the married taurus, now I can move on to another.

You have your future in your hand, not in any man's hand. Be good to yourself, do your thing to build your future and a good relationship will automatically happen.

I understand what you are saying I have a job...I graduated when I was 16 from high school. I am now a senior at my university. I am a very good student but when it comes to matters of the heart I become a little confused. I have loved this man since i was 18. We got into a relationship once i turned 19 I have not had many relationships. But we broke up in a mutual agreement. Our relationship was good. We have a few bumpy stages but the chemistry is there. after we had been apart for 2 months i met the other taurus... I guess i jumped in that relationship because i wanted to feel what i felt with this taurus...So maybe my previous relationship didnt grow enough for me to say without a doubt i loved him. But this taurus.. when i see him i feel butterflies im automatically drawn to him no matter where he is in the room. I feel his presence before i see him. I always want to please him. I just want everything to go correctly in this relationship. Maybe Im not very good at explaining my feelings. Or whats going on around me. You really dont understand. I guess that i dont communicate effectively. My apologies.

your way too young for him..id be really put off but someone at 20 years old being 16 years older than me...why cant he get a women his own age?!?

when a man is that much older it just seems like they are preying on you.

there is no age in love, if you really feel something for that person then let it be, thats why we dont just go there, we take time, we do it slow, to check every reaction, to feel safe giving feelings away for that person, AGE is not of the matter here, but if you see signs of its just for sex, i recommend to take your distance and feel safe with him before anything, make your self feel right and if it is him, go ahead but remember always give your self respect and dont give in easly...

best wishes..

Posted by woodenmeow
I dated a Taurus man on & Off for 3 years. He played alot of hot and cold with me.
In the end I found that he had many women/friends as he would call them. He used us for different things. We served different purposes to him.
Haven't had good luck with Taurus guys.
Sorry.. 🙂

Taurus guy don't play hot and cold. He do swings between hot and cold. with regard to women, Taurus likes women a lot and he usually call them friends because he don't want to be committed to them, unlike what he want from you, he wanted to be yours and he is fighting his eager to be a playboy.

Living with a Taurus is not easy. He needs a really loving and wise partner to hold him when he is weak and to support him when he is chasing a dream. And most important to give him the space and understand that if she tried to tie him up he will die (his love to you will die).
on the other hand, If you truly understand him and his needs and fluctuating modes, you will own him for the rest of your life, even if he played around and had some experiences with other women he will always choose you over them.

for example, my wife is the most amazing woman in this world, she hold me, she understand me, and she supports me and most important she protects me even from my self.
Many times she see me flirting with other women, even some time she draw my attention to a hot woman passes (sure after she pass) just to tease me.
and recently I had the worst situation ever and the guys here helped me to go through it. but the bottom line was that I will never ever find someone to give me my freedom like my wife does.
Before we got married I also used to be a playboy, but honestly after getting married I changed, last night I ask her "Don't you see that (the asshole inside me -I call myself that we talk about my playboy side-) is less active", and she replied "Way too much baby, Your last adventure was 11 month ago", hehehe she remember exactly the date (she is a Scorpio). I simply replied her "Thanks a lot honey because you set me free, and help me to be the man that I want".

So this is the Taurus or at least me, likes women but always come back home, and I am sure that with time he can be the best partner you ever dreamed of, but you have to be so patient and wise.

@seniormontana Thank you for your feed back..It was extremely helpful...The most helpful hint you gave me was patience... I dont have much of that so thats something i have to work on. I am easily upset for what some may call petty reasons. I get upset when my love one flirts, or openly admire other women i have a problem with that... I love commitment and I give my partner respect... I would never intentionally flirt in the front of him.. As a matter of fact I ignore all others so imagine my fury if he does such things. When I am upset I have a tendency to make big decisions. I just get snippy I cant help it then the first thing i blurt out is we are over... So when you say patience I recognize that as something I need to have or develop.. Thanks again.

Posted by XaldebaranX
there is no age in love, if you really feel something for that person then let it be, thats why we dont just go there, we take time, we do it slow, to check every reaction, to feel safe giving feelings away for that person, AGE is not of the matter here, but if you see signs of its just for sex, i recommend to take your distance and feel safe with him before anything, make your self feel right and if it is him, go ahead but remember always give your self respect and dont give in easly...

best wishes..

so a 30 year old can love a 12 yer old romantically?

with no issues?

Posted by XaldebaranX
there is no age in love, if you really feel something for that person then let it be, thats why we dont just go there, we take time, we do it slow, to check every reaction, to feel safe giving feelings away for that person, AGE is not of the matter here, but if you see signs of its just for sex, i recommend to take your distance and feel safe with him before anything, make your self feel right and if it is him, go ahead but remember always give your self respect and dont give in easly...

best wishes..

age is an issue soometimes...theres no black and white with this...a 36 year old man with a 20 year old is a problem