Love2Love
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Why Contact My Friend?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow! On the attack today aren’t we? What’s the matter, lock horns with your bull this morning?
Just because a Taurus does indepth "background" checks on you, does not necessarily mean we want to "fix things"...
If two people do not WORK as a team together no amount of checks with your friends etc. will work. All it is, is more information that the Taurus has gathered to weight up the "pros and cons" of even having you in his life in the first place and if the "cons" outweigh the "pros" you are history and the Taurus leaves NEVER to return knowing that they did EVERYTHING the could to make it work and gathered all the information they could to verify it.....
People are more than just a "sun sign" or "astrological placements" we are human beings at the end of the day with faults and each and everyone of us is unique... And the Taurus accepts this in mankind.
Taurus also knows that they want their relationships with the other person to work as a UNIT ie as ONE on the same hymn sheet, in rhythm and with as little "upheaval" and "drama" as possible because life is complicated enough as it is...
Judging from your other dramatic post.. You two don't work and I don't know how long you have known each other, but it is said if you have managed to emotionally connect on a deep level with a bull, you can suffer many differences in life and still "connect" with each other even if there has been a prior "disconnecting" as if your two souls have been joined. But this connection takes lots and lots of time...
Your best bet is to go NC and work on yourself as a person and have your own life goals and objectives in life.
Bulls are placid creatures who like a "simple" life as my bull was telling me yesterday evening.. They like to graze in the calmness of the wind and feel the earth beneath their feet as they gently swing their tales to the motion of the air... and not the fire that was raging through your thread of yesterday and the (—??) of today! Your are crazy! Perhaps a little too crazy for your bull who has gone into hiding and will come out when he thinks the "coast is clear"! lol lol
What gives you the right to think it’s OK to EVER (borrowing from your dramatics) judge or insult someone you don’t know as being ‘a crazy’? I’m far from it honey!
The way in which you approached and addressed me in your reply shows a complete lack of self-control or manners on your part. However, I will be gracious enough to admit, that somewhere within your ‘rant’ I got some useful information, which is what I was looking for. For example: My bull may be searching for information to do his pros and cons. I suspected this and you have confirmed. The pros will surely win.
If you actually read my current thread again, you will note, that I mentioned that he may well not want to fix things, and that’s quite fine. He has a right to decide what suits him best.
I fully realise that personalities are affected by various factors of which sun signs and placements are actually probably the least relevant. However, thanks for stating the obvious. Was that for me or for you?
As for my own life goals and objectives, they are completely in order let me assure you. That’s the reason he was attracted to me in the first place. Don’t get confused because I joined this website and made some inquiries!!! I wouldn’t be surprised if his insecurities are why he actually initiated the dramas himself and fled. No mental health issues here thanks, though after your tirade to a complete, you may want to check your own…
As for my —? it’s a stylistic thing rather than a dramatic thing. Why did it oppress you so much?
Finally, I would like to kindly ask that, if you see any posts by me, which move you to clear distraction as my previous two have. Just stay away, with your placid self, rather than get heated and throw unnecessary insults and judgements! Thanks and goodbye! 😉
Posted by Feral_doeWhy, thank you!
Damn, Love2Love. You are one classy lady.
I'm not being sarcastic.
Posted by Feral_doeExactly, I don't think he knows what's going on in his own head right now either! So it would be stupid to assume he went to fix things...Whatever the weather, I wish him the best.
Your bull might indeed be weighing his pros and cons.
I don't know the full story, btw. But I think the simple fact that he went to your friend in the first place is a good sign. It means he knows there's a lot to think about and he wants to make sureservations he makes the right one.
Still it could go either way. Who knows what's going on in his head?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Thank you. If it pleases you at all, perhaps you could help me further with my ignorance (without deflections). How is calling someone you don’t know ‘crazy’ not an insult? Granted, YOU never saw it as an insult, but sweetie it is...Posted by Love2LoveIt was not drama that I wrote. I was just making it "crystal clear" to from what I know. You can interpret it in whichever way you.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow! On the attack today aren’t we? What’s the matter, lock horns with your bull this morning?
Just because a Taurus does indepth "background" checks on you, does not necessarily mean we want to "fix things"...
If two people do not WORK as a team together no amount of checks with your friends etc. will work. All it is, is more information that the Taurus has gathered to weight up the "pros and cons" of even having you in his life in the first place and if the "cons" outweigh the "pros" you are history and the Taurus leaves NEVER to return knowing that they did EVERYTHING the could to make it work and gathered all the information they could to verify it.....
People are more than just a "sun sign" or "astrological placements" we are human beings at the end of the day with faults and each and everyone of us is unique... And the Taurus accepts this in mankind.
Taurus also knows that they want their relationships with the other person to work as a UNIT ie as ONE on the same hymn sheet, in rhythm and with as little "upheaval" and "drama" as possible because life is complicated enough as it is...
Judging from your other dramatic post.. You two don't work and I don't know how long you have known each other, but it is said if you have managed to emotionally connect on a deep level with a bull, you can suffer many differences in life and still "connect" with each other even if there has been a prior "disconnecting" as if your two souls have been joined. But this connection takes lots and lots of time...
Your best bet is to go NC and work on yourself as a person and have your own life goals and objectives in life.
Bulls are placid creatures who like a "simple" life as my bull was telling me yesterday evening.. They like to graze in the calmness of the wind and feel the earth beneath their feet as they gently swing their tales to the motion of the air... and not the fire that was raging through your thread of yesterday and the (—??) of today! Your are crazy! Perhaps a little too crazy for your bull who has gone into hiding and will come out when he thinks the "coast is clear"! lol lol
What gives you the right to think it’s OK to EVER (borrowing from your dramatics) judge or insult someone you don’t know as being ‘a crazy’? I’m far from it honey!
The way in which you approached and addressed me in your reply shows a complete lack of self-control or manners on your part. However, I will be gracious enough to admit, that somewhere within your ‘rant’ I got some useful information, which is what I was looking for. For example: My bull may be searching for information to do his pros and cons. I suspected this and you have confirmed. The pros will surely win.
If you actually read my current thread again, you will note, that I mentioned that he may well not want to fix things, and that’s quite fine. He has a right to decide what suits him best.
I fully realise that personalities are affected by various factors of which sun signs and placements are actually probably the least relevant. However, thanks for stating the obvious. Was that for me or for you?
As for my own life goals and objectives, they are completely in order let me assure you. That’s the reason he was attracted to me in the first place. Don’t get confused because I joined this website and made some inquiries!!! I wouldn’t be surprised if his insecurities are why he actually initiated the dramas himself and fled. No mental health issues here thanks, though after your tirade to a complete, you may want to check your own…
As for my —? it’s a stylistic thing rather than a dramatic thing. Why did it oppress you so much?
Finally, I would like to kindly ask that, if you see any posts by me, which move you to clear distraction as my previous two have. Just stay away, with your placid self, rather than get heated and throw unnecessary insults and judgements! Thanks and goodbye! 😉
I never saw what I wrote as a judgment or an insult. I just call a spade a spade, but what I wrote obviously hit a nerve as you were straight on the defensive...
My bull and I have locked horns about 3 times in 2.5 years but because we speak the same language and are singing from the same hymn sheet, it does not last very long and we are both very well, thank you for enquiring...
Good luck 😉click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I thought I was on the 'defence'? Anyway, please try to comprehend what you read. The keywords being, "I don't bring the drama" I just put in the best act against my better judgement from time to time.
PS. A paragraph from your other post :
" I am not totally innocent in the drama stakes, but I don't bring the drama. I contribute or (sometimes) give the OSCAR performance! I know I shouldn't but he know how to press my buttons..."
Enough said...
"Defence rests it's case"..
But yeah, OK, you win! That's how you bulls like it right? Your way or the highway? I can't believe you went searching for a quote to misquote! Yet I'm the one who's... Sweetheart bye. You're not a troll, you're a Taurus. 😉
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Errrrmmm, I am the prize... Thanks again for your input. Shall we call that a truce? 🙂Posted by Love2LoveWatch at learn..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I thought I was on the 'defence'? Anyway, please try to comprehend what you read. The keywords being, "I don't bring the drama" I just put in the best act against my better judgement from time to time.
PS. A paragraph from your other post :
" I am not totally innocent in the drama stakes, but I don't bring the drama. I contribute or (sometimes) give the OSCAR performance! I know I shouldn't but he know how to press my buttons..."
Enough said...
"Defence rests it's case"..
But yeah, OK, you win! That's how you bulls like it right? Your way or the highway? I can't believe you went searching for a quote to misquote! Yet I'm the one who's... Sweetheart bye. You're not a troll, you're a Taurus. 😉
U may win the stakes with your bull yet! 😉
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I'm being serious. Nothing wrong with a good debate, then agreeing to disagree... Take it easy.
There there, both you ladies. Things tend to become twisted when we are not at a face-to-face talk.
To Love2love,
JohntheBaptist can sometimes be a bit extreme with her words, but together with Bullseye, they study every case here and provide FREE CONSULTATION to all the ladies in regard to Taurus men. We should thank them for their services, service which can cost up to $ 50/hr with a astrologer who might not give advice as good as they, or maybe the same advice.
'Crazy' is over the hill, but maybe the word dramatic. I feel JohntheBaptist is coming from a Taurus point of view. She gave you a paragraph of useful insights which you acknowledge. To some Taurus, any drama is regarded as no-go and crazy (not in the mental way, but enough to disturb peace).
You'll find her advice very right on the nail and she says the things that your Taurus is THINKING but not saying out loud. What I dislike about Taurus is that they're evasive when you ask them straight when they really have issues.
To JohntheBaptist,
Still as candid as ever. Not every lady can take that though.
Thanks for letting me use your reviews on the other thread. I haven't gotten down to writing.
To Love2love,
JohntheBaptist can sometimes be a bit extreme with her words, but together with Bullseye, they study every case here and provide FREE CONSULTATION to all the ladies in regard to Taurus men. We should thank them for their services, service which can cost up to $ 50/hr with a astrologer who might not give advice as good as they, or maybe the same advice.
'Crazy' is over the hill, but maybe the word dramatic. I feel JohntheBaptist is coming from a Taurus point of view. She gave you a paragraph of useful insights which you acknowledge. To some Taurus, any drama is regarded as no-go and crazy (not in the mental way, but enough to disturb peace).
You'll find her advice very right on the nail and she says the things that your Taurus is THINKING but not saying out loud. What I dislike about Taurus is that they're evasive when you ask them straight when they really have issues.
To JohntheBaptist,
Still as candid as ever. Not every lady can take that though.
Thanks for letting me use your reviews on the other thread. I haven't gotten down to writing.
Posted by NefertariThanks.
There there, both you ladies. Things tend to become twisted when we are not at a face-to-face talk.
To Love2love,
JohntheBaptist can sometimes be a bit extreme with her words, but together with Bullseye, they study every case here and provide FREE CONSULTATION to all the ladies in regard to Taurus men. We should thank them for their services, service which can cost up to $ 50/hr with a astrologer who might not give advice as good as they, or maybe the same advice.
'Crazy' is over the hill, but maybe the word dramatic. I feel JohntheBaptist is coming from a Taurus point of view. She gave you a paragraph of useful insights which you acknowledge. To some Taurus, any drama is regarded as no-go and crazy (not in the mental way, but enough to disturb peace).
You'll find her advice very right on the nail and she says the things that your Taurus is THINKING but not saying out loud. What I dislike about Taurus is that they're evasive when you ask them straight when they really have issues.
To JohntheBaptist,
Still as candid as ever. Not every lady can take that though.
Thanks for letting me use your reviews on the other thread. I haven't gotten down to writing.
Posted by NefertariThanks.
There there, both you ladies. Things tend to become twisted when we are not at a face-to-face talk.
To Love2love,
JohntheBaptist can sometimes be a bit extreme with her words, but together with Bullseye, they study every case here and provide FREE CONSULTATION to all the ladies in regard to Taurus men. We should thank them for their services, service which can cost up to $ 50/hr with a astrologer who might not give advice as good as they, or maybe the same advice.
'Crazy' is over the hill, but maybe the word dramatic. I feel JohntheBaptist is coming from a Taurus point of view. She gave you a paragraph of useful insights which you acknowledge. To some Taurus, any drama is regarded as no-go and crazy (not in the mental way, but enough to disturb peace).
You'll find her advice very right on the nail and she says the things that your Taurus is THINKING but not saying out loud. What I dislike about Taurus is that they're evasive when you ask them straight when they really have issues.
To JohntheBaptist,
Still as candid as ever. Not every lady can take that though.
Thanks for letting me use your reviews on the other thread. I haven't gotten down to writing.
Posted by Feral_doeThat face said opposite! Lol
Damn, Love2Love. You are one classy lady.
I'm not being sarcastic.
I think he's weighing his pros and cons.
But unfortunately for him, this man isn't very clever.
A more sophisticated, evolved Bull would have just stuck with good old fashioned investigating...
His cards would have never been laid out on the table as to be so tedious as to entertain a conversation with a mutual friend.
He needs to 'brush up' on sticking his nose where it doesn't belong, LMAO.
I'm amazed you didn't contact him, cracking up.
My text message would have read "Quit stalking me"....met with a laughing emoticon.
But unfortunately for him, this man isn't very clever.
A more sophisticated, evolved Bull would have just stuck with good old fashioned investigating...
His cards would have never been laid out on the table as to be so tedious as to entertain a conversation with a mutual friend.
He needs to 'brush up' on sticking his nose where it doesn't belong, LMAO.
I'm amazed you didn't contact him, cracking up.
My text message would have read "Quit stalking me"....met with a laughing emoticon.
Posted by TaurusBull1977You don't say 'quit stalking me' - you just get mute! Otherwise they see it as an invitation!
I think he's weighing his pros and cons.
But unfortunately for him, this man isn't very clever.
A more sophisticated, evolved Bull would have just stuck with good old fashioned investigating...
His cards would have never been laid out on the table as to be so tedious as to entertain a conversation with a mutual friend.
He needs to 'brush up' on sticking his nose where it doesn't belong, LMAO.
I'm amazed you didn't contact him, cracking up.
My text message would have read "Quit stalking me"....met with a laughing emoticon.
@Gemitati.....
Nah.
The laughing emoticon would have said it all.
Mute indicates he's off the hook.
Getting called out on his BS and laughing about it spells 'humiliation.'
Trust me.
I'm a Bull.
This is why we're never this 'sloppy' at investigating, the fear of exposure is too much.
Nah.
The laughing emoticon would have said it all.
Mute indicates he's off the hook.
Getting called out on his BS and laughing about it spells 'humiliation.'
Trust me.
I'm a Bull.
This is why we're never this 'sloppy' at investigating, the fear of exposure is too much.
@JohntheBaptist,
Apparently no one gave the 'knockoff, bootleg Inspector Gadget.'
The Bulls Handbook to Investigating and Assessing a Potential Partner.
🙂 🙂 🙂
Apparently no one gave the 'knockoff, bootleg Inspector Gadget.'
The Bulls Handbook to Investigating and Assessing a Potential Partner.
🙂 🙂 🙂
Posted by TaurusBull1977You are too complicated for my fee reign brain! Lol
@Gemitati.....
Nah.
The laughing emoticon would have said it all.
Mute indicates he's off the hook.
Getting called out on his BS and laughing about it spells 'humiliation.'
Trust me.
I'm a Bull.
This is why we're never this 'sloppy' at investigating, the fear of exposure is too much.
@Gemitati
LOL.
He's a knockoff investigator.
After I would have sent that text message, I would have definitely had some popcorn, and a glass of wine.
LOL.
He's a knockoff investigator.
After I would have sent that text message, I would have definitely had some popcorn, and a glass of wine.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So, forgive me, but I'm a little lost. What purpose would humiliating him serve? I called him out, but didn't laugh...Posted by TaurusBull1977Lol lol lol Correct....
@Gemitati.....
Nah.
The laughing emoticon would have said it all.
Mute indicates he's off the hook.
Getting called out on his BS and laughing about it spells 'humiliation.'
Trust me.
I'm a Bull.
This is why we're never this 'sloppy' at investigating, the fear of exposure is too much.click to expand
I'm going sound like a right sap, but I don't feel particularly comfortable doing things that may hurt peoples feelings deliberately!
If am pushed or angry, sure, as that's what can happen. However, I was more confused than angry as, it took place after some air had blown off!
To be honest, I'm pro-ing and con-ing now too... works both ways...Can I get a copy of that handbook? 😉
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