Why so fake?!?!

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My Taurus man confirmed last friday that my family and I will spend the xmas with him and already gave

me the money to go to his den that would be mid December and 1st wk of January. So my family and I would

stay for 2 wks there and he said he is going to give more money,lol. and this is not good for me

anymore. lol. I just realized that I don't want to see him anymore. I'm already dating other guys.

I can't also figure him out why he is acting this way. When in fact he was so mean to me.
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@TLS hes my neighbor, he is rlly light-hearted with everyone who comes upto him and talks (at work and anywhere else) but online hes a completely diff. person...he has venus in gem so he has some girls in the palm of his hand, in person he respects every female/male and is respected in return. But he keeps the girls at bay...and has only one girl bestfriend (who is my BFF, and thats how i met this bull, 3 of us have known each other since high school and its platonic). But online someone asked him "talk about your crush" or something like that..he replies "she does gymnastics, blond hair and has a phat azz"
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aftershine,

yes. hahaha. Good catch. lol. He is US army Sag. I Actually told my Sag I just don't like too fast.

I back off a lil bit.


My weakness: I can't tell my ex Taurus man that I am not coming to his place. I am coward of doing

this since my heart is not into it and I don't like hurting his feelings when I don't really have

feelings for him. It died when he kept complaining and nagging when we were together.
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Posted by aftershine
Taurus people are all warm, reserved and kind personally but (ive noticed) online (ask.fm, instagram etc) they get all fake and become opposite...why??
For example: this taurean i know, hes really kind, good looking, reserved and kinda traditional (has cap rising) in person but online...the way he responds gives off a "player" image/feel....i dont get it :/

I think that may have nothing to do with his zodiac sign and more to do with him being a person. Personally, I believe that facebook, instagram, and twitter encourage people to be fake. They'll do anything to present themselves in a positive light to others viewing their page. It's natural for others to care about what others think. He might care too much therefore not worth you're time.
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Impulsv,

I don't feel anything about him after we had a huge fight because his statement was like unacceptable

in my part and he was really mad to me and I don't know the reason why other than commenting negative

to his negative story... He didn't treated me bad. He kept saying me that leave him alone or get out

to his house when I fought hardly and threw him some insults that he cannot stand.

as I am not a typical Scorpio, I quickly respond to him saying: If you want me to leave just pack up

my things because I can't deal anymore to all your dramas and complains. I teased him when we argued

and that really pissed him off 'cause I acted that I am not bother. Why would I bother myself with

this man who only cares his emotions...so I kept laughing at him until he took me back to where I

lived before. and yes I deserve better.

Thanks Implusv.
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I actually kept laughing at him when we had a huge fight because I wasn't get hurt of

breaking my heart. He was the one who invested a lot to me. So I just brush off my shoulder

and dare his challenge.


I didn't introduce him yet to my family and this is one of his complain before. I asked him

to give me time since we are just 5 months and I am not focus on this thing since we are at

peace. I didn't even know it hurts him and yelling me that I kept my relationship with him as a

secret..and etc. etc. Regardless of our situations.. I only can say, I didn't give him much attention

and apologized it to him. I am busy working thus I didn't see the problem that exist.

I think he doesn't like to spend xmas alone because he was alone last year and left his wife as he

said Her atm wife. lol. what a husband.. thus giving tickets to my family the back & forth was his

idea before we fight and apart from each other.
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and I already called the customer service and fees are worst. lol That's why he can't cancel.

and he said. My family will be fine in his place. He will give money again.

That is his statement. now, I am confused. Because living in the city is too costly.

My family will arrive on Dec. 18. and it's confirmed to him.

I HATE THIS. Next time: I won't allow any man to interfere my family.

I am really unhappy to see him again. I need a total NO CONTACT thing.. and walking away is my best way.
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They're just flirty. It's not fake, it's them. Mine is a big online flirt, he wasn't even aware. I never bothered to point it out, cause I knew it was irrelevant to our relationship. But then when a few girls started crossing boundaries, he couldn't understand why. I showed him how he was a big flirt, and was probably sending the wrong message (I used to do this myself) and now he's like, oh I need to speak differently to them now that i'm with someone....DUHHHH ahha. But he honestly just didn't know!!!!
It never rattled me bc I observed him communicating the same way with men. Lots of winky faces, etc. It's just him.

Sometimes I think he's an Alien....He's totally not in the loop about Human Code