wildflower
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Why the hot and cold!!
What should you do?
Have full life that it doesn't matter if he "disappears". He is busy living and dealing with life. You should be too.
It's only when your world becomes small that his part in it becomes so big and his behaviour has an incredible impact on you.
Think of it like two objects in space. Each will have a gravitational force upon the other. The larger one will exert the greater force on the smaller one simply due to its mass. In order for it not to be so affected the objects should be the same size. Therefore the force exerted on each other is equal. They coexist happily in the same space by each being as full as the other.
Does that makes sense? Probably not. It's too early.
Yay. Equality. #whenyoucutmeibleedlibra
Have full life that it doesn't matter if he "disappears". He is busy living and dealing with life. You should be too.
It's only when your world becomes small that his part in it becomes so big and his behaviour has an incredible impact on you.
Think of it like two objects in space. Each will have a gravitational force upon the other. The larger one will exert the greater force on the smaller one simply due to its mass. In order for it not to be so affected the objects should be the same size. Therefore the force exerted on each other is equal. They coexist happily in the same space by each being as full as the other.
Does that makes sense? Probably not. It's too early.
Yay. Equality. #whenyoucutmeibleedlibra
I completely understand this.
i'm a sag - it is a withdrawal. they make you feel so loved and admired even when you are apart but sometimes without any warning they go silent, they say the least and its so inconsistent from what you know and feel regularly. it makes me insecure sometimes like there its something wrong, something unsaid. because I don't understand my mind goes in complete overload of overthinking, preparation for a negative scenario .
I don't know, my bull is doing this. and I called him and asked him if something was wrong and he had a really rude tone with me, like how dare I ask. which is discouraging for me to be able to express my worries rather then suppress them like he does. I just cant understand this trait about the bulls. what is the reason behind it.
makes me a little angry, only because it still hurt a little everytime.
i'm a sag - it is a withdrawal. they make you feel so loved and admired even when you are apart but sometimes without any warning they go silent, they say the least and its so inconsistent from what you know and feel regularly. it makes me insecure sometimes like there its something wrong, something unsaid. because I don't understand my mind goes in complete overload of overthinking, preparation for a negative scenario .
I don't know, my bull is doing this. and I called him and asked him if something was wrong and he had a really rude tone with me, like how dare I ask. which is discouraging for me to be able to express my worries rather then suppress them like he does. I just cant understand this trait about the bulls. what is the reason behind it.
makes me a little angry, only because it still hurt a little everytime.
Posted by sagittariusxoGirl, I finally lost it I think........
I completely understand this.
i'm a sag - it is a withdrawal. they make you feel so loved and admired even when you are apart but sometimes without any warning they go silent, they say the least and its so inconsistent from what you know and feel regularly. it makes me insecure sometimes like there its something wrong, something unsaid. because I don't understand my mind goes in complete overload of overthinking, preparation for a negative scenario .
I don't know, my bull is doing this. and I called him and asked him if something was wrong and he had a really rude tone with me, like how dare I ask. which is discouraging for me to be able to express my worries rather then suppress them like he does. I just cant understand this trait about the bulls. what is the reason behind it.
makes me a little angry, only because it still hurt a little everytime.
Like the frustration and hi/lo is just not worth it. You want him?? You gotta accept that he will come and go, thats just him. What may be "something wrong" for us, maybe be "needing to recharge" for him.
Did you check out men are from mars, women from venus? wild stuff right there
Posted by sagittariusxo
I completely understand this.
i'm a sag - it is a withdrawal. they make you feel so loved and admired even when you are apart but sometimes without any warning they go silent, they say the least and its so inconsistent from what you know and feel regularly. it makes me insecure sometimes like there its something wrong, something unsaid. because I don't understand my mind goes in complete overload of overthinking, preparation for a negative scenario .
I don't know, my bull is doing this. and I called him and asked him if something was wrong and he had a really rude tone with me, like how dare I ask. which is discouraging for me to be able to express my worries rather then suppress them like he does. I just cant understand this trait about the bulls. what is the reason behind it.
makes me a little angry, only because it still hurt a little everytime.
Hi fellow Sag... Don't be down hearted... I met my stubborn bull 4 months ago and he acted just like yours...I was a basket case most of the time.. I wasn't sure if he hated me or liked me.. When we met we did not have sex coz he said he wanted something deeper with me but he would come and go, leaving me confused and dazed.. Fortunately for me I lived with a May Taurus..my daughter. I begin to utilize all the tactics I used with her when she was in a crappy mood.. One thing I learned was to let him be when he is away. For some reason I think they need this time to regroup and think.. We sags think at lightening speed , so we need to give others a chance to catch up.. Also I never told him anything about my past relationships and I only opened up as much he did.. When he would come back I would act cool and relaxed . Like oh well you have returned ..That's great. I did at some point lose it and deleted him ( I was allergic to commitment), but I undeleted him coz I loved the guy... We had a lot of fights too but we decided to compromise and that bull dug his heels in and waited for me to give in...needless to say he says he loves me everyday.. Let me tell you this relationship is difficult because of the fire in us.. We want the here and now. at this moment right now!! I can tell you they know what they want when they first meet you. It takes them long to share their feelings and I found out he was afraid because his last lady cheated on him and he finally let me know. I still have my psycho moments and he still hides from me for a 1/2 a day instead 5 days now.. but we have agreed that we will fight fair and not talk about things for too long that cause us to argue. If you can go on with your life and give him a chance to see your worth without being scary in love he may come around. I should know I would stay up nights going insane over my bull. They are definitely SHOW me people. But I learned he balances my crazy days. You have to let go to let them find you and love you.. When I did this he called one day to say.. You know what? I love you -you crazy psycho.. LOL
Good Luck
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