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YOUR TAKE ON THIS TAURUS MAN
He's keeping a harem.
Assessing the potential partners.
Keeping his options open while maintaining a respectful emotional distance (testing you at the same time).
I have a Venus in Aries as well.
This could be a 'contradictory/tricky' placement for a Bull.
We enjoy the chase, when someone appears intriguing, mysterious and unobtainable, but in the same token, we hate putting in the work for someone who is unavailable(in other words, we detest chasing people).
This could be the issue you're having with this Taurus man. Too many similarities.
You may not have a harem (just admirers), but you may be keeping the same emotional distance as well...and navigating through the idea of keeping your options open.
But being a Bull, something tells me if and when you do, he will hold it against you, and the waiting game might just take a little longer.
My advice, do as you wish.
Assessing the potential partners.
Keeping his options open while maintaining a respectful emotional distance (testing you at the same time).
I have a Venus in Aries as well.
This could be a 'contradictory/tricky' placement for a Bull.
We enjoy the chase, when someone appears intriguing, mysterious and unobtainable, but in the same token, we hate putting in the work for someone who is unavailable(in other words, we detest chasing people).
This could be the issue you're having with this Taurus man. Too many similarities.
You may not have a harem (just admirers), but you may be keeping the same emotional distance as well...and navigating through the idea of keeping your options open.
But being a Bull, something tells me if and when you do, he will hold it against you, and the waiting game might just take a little longer.
My advice, do as you wish.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Omg thank you for this insight! I feel that exact same way with my Venus in Aries (I've always stated I hated that placement in my chart cause my Taurus sun doesn't want it).
He's keeping a harem.
Assessing the potential partners.
Keeping his options open while maintaining a respectful emotional distance (testing you at the same time).
I have a Venus in Aries as well.
This could be a 'contradictory/tricky' placement for a Bull.
We enjoy the chase, when someone appears intriguing, mysterious and unobtainable, but in the same token, we hate putting in the work for someone who is unavailable(in other words, we detest chasing people).
This could be the issue you're having with this Taurus man. Too many similarities.
You may not have a harem (just admirers), but you may be keeping the same emotional distance as well...and navigating through the idea of keeping your options open.
But being a Bull, something tells me if and when you do, he will hold it against you, and the waiting game might just take a little longer.
My advice, do as you wish.
One thing... if and when I do what? Keep my options open or date around you mean? Or if and when I decide it to just be him. And should I just fall off his radar then? Am I to initiate or fall back and not pay him any mind and let it fizzle or he may come?
Yes I agree he has a harem, and yes I agree mines are admirers... yes to the emotional distance as well... I'm cautious and want to know he wants me too before I invest emotionally. I'm more in the limelight and he is more behind the scenes.
i don't want to be apart of a harem. And that sounds narcissistic to me lol. I was thinking because of mars in Taurus he was just slow and accessing me. Because no way he's testing all of them... and I don't see him allow anyone to touch him the same way, however I have an advantage with my status but I ain't competing for no man. You want me let me know and just come get me or keep the harem.
Forgot to add... he turned down sex and said once we cross that boundary it's a wrap that it's emotional attachment and such so he wants to wait for that. So it made me think he wants more. He does tease me a lot but I'm still waiting for sexual intimacy.
Posted by CrimsonGirlThank you for this insight. I can definitely do that, got a lot of things to take up my time anyways. Yep time to move on now.
If it were me I would move on. I mean I know it's hard because you won't get to see what the relationship would have become, but he's being immature and not putting in any effort to get together with you or show his interest. I know he said he's interested, but I'm sure many men are interested in you and would be a lot more proactive about trying to be with you.
Now, if you really still want to pursue him, I would just back off for a while. This being because Venus in Aries men tend to be attracted to women that are independent and have their own thing going on. So if you want to take part in the games, it would be best for you to just stop showing so much interest and kind of just do your own thing for a while.
Posted by CrimsonGirlOh absolutely. I've made my claim..he knows I want him so now I'm backing away. They always come back when they realize I'm gone (men always react when something is gone) the problem is it's always too late. This helped a lot so thank you.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSNo problem girl! Just trying to help. And I'm not saying you should stop feeling for him, because that's basically impossible anyway. Just take a step back for a while and reasses the situation!Posted by CrimsonGirlThank you for this insight. I can definitely do that, got a lot of things to take up my time anyways. Yep time to move on now.
If it were me I would move on. I mean I know it's hard because you won't get to see what the relationship would have become, but he's being immature and not putting in any effort to get together with you or show his interest. I know he said he's interested, but I'm sure many men are interested in you and would be a lot more proactive about trying to be with you.
Now, if you really still want to pursue him, I would just back off for a while. This being because Venus in Aries men tend to be attracted to women that are independent and have their own thing going on. So if you want to take part in the games, it would be best for you to just stop showing so much interest and kind of just do your own thing for a while.
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Posted by Teena?? yep lol. I'm running in the opposite direction now ——
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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSHaha!! Don't turn back!!!!?You deserve more ?Posted by Teena?? yep lol. I'm running in the opposite direction now ——
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Posted by Teena?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSHaha!! Don't turn back!!!!?You deserve more ?Posted by Teena?? yep lol. I'm running in the opposite direction now ——
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Posted by RedbullYes I was thinking in this realm to take it slow. But however I will still back off and give room and space and date around. I don't have a problem waiting IF he is courting me in the process but the it will be "soon" is throwing me off.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYa know, my thoughts on this type of thing is, whats the hurry? Like you said its been 2 weeks. I dont know or care how other guys do things but...there's no rush. If for some reason someone goes in another direction, life goes on otherwise work and stuff must be done or there is not enough comfort for it to work out right. What Im getting at it things take time to work out and get right. Fast-no thanks. Right-let that come.
He doesn't text or calls.. but if I text he responds and since I don't chase I rarely text so it could be days if not a week before I reach out. I only see him at the club which he works.
He allows me to touch him (like in very intimate ways) and he does flirt a lot with other women but no one touches him the way I do or I never see he allows it. He also tests me with having men approach me (he needs to cut it out it's annoying and I know it's him). He says he's just busy and it's bad timing why we haven't went on a date and soon we will, but that he is "very interested"... but whose that busy not even to reach out?
Is it time to move on? We are not official or anything so... (only been 2 weeks)
Him: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Taurus mars, Aries Venus
(Our sun and Venus are the same)click to expand
Posted by Librasetting— hey that could be it. I mean you not gonna take this punani? ? No for real though that might be it ?
He sounds gay to me.
Posted by RedbullThanks for putting a good perspective on this matter. It makes perfect sense... I did not sense he was leading me on. I just feel like I'm putting forth more effort right now (going to the club to see him when I'm a homebody and have things going on) and it's making progress but slowly... for instance he allows me to touch him waaaay more than before but I want him out of there so I can "get to know him" which he agreed is needed yet still he said wait that it's just "bad timing". What threw me off also is he didn't accept my sexual advances...but touches me sexually enough to arouse me and says sex is a intimate thing and we have to get there ? so I know I'm gonna have to wait awhile (that's gonna be a challenge cause I'm always horny). Now I don't know if I should continue or just dissapear and wait for him to contact me.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYeah the life of a Taurus man trying to get his stuff together. Its like it just doesnt work out that we can do all kinda stuff on the side. A little hanging out here and there but otherwise its about other things. I dont know what makes me like that but I look at it as focusing and taking care of things. I dont know why we cant,,,we're not so good at focusing on dating and stuff with things up in the air. We need our things in order before we can really do that. On the bright side thats to eliminate stress of worrying about money and the things that put strains on relationships. At least this is how I am. If I cant do something right and not half way, why even do it. Doesnt mean he doesnt like you. Especially women who flirt pretty much always catch my attention. Do whats right for you I would think.Posted by RedbullYes I was thinking in this realm to take it slow. But however I will still back off and give room and space and date around. I don't have a problem waiting IF he is courting me in the process but the it will be "soon" is throwing me off.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYa know, my thoughts on this type of thing is, whats the hurry? Like you said its been 2 weeks. I dont know or care how other guys do things but...there's no rush. If for some reason someone goes in another direction, life goes on otherwise work and stuff must be done or there is not enough comfort for it to work out right. What Im getting at it things take time to work out and get right. Fast-no thanks. Right-let that come.
He doesn't text or calls.. but if I text he responds and since I don't chase I rarely text so it could be days if not a week before I reach out. I only see him at the club which he works.
He allows me to touch him (like in very intimate ways) and he does flirt a lot with other women but no one touches him the way I do or I never see he allows it. He also tests me with having men approach me (he needs to cut it out it's annoying and I know it's him). He says he's just busy and it's bad timing why we haven't went on a date and soon we will, but that he is "very interested"... but whose that busy not even to reach out?
Is it time to move on? We are not official or anything so... (only been 2 weeks)
Him: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Taurus mars, Aries Venus
(Our sun and Venus are the same)
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Posted by Librasetting??Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI would lolPosted by Librasetting— hey that could be it. I mean you not gonna take this punani? ? No for real though that might be it ?
He sounds gay to me.click to expand
Posted by RedbullThank you. This was helpful.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSHaha yep...this sounds so familiar. He put into words everything too. Maybe in the past I dont know if I have really done that. Yep "timing" lets face it it needs to be right, He's probably been around enough and been through enough to have learned it just needs to be right he's not trying to make those mistakes like in the past again haha. I actually dont think its necessarily a bad sign whats going on. Would you want to deal with someone who just jumps on people quickly out here? Below the surface they have a lot going on...thats not my type of hype I know. Loose get around women I dont wanna be involved. That said, it could take quite a while, I know speaking for myself and another thing that resonated is I dont try to lead anybody on. You seem to have a pretty good idea of whats going on.Posted by RedbullThanks for putting a good perspective on this matter. It makes perfect sense... I did not sense he was leading me on. I just feel like I'm putting forth more effort right now (going to the club to see him when I'm a homebody and have things going on) and it's making progress but slowly... for instance he allows me to touch him waaaay more than before but I want him out of there so I can "get to know him" which he agreed is needed yet still he said wait that it's just "bad timing". What threw me off also is he didn't accept my sexual advances...but touches me sexually enough to arouse me and says sex is a intimate thing and we have to get there ? so I know I'm gonna have to wait awhile (that's gonna be a challenge cause I'm always horny). Now I don't know if I should continue or just dissapear and wait for him to contact me.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYeah the life of a Taurus man trying to get his stuff together. Its like it just doesnt work out that we can do all kinda stuff on the side. A little hanging out here and there but otherwise its about other things. I dont know what makes me like that but I look at it as focusing and taking care of things. I dont know why we cant,,,we're not so good at focusing on dating and stuff with things up in the air. We need our things in order before we can really do that. On the bright side thats to eliminate stress of worrying about money and the things that put strains on relationships. At least this is how I am. If I cant do something right and not half way, why even do it. Doesnt mean he doesnt like you. Especially women who flirt pretty much always catch my attention. Do whats right for you I would think.Posted by RedbullYes I was thinking in this realm to take it slow. But however I will still back off and give room and space and date around. I don't have a problem waiting IF he is courting me in the process but the it will be "soon" is throwing me off.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSYa know, my thoughts on this type of thing is, whats the hurry? Like you said its been 2 weeks. I dont know or care how other guys do things but...there's no rush. If for some reason someone goes in another direction, life goes on otherwise work and stuff must be done or there is not enough comfort for it to work out right. What Im getting at it things take time to work out and get right. Fast-no thanks. Right-let that come.
He doesn't text or calls.. but if I text he responds and since I don't chase I rarely text so it could be days if not a week before I reach out. I only see him at the club which he works.
He allows me to touch him (like in very intimate ways) and he does flirt a lot with other women but no one touches him the way I do or I never see he allows it. He also tests me with having men approach me (he needs to cut it out it's annoying and I know it's him). He says he's just busy and it's bad timing why we haven't went on a date and soon we will, but that he is "very interested"... but whose that busy not even to reach out?
Is it time to move on? We are not official or anything so... (only been 2 weeks)
Him: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Taurus mars, Aries Venus
(Our sun and Venus are the same)
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Posted by Simsimi? I try and thank you. ?? and I won't this time promise ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI just love you, so straightforward and light hearted and says as it is, simple. #WCW lolPosted by CrimsonGirlThank you for this insight. I can definitely do that, got a lot of things to take up my time anyways. Yep time to move on now.
If it were me I would move on. I mean I know it's hard because you won't get to see what the relationship would have become, but he's being immature and not putting in any effort to get together with you or show his interest. I know he said he's interested, but I'm sure many men are interested in you and would be a lot more proactive about trying to be with you.
Now, if you really still want to pursue him, I would just back off for a while. This being because Venus in Aries men tend to be attracted to women that are independent and have their own thing going on. So if you want to take part in the games, it would be best for you to just stop showing so much interest and kind of just do your own thing for a while.
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