Serious question for men...

Okay, so I had a debate with one of my gf's and I want to know from a number of men who's right.

Now, it is her opinion that if a man meets a great woman who is great for him, is beautiful and holds all the attributes he personally wants in a woman he will make her his woman right then regardless of whether or not he is "ready" for a serious relationship or if he's where he wants to be in his career yada yada.

I think that with men it's all about timing, I feel he could meet a great girl who could be great for him, but if he is not personally ready for a serious monogamous relationship, and or he doesn't feel like he is where he needs to be in his career or has not reached his personal goals he's set for himself, he MAY (not always) pass on a good girl simply bc he is not ready.

So...fellas, who's right?

You'd think it would be black and white but its not.

With that being said, you're both right because of individuality. Personal choice. For me, I'd approach it as your friend suggests as I'm likely to throw caution to the wind and take chances because its a rare opportunity. But I also recognize and respect your view because its equally real and others guys take that approach. There is no right or wrong...only lessons.

Yeah im NOT a man and I think this answer can be in limbo. No right or wrong answer. Depends on the guy and his focus in life and past experiences.

Maybe Boy A: Has had some good relationships and not have things in order, as in working on his career and educating himself. However, still schedule his time properly and make his women happy. While still have other things happening in his life.

Boy B: May know that right now he will lose focus, had relationships in the past when the women complained about him not giving all his time. Being late to work from spending all night with her, not turning in homework assignments because she begged him to hang with her. He might not know how to turn his "women" down and we all know that some women DONT wanna hear that you can't see them cause you have something else going on. They feel that you're putting other things before the relationship. Yes there were great girls, maybe treated him well, but he didnt know how to manage everything.

All ppl can't multi-task! I think it depends on where you have been in your life.

All of these were just examples! 🙂 lol

Posted by JBG
Okay, so I had a debate with one of my gf's and I want to know from a number of men who's right.

Now, it is her opinion that if a man meets a great woman who is great for him, is beautiful and holds all the attributes he personally wants in a woman he will make her his woman right then regardless of whether or not he is "ready" for a serious relationship or if he's where he wants to be in his career yada yada.

I think that with men it's all about timing, I feel he could meet a great girl who could be great for him, but if he is not personally ready for a serious monogamous relationship, and or he doesn't feel like he is where he needs to be in his career or has not reached his personal goals he's set for himself, he MAY (not always) pass on a good girl simply bc he is not ready.

So...fellas, who's right?

*points to the relationship forum*
Excuse me while I pour a drink...

😢 men dont like us talking about relationships lol

Lol!

This is a gay man cave. Lol

We might not 100% pass on her, we'll play wih her until the relationship blows up..or let her hang around while we're getting our self together ..😉 So both are kinda right..🙂