What is it with me lately...

.....and being attracted to men in relationships. Is there something in the air?

Do I actually enjoy the fact that they are taken? I mean, it doesn't feel that way... to me it just feels like all the good looking guys have been taken... but maybe that is not the case, maybe I just have issues... Maybe I've suddenly become a homewrecker... oh no! (not that I've followed through with anything, just secretly attracted)....

I had an argument (not really an argument) with a girl on the Aquarius forum recently, I told her my story and she got the wrong idea, started saying I was the type of person that went for people who are taken, people I can't have... I was so annoyed at this statement.

Now I feel weird though, like maybe I don't realise it but it's actually happening....ugh. what have I become... Aaaahhhh! - runs away-

Hahahaha... well

It could be to do with the fact that I don't want to be in a relationship right now... liking people always leads to something... at least if I like somebody who is taken, it won't lead to anything.

hahahaha that's kinda a weird way of looking at it.... I dunno what goes on in my mind when I'm not there though. 😛

Posted by feby
Hey really the only real live person you have to answer to is yourself. Fuck what anyone else thinks.

IMO you have to go through these things to get where you need to get to. Just enjoy the journey, but always always stay true to yourself.

You're always so sweet. 🙂

Posted by SingASong41
Even if you did follow through, who cares? It's all an experience... you don't need to explain yourself to a random on the internet.

Maybe you're just bored right now. Unavailability is always attractive for some odd reason. Are you attracted to them before or after finding out they are taken?

Lol at you trying to run away from yourself xD

I don't know, I never got the chance to meet them when they're single. 😛

Posted by JROI
.....and being attracted to men in relationships. Is there something in the air?

Do I actually enjoy the fact that they are taken? I mean, it doesn't feel that way... to me it just feels like all the good looking guys have been taken... but maybe that is not the case, maybe I just have issues... Maybe I've suddenly become a homewrecker... oh no! (not that I've followed through with anything, just secretly attracted)....

I had an argument (not really an argument) with a girl on the Aquarius forum recently, I told her my story and she got the wrong idea, started saying I was the type of person that went for people who are taken, people I can't have... I was so annoyed at this statement.

Now I feel weird though, like maybe I don't realise it but it's actually happening....ugh. what have I become... Aaaahhhh! - runs away-

Maybe you're going for "taken men" because unconsciously... you

don't really want any kind of commitment, atm.


Ever thought of that? 🙂

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by JROI
.....and being attracted to men in relationships. Is there something in the air?

Do I actually enjoy the fact that they are taken? I mean, it doesn't feel that way... to me it just feels like all the good looking guys have been taken... but maybe that is not the case, maybe I just have issues... Maybe I've suddenly become a homewrecker... oh no! (not that I've followed through with anything, just secretly attracted)....

I had an argument (not really an argument) with a girl on the Aquarius forum recently, I told her my story and she got the wrong idea, started saying I was the type of person that went for people who are taken, people I can't have... I was so annoyed at this statement.

Now I feel weird though, like maybe I don't realise it but it's actually happening....ugh. what have I become... Aaaahhhh! - runs away-

Maybe you're going for "taken men" because unconsciously... you

don't really want any kind of commitment, atm.


Ever thought of that? 🙂

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Literally just wondered that myself... 4 posts up from yours ^^^ haha

Makes some kinda sense.