Scorpio88
@Scorpio88
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Another one bites the dust?
The best advise is to stay clear until he figures it out for himself. Obviously he isn't comfortable with other people knowing that you guys *could* be intimate. This is a tale tell sign that he isn't into you. But, you have to consider that he's gotten out of a relationship. The last thing that he is thinking about right now is pussy..... what he is thinking about is what he did wrong to lose the girl that he WAS intimate with. Allow him to turn to you as a friend. That's what he needs right now. He's confused by females right now, and you're adding to his confusion. He probably doesn't want any extra pressure right now, and he's being respectful towards you by giving legit excuses rather than blow up at you. So, obviously he does care about you............
As for you baiting him over kissing your friend.... you did that on purpose to see how he would react. It was a silly game, but obviously you got the reaction that you wanted out of him. If he keeps bringing it up, it's not because it's bothering him, it's because he's baiting you to see what your thought process was behind your action. And he probably got the answer that he was looking for. If it was something that was really bothering him, he wouldn't bring it up at all. Noticed how no virgos have responded to your thread yet?? It's because the very nature of your post is bothersome.... you are messing around with someone's emotions, and toying with their head.
As for you baiting him over kissing your friend.... you did that on purpose to see how he would react. It was a silly game, but obviously you got the reaction that you wanted out of him. If he keeps bringing it up, it's not because it's bothering him, it's because he's baiting you to see what your thought process was behind your action. And he probably got the answer that he was looking for. If it was something that was really bothering him, he wouldn't bring it up at all. Noticed how no virgos have responded to your thread yet?? It's because the very nature of your post is bothersome.... you are messing around with someone's emotions, and toying with their head.
Ok I don't know how to do the copy and paste from people's posts so I'll just do it all in one post.
Let*It*Be:
I know how I wrote I made it sound really bad, but I was getting annoyed with the fact that he kept playing games with me, so I did it to him. It wasn't a repetitive thing. It was just those couple things. But I've learned my lesson, trust me. As for the mind games, he would tell me I had a chance with him and that kind of stuff. Then he would tell my friends that it would never happen. He admitted to saying that because he "didn't want them all up in his business", and if he said possibly, "they would ask a million questions". I don't know, I just didn't get it. But yes we did agree that if someone better comes along then so be it. But I guess I was trying to let my feelings subside and they got the best of me. And no, my friends know what he's been telling me. They weren't very happy with him.
We talked about a lot of this today. He did admitt to leading me on and he apologized for it. He said that he isn't looking for a relationship, which I already knew. But I don't think I can be friends with somebody that I like. It would probably be better if I cut my losses. I know it sounds selfish, but this isn't the first time I've been down this road. (everytime I tried staying friends it ended badly) He was practically begging to stay friends because I'm "down-to-earth, fun to hang out with, chill, not afraid to try to anything new, etc." He didn't want lose me as a friend. He considers me a best friend, which I didn't know. I thought I was just a good friend. He kept telling me he wanted to work things out, and he wants me to try to stay friends. But he was still going back-and-forth between only being friends and the "future" spiel. I'm still lost. I guess I'd rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. It'll hurt, but what the hell, I've been through worse. Any ideas?
Let*It*Be:
I know how I wrote I made it sound really bad, but I was getting annoyed with the fact that he kept playing games with me, so I did it to him. It wasn't a repetitive thing. It was just those couple things. But I've learned my lesson, trust me. As for the mind games, he would tell me I had a chance with him and that kind of stuff. Then he would tell my friends that it would never happen. He admitted to saying that because he "didn't want them all up in his business", and if he said possibly, "they would ask a million questions". I don't know, I just didn't get it. But yes we did agree that if someone better comes along then so be it. But I guess I was trying to let my feelings subside and they got the best of me. And no, my friends know what he's been telling me. They weren't very happy with him.
We talked about a lot of this today. He did admitt to leading me on and he apologized for it. He said that he isn't looking for a relationship, which I already knew. But I don't think I can be friends with somebody that I like. It would probably be better if I cut my losses. I know it sounds selfish, but this isn't the first time I've been down this road. (everytime I tried staying friends it ended badly) He was practically begging to stay friends because I'm "down-to-earth, fun to hang out with, chill, not afraid to try to anything new, etc." He didn't want lose me as a friend. He considers me a best friend, which I didn't know. I thought I was just a good friend. He kept telling me he wanted to work things out, and he wants me to try to stay friends. But he was still going back-and-forth between only being friends and the "future" spiel. I'm still lost. I guess I'd rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. It'll hurt, but what the hell, I've been through worse. Any ideas?
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
ya all make me feel bad about being a virgo. we all don't use people to gain knowledge.
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