What is the logic/physchology/neurology behind it?
Um, don't mind me for being a Virgo and all, but how about your H~E~A~R~T? lol No definition or formula can relate to the value of your own personal truth/beliefs. Why do you need an external explaination for something you already know the answer to? Search your head, and heart and put the two together to see what blends. Use the objectivity of subjectivity....analyze your feelings, and get to the bottom of you....love isn't something that is relative for everyone....we all experience it differently for different variables such as levels of serotonin, and other hormones and conditioned values we've taken in from our surrounding environment when it comes to the 'do's and don't' and 'right's and wrong's' of love..... so in matters of the heart, you'd be better off just going with your gut.
********** HAHAHAHA I can't believe first of all talking to a virgo about a heart. I am a master of heart stuff. I need to see the other persective of using head for love.
Since you're a Cappy gal. I'll tell you something about when I dated the Cap gal in 2006. I told her that I thought that if you liked someone, and like the pleasure you shared with them, love would come. She looked askance at me. She thought there needed to be a "spark" in a relationship for love to come.
Then I dated the Scorp gal, and we had TONS of stuff in common. And although she offered herself totally to me sexually, we just didn't see eye to eye on the subject. There was no SPARK. So maybe Cap gal was right.
My guess is, I felt a "spark" for Cap gal, but she didn't feel a "spark" for me... and that's why she could never let go to connect with me.
With Cancer gal. It was when she showed me that she was not jealous (in those days anyway) and really cared about my welfare, even if I was with another woman... that I felt real love for her.
What is the logic/physchology/neurology behind it?
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Today I am only in the mood to listen/read/sing/think/see/explain/FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL love. Nothing else.!
Thanks in advance.!!