virgo and aquarius (2 females)

Hey everyonei'm new i have a couples questions i've been lurking for a while and i love the advice you guys give one another.


ok out of no where this girl i had a crush on about 3 years ok starts talking to me through "email". At first she just sent me normal stuff like she's relocating soon so i told her we should hang out. I gave her my number and her being and aqua she never called. This is understandble because i said we should hang out before she leaves. Then we start emailing back on forth just really getting to know each other. I dont know weather this is flirting or this is a friendly thing. I cant read her!!!!!!! She's having a birthday party next week and she kept inviting me even doe i said it was short notice and it was a pity invite because she just did it since it was just mentioned in convo. She assured me it was pity and she wanted all her "friends" there.

someone help plz how do u know when and aqua is flirting or just being friendly? i dont wanna mess our friendship up because i like being able to talk to her. The virgo in me wants to know so bad where i stand but i wont dear spill my guts i dont wanna cross the line.


i also want to invite her to dinner on a friendly basis but i'm scared if it's not flirting i dont want her to feel uncomfortable. i really just wanna have dinner and chill nothing more. should i even ask or wait a little bit longer?

Does she have an inkling that you have a crush on her?

I dont think you should ask or anything...you should just feel her out. Well a friendly dinner doesnt hurt. If you come on too strong she'll split whether she likes you or not.

don't be afraid to flirt! aquas love a flirt.

don't come across too strong though, Lady M's right, she'll split.

well i asked her out and we had a great time, we were suppose to hang out the next day but one of her friends came from out of town so we couldnt.

I really dont understand her i havent talk to her in 2 days so i'm wondering if she's not intrested. i forgot about my pride and called her but i got no answer. should i just write her off or be patient?

The thing i like about her is her mind she so smart and i love the fact that she tells me no, i cant tell you how that turns me on.

First and foremost...IS she a lesbian or are you just trying to tun her into one?

Dont get caught up in the time frame and days with aquas, b/c we dont work in that manner like everyone else. SO what I'm saying is you have to be patient.

"""I really dont understand her i havent talk to her in 2 days so i'm wondering if she's not intrested. i forgot about my pride and called her but i got no answer. should i just write her off or be patient?"""

Lady M
"""Dont get caught up in the time frame and days with aquas, b/c we dont work in that manner like everyone else. SO what I'm saying is you have to be patient."""


yeah I have to agree......just be patient.....maybe she is just busy and doing her own thing....this is where alot of things goes wrong with Aquas (read the threads in the Aqua board...all based on this part)....people think they are not interested when they don't call right away but actually things are happening...like her friends came from out of town ...so most likely she is spending time with them.......considering she hasn't seen them for a while......but it doesn't mean she isn't interested.....so yeah just be patient.....for what I have read .....it takes alot for them to like someone and let them into there lives..( I have an Aqua Moon and this is what I'm like) ..so yeah continue what you are doing and just relax.....be patient 🙂

First and foremost...IS she a lesbian or are you just trying to tun her into one?

Dont get caught up in the time frame and days with aquas, b/c we dont work in that manner like everyone else. SO what I'm saying is you have to be patient.


lady m she gave me a clue without me asking her, we were talking about her ex's and let's just say she tried to sneak in there that one of them was a she. I didnt question her i just let it go and continued with the convo.



anyway update i went over her place yesterday afternoon and we talked before she had to go to work. It was a nice time but she was sitting mad far from me and there was a connection but not a strong one. As i was leaving she asked me to come over again that night so i was like ok i'll call when i get off. Of course i called and got no answer but she called me back and said she was driving home. So i was like do you still want me to come through and she said i"m home home (she lives out of state). I'm puzzled she didnt let me know anything till 6 hours later i really dont get this girl.

I'm gonna take your advice and be patient that's all i have anyway.

This girl is driving me crazy i havent talked to her in like 3 days? i'm about to revert back to my virgo ways and just say f it.

v28 take your time i have to agree with the others Aqua don't like to be rush and we don't either just take your time she'll come around it took mine 4 months to ask me out

well i was planning a surprise for her on feb 13th since i have to work valentine's day. I'm only taking the step because she asked me what i was doing and went into rant about how she never has a valentine. well me being who i am i was kinda cold i said it's just another day and i'm working. I mean it was the truth but i dont think i should have said it like that. SO anyway i dont know when she's coming back but she should be back by next week wednesday. I was planning on cooking for her and i just bought 2 bottles of moet also my friend at the gym just happen to give me 2 tickets to a r&b concert.


I'm wondering if i should even do any of this because i dont know if she even likes me and i dont know if you guys consider this rushing?

help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

one more thing since i havent talked to her in 3 days and tommorow is the day of her party should i call her. I still wanna go to her party so i have to make sure everything is still cool

Everything is still cool. We dont really hold grudges and what you said doesnt seem so bad. You should go to her party if you want to talk to her again.

You dont have any patience, in fact your like the female version of Branh. Three days seems like an hour [or less] in communication time to us. This is going to drive you insane and its usually why virgo and aqua dont work out We tend to turn you all off with our 'unconventional' ways.

I personally dont see you getting a relationship out of this girl....but if you play your cards right you could get sex.

Well i dont just want sex from her if it even goes that far i like her for her mind she's really open and i love that. I dont necessarily want a relationship with her it would be nice but i wanna be her friend more than anything.


update:


i called her today and how bout she changed her number so i emailed her and told her if i dont hear from her by 5 today i'm not driving out of town to her party. I would feel so foolish if i went and i didnt hear from her, even if i did hear from her i feel hurt that she couldnt even call me to tell me she changed her number.


Am i wrong?

If you want true friendship from an aqua....THAT in itself takes YEARS. Yes we may have GREAT magnificent conversations with you and charm your pants....thats usually not our true self. It takes a while to get to deep personality of the aqua the no holds bar, no fluff, no soliloquies, no sarcasm, no wit. You dont KNOW her....and you probably never will...it is what it is. We're just as secretive as a scorp, if not more because we have personality to hide it. 😉

She sounds, from your posts, like those waaaay out there aqua chicks. Your gonna be driven crazy for a while 😛

Its good that your letting her know your position about the situation. She can either take it or leave it, but you've said your peace. If she cares, she'll be understanding and figure out the error of her ways and hopefully get better in communication with you....sloooowly of course.

Thank you UC...see your so much better at writing these things than I.
The impatience I'm getting from her posts doesnt sound good at all.

i'm not being impatient i'm a virgo you guys know if i dont have a direct path it fucks my mine up. if i know someone likes me we can go slow but if they dont we can move towards friendship. She's really killing me because i like her but i cant figure her out and i dont wanna over step her boundries. I know i kinda confuse you guys but this is what i want from her. I like her and i think we should start off as friends but if it's not going in that way i would love to have her as a friend.


thanks for all your help guys i really appreciate it

i havent talked to her since tuesday i'm starting to be really concerned. Her phone has been either disconnected or changed and i dont know if something is really wrong or she's just doing her. I have her house number but i know she's not back home yet i'm really worried and hope she's ok.

well i finally heared from her i'm so happy she's ok just had to take care of some things.


patience patience i know i know

yup! your correct.....lots of it 🙂

i'm trying but is there a way to test her and find out if she likes me or this is just a convience thing (she just got out of a long relationship) or it's a friendship thing?

If i know she's kinda feeling me it would be no problem to take it slow but since i dont know where i stand i often act cold towards her. I've never even hugged her i just usually say bye and roll out.

When i talked to her today i think i came off as too anxious because i was like are ok i was gonna call your roomate and find out if you were alright, i didnt do it because i didnt know if u would have a problem with that.

I told her i had a surprise for her she sounded intrested but who knows.

i think i'm gonna give her some space i just cant keep wondering what if.

thanks for all your help guys

lol

Wow...Its not your fault.

i know lady M but i dont like chaseing i dont believe i should have 2.

Then dont....find someone else.

I am she pushed me away but i'll be dammed if she doesnt know how to get me back.

yesterday i planned a wonderfull day an in typical aqua fashion it didnt happen. so i was pissed off and i let her know, she started being all apologetic and i didnt wanna hear it. I was actually busy with school today and she was texting me telling me she was to see my and i didnt get her text messages because i was in class and i dont get good serivce in that room. So she sends me a text asking if i was ignoring her and that would be so rude if i was blah blah blah. In my mind i'm like do u think you have a right to be mad you want what u want when u want it. The one time i cant answer you as soon as u text me u get mad, man get the fuck outta here. I got so upset but i just told her i was in class and i'll call her later. I really like this girl but everything cant be on her terms that's not even how i opperate if i start being myself it's not gonna be nice.

today is vday she wants to see me but i dont know if i wanna see her

I gave in and called when i got off work of course she didnt answer then i left her a text saying i was gonna drop her gift on her doorstep. I got no response so i said fuck all this back and forth and sent her a text saying i missed her and wanted to see her today. I in aww of this girl because she's so unconventional i wanna get to know her but she's not letting me.


I know i know i really need to back of and just go the other way. I really am too vunerable this is not something virgos like to do and i feel myself drifting away, i cant let that happen.

Your gonna hate us (aqua ppl) after this is all said and done....


You do remind me of Branh0913 though, lol....and shaka.

is this normal lady m u think i shouldnt have said i missed her i didnt wanna argue n e more?

It is fairly normal and no I dot think you should've said you missed her. Why did you buy her a present??

her birthday was last week it's wasnt a big present it was just thoughtful. You know us virgos we listen and remember everything so i got her something small but meaningful. she actually just called me but i was busy so i missed her call, i think you guys are right im gonna let go.

aqua's are the devil i insist