Im a leo who is "friends" with a virgo male. We met on a blind date on halloween night. Initially it was supposed to be one date but it turned into something more. He's in the military and hes deploying in 17 days. We are both attracted to each other, we're compatibile on so many different levels. He said he didnt want a relationship because hes going to be out of the country for four months and "dont want to be worried about something half way across the world". Yet he we text/talk for hours atleast five days a week, most of the time he initiates it. He even invited me to his house to "get to know him a little bit better". We have had sexual contact (not all the way) and im the first partner hes been with in 5 months. I asked him why and he said hes very picky with the women he has romps with. He was deployed for 8 months and claimed not to have any sexual contact for 8 months. When we are together he says things like "you're unlike anyone i've ever met". In one breath he'll claim we are not in a relationship and then a few sentences later he'll say "my other relationships were like this and that"- One minute he's trying to persuade me to date other guys and then he gets jealous if I mention another guy. Hes always texting me "whats up" and "where are you at"- But we're not in a "relationship". Lol. Im a double leo (sun and moon) and I believe he is a double virgo. The reason why we are so compatible is because we are both willing to compromise a bit. There are things I want to say/do around him that i wouldnt have a problem doing around other guys, but I dont want to scare him off so I hold back and I know that he does the same thing. Normally I wouldnt put this much pressure on a guy to put a label on things- all I want is closure before he leaves. I cant go four months and know where I stand with him. I am the last person he talks to at night....what is he so afraid of? If he asked me to hold off on dating other guys for four months....I will. I feel hes battling with himself. We have know each other for less than two months but we have such a connection. I know virgos are usually private people...we talk about EVERYTHING. There's not a question i'll ask him that he wont answer. I have my theories and ive read alot about typical virgo behavior. I want to tell him how I feel before I go. Where do you think his head is at? Do you see interest? What should I say to him before he leaves?
