Taurette View Of Virgo

How do you guys see Virguys?

Just wondering, because you make us act crazy.
So I think to many signs Virgo seems bookwormish, but to Taurette, she's never experienced a Virgo who was less impassioned than an Aries...only with longer lasting probably 🙂.

Virgo makes me laugh. That razor wit, the dry sense of humor. The way they look so buttoned down and proper. It simply invites that reaction of wanting to worm under that, let it all fall away. Virgo and Taurus just have an understanding, on many levels.

LOL Absolutely. Seems we both have had previous Virgo ownership. 😉

INDEED my good woman. Mmmmhmmmmm. 😈 No words necessary.

Well, I am the odd woman out. I will say this disclaimer "I've never DATED a Virgo" so, this is coming strictly from my friendship capacity. I have (I think, since I will admit to not being the best with remembering birthdates)2 male friends & 2 female Virgo friends, that I know for certain are Virgos, as I know their birth dates and we have talked about astrology before; and then there is another male, but he is a cusp of Virgo/Libra, and he has a LOT of Libran tendencies, so I think of him more as a Libra.
What I do like about the Virgo friends I have is that they are very intelligent, and we can have intellectual conversations, as well as sport conversations (well, the males anyway), and everything in between. In social atmospheres, they are always talkative and there are no dips in conversation (usually they are talking about themselves, but I see this moreso in the males, but I'll get to that in a moment).
The cons (and these two are big for me) - cheap and overly critical (the males I know), and in the females, very, very jealous - they admit to it, and know they can't control it. One of my Virgo male friends, I've known him the shortest, about 6 years; we met through a mutual friend, and I'll be polite in describing that he loves women - which wouldn't be a problem if he wasn't always cheating on one of them with multiple other women. That's not my issue, that's something he needs to work on, but I swear he and I got into the biggest, most heated discussion regarding his (now ex) girlfriend. She does very well for herself and has expensive taste (won't bat an eye at spending $ 500- $ 1000 on a handbag/boots, etc). It drives him crazy, and when he and I (argue) about this, he just says in his stubborn way, "It's just crazy to spend that much money." But then I tell him, that's B.S., as he has no problem spending x-amount on expensive watches, golfing, etc. It's fine when it's for him, but if it's on her, he was always b# $ ching about it! I called him cheap, and he laughed and didn't disagree. I feel like she works, she has her own house, car, etc - she can spend her money on whatever the hell she wants. Also, again, the males I know can talk incessantly about themselves, that's fine, but sometimes they need to take a step back and ask about others too. Also, the males and females I know are very critical of everyone. While they think I'm b# $ chy, and they have no problem telling me (which I'm fine with) I call them critical and they don't like it.

Ahhh virg, who could ever dislike you?

Hey, there is nothing wrong with being who you are Virg_goki. And again, this has just been my experience with the Virgos in my life, but people are human and different, so what one may exhibit in a characteristic may not translate or carryover to others within that same sign. Trust me, I get called a snob by ALL of my friends (even my mother and I have had "discussions" about that) I own it, it's who I am. To some people it may be off putting, it's ok, I can live with that. Being cheap/stingy/frugal/fiscally responsible, hey, that's not necessarily a bad thing either. At least you know you won't be living on the streets, etc, because you've been saving/putting money away. While I may not want to date someone who is stingy, doesn't mean that I think there is necessarily anything wrong with that person; just our life style s likely won't mesh. My ex-Libra was fairly frugal, BUT, he had a generous heart and had no problem giving nice, thoughtful gifts for friends and family (some may have been expensive, some may not have been, but it's the thought that counts). In turn, I gave him everything physically/emotionally and monetarily that I could, because I knew he would do the same for me. We balanced one another very well, because he pretty much let me be me, but also, if there was something critical that we knew we would be getting in the future (purchasing a house, car, etc), he had a way of making me see it wouldn't be wise to spend (blow) x-amount on something frivolous that wouldn't help us in our ultimate goal. I respected him for that because he rarely said "NO" to me, but when he did, it was ALWAYS for a good reason that benefited us both.

@ Aphrodite Bull, yea, it doesn't work at ALL with my personality type (and mind you, I'm very laid back...for the most part). If I'm working and doing my thing, leave me the f@ck alone! I don't tell ANYBODY what to do or not do with their money. That's THEIR business. I have girlfriends ALWAYS crying broke; yet, they are constantly shopping every week. Do I care? Absolutely not, what the hell does that have to do with me and my bills— They aren't asking me for money, so obviously they are doing what works best for them. I just can not understand my friends incessant need to control his girlfriends spending. His rationale was that if they got married she would need to pout the kabosh on all the spending. Well, that went into another realm of what I think about cohabitation and shared responsibilities; which I will not go into on this forum - suffice to say, he got an earful, and we never had THAT conversation again! LOL!

LOL @ "Off with his Pe_nis!"

NOOOOOOOO not the wand of delight! *sobbing* Why, oh GOD WHY?!!