Bi- Virgo Gal Taking Over My Brain

Ok so recently this virgo gal has just commandeered my cancerian brain. We are in the same grad school program, so we spent the whole summer sitting next to each other working. WE always chose each other to be partners, and had a great time doing so. Now Fall has started and we see each other almost daily, but we don't have to. We just choose to work together in the lab on our work. We also go out to dinner like once a week, or just hang. We can never seem to say good bye to each other. I have had the crush for a few weeks now, and I just discovered she is also bi. However, it is hard to tell if she is interested in me as a friend or as more. Any advice Virgos on how to tell?

Hello,

As a virgo myself I can only explain that I tend not to 'invest' my energy on people I dont genuinely care about. In all my relationships ive started out wanting to learn as much as I can about the person and thrive on their attention and want to do as much as I can for that person. I would go slowly and perhaps start putting casual flirting in but in a light manner at first so she can take it either way and if she responds with a flirty response, perhaps not straight away or completely directly, then you can start slowly going down that road until you will just KNOW. I think the chemistry between a virgo and a cancer can be amazing but both signs value security and trust so it can be a slow beginning

Women will break the shit out of your heart good luck

Posted by Sag89
Women will break the shit out of your heart good luck

HEY!YOU TAKE THAT BACK!

@ Kam.. thank you it seems to be going that way :-) nice and slow her very interested in my life and experiences.

@ sag Men will do the same, take it from someone who has dated both

@ Curious... She is no where near a player.. She is shy, quiet, and well adorable. She hasn't dated much, and is very reserved with her private life... However I have known player virgos just all men

In fact I have dated more virgos than anything else in my life just never a female. She is quite different from them. Has me all starstruck man

try heating it up a notch through physical contact.. but keep the process slow and natural. friendly touches at first and see how she responds. if she doesn't freeze up and distance herself, then start sensually touching her... if she responds well to THAT, well then you have your answer that you're not in the friendzone at least. whether or not she wants a relationship with you is another story.

for me, because i have difficulty verbalizing how i feel, touch and being physically in the moment with someone is very important. i don't necessarily even mean sex. tangibility.

Posted by That1Girl
@ Kam.. thank you it seems to be going that way :-) nice and slow her very interested in my life and experiences.

@ sag Men will do the same, take it from someone who has dated both

@ Curious... She is no where near a player.. She is shy, quiet, and well adorable. She hasn't dated much, and is very reserved with her private life... However I have known player virgos just all men

In fact I have dated more virgos than anything else in my life just never a female. She is quite different from them. Has me all starstruck man

Yep so have I.

Well I am not bi. But what I can say is that, she isnt going to spend time with you if she didnt feel that same connection. One thing about Virgo's. WE DONT LIKE WASTING OUR TIME. I think I would just try to do more things. IDK the role in the relationship. As in it being 2 fems or if one is more dominant than the other. But I would just try to play my role in the relationship as to what I have in my vision. I am sure once you show that,she will fall into place.

Well she does seem to enjoy spending time with me. Today we played hookie from school and went to the outdoor hot tubs here... I decided to wait on the physical touch thing from today, because I felt like being in a hot tub it might come off as too sexual, but I will give it a go when it feels natural. We already hug hello and goodbye, which is nice

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Posted by Sag89
Women will break the shit out of your heart good luck

Especially indecisive sluey Virgo women can you just imagine....

urff why do you want such a neurotic hair brained monster CRAB?

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I wouldn't use any of these words to describe her....

Well I haven't really tried anything... Expect the hugging which she will wait around for now when we are saying bye...