Can I get my Virgo girl back?

We broke up after being together for some months recently. Toward the end for no reason she became kind of cold. It seemed like all of her problems she was having, she started taking the anger out on me. When we broke up I told her that loved her and I alway will. She still asks friends how i am, and tries to talk to me and be my friend, but I cant just be her friend. Im just wondering, Is this ALL we're gonna be for life? I want her back, I love her too much to just be her friend. Should I let go or what?

Posted by SoInLOVE
We broke up after being together for some months recently. Toward the end for no reason she became kind of cold. It seemed like all of her problems she was having, she started taking the anger out on me. When we broke up I told her that loved her and I alway will. She still asks friends how i am, and tries to talk to me and be my friend, but I cant just be her friend. Im just wondering, Is this ALL we're gonna be for life? I want her back, I love her too much to just be her friend. Should I let go or what?

what happened for her to go cold? did you guys have a talk as to why you should break up? sometimes other life problems can make you go cold, act distant, angry in front of people you are close to, because you are comfortable with them, like family, not upset with them. did she have any other stress that was causing her to act disinterested?

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Posted by SoInLOVE
We broke up after being together for some months recently. Toward the end for no reason she became kind of cold. It seemed like all of her problems she was having, she started taking the anger out on me. When we broke up I told her that loved her and I alway will. She still asks friends how i am, and tries to talk to me and be my friend, but I cant just be her friend. Im just wondering, Is this ALL we're gonna be for life? I want her back, I love her too much to just be her friend. Should I let go or what?

what happened for her to go cold? did you guys have a talk as to why you should break up? sometimes other life problems can make you go cold, act distant, angry in front of people you are close to, because you are comfortable with them, like family, not upset with them. did she have any other stress that was causing her to act disinterested?

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IDK She just started getting stressed with family, school and she was outta work and running out of money. I was the only one that was trying to help her, but she just got cold with me. We had regular couple' arguments, and she got SO angry when we had a disagreement of any kind. She would talk to other friends and talk about possibly breaking up when we had these arguments. She Got overly dramatic about our disputes. I was never right about anything. When I would express my feelings she got upset about that. I wasnt angry, I was just telling her how I felt about how she was acting toward me some times. She broke up with me once before for like 2 days because I got a lil frustrated and raised my voice at her. I left her alone and she called be back after 2 days. When we broke up there was a major family issue, I told her that I would be there for her any way I could and she said what she felt like she needed was to be alone. She checks to see if Im okay but I tell her that Im still upset and she just said... Im sorry...
She tries to have regular everyday convo with me but I just can't. Its way to hard, just knowing she is not mine is killing me.

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Posted by SoInLOVE
We broke up after being together for some months recently. Toward the end for no reason she became kind of cold. It seemed like all of her problems she was having, she started taking the anger out on me. When we broke up I told her that loved her and I alway will. She still asks friends how i am, and tries to talk to me and be my friend, but I cant just be her friend. Im just wondering, Is this ALL we're gonna be for life? I want her back, I love her too much to just be her friend. Should I let go or what?

what happened for her to go cold? did you guys have a talk as to why you should break up? sometimes other life problems can make you go cold, act distant, angry in front of people you are close to, because you are comfortable with them, like family, not upset with them. did she have any other stress that was causing her to act disinterested?

IDK She just started getting stressed with family, school and she was outta work and running out of money. I was the only one that was trying to help her, but she just got cold with me. We had regular couple' arguments, and she got SO angry when we had a disagreement of any kind. She would talk to other friends and talk about possibly breaking up when we had these arguments. She Got overly dramatic about our disputes. I was never right about anything. When I would express my feelings she got upset about that. I wasnt angry, I was just telling her how I felt about how she was acting toward me some times. She broke up with me once before for like 2 days because I got a lil frustrated and raised my voice at her. I left her alone and she called be back after 2 days. When we broke up there was a major family issue, I told her that I would be there for her any way I could and she said what she felt like she needed was to be alone. She checks to see if Im okay but I tell her that Im still upset and she just said... Im sorry...
She tries to have regular everyday convo with me but I just can't. Its way to hard, just knowing she is not mine is killing me.

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sounds like she has a lot on her plate right now! She told you exactly what she needs...time to herself...and you told her youd be there for her...pretty much all you

grrrr...got cut off

anyway...

pretty much all you can do...so I would back off and let her have her space for now.

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What's your sign? Curious.

Ima a libra

Posted by LostinmyMind11
grrrr...got cut off

anyway...

pretty much all you can do...so I would back off and let her have her space for now.

But she tries to talk to me like things are normal but I know they are not. I leave her alone but she keeps talking to me, but I know we arent back together. Should I just ignore her texts? because i cant just be in the friend category. I know virgos think with their heads, so I feel like she will keep in mind that we are friends and my heart will be leading me. Will she come around to where we will be Bf and Gf again?

I dont know if she will or wont come back. Obviously she still cares for you...even if its just friends. with all the things on her plate she probably just cant handle a relationship right now. If its too hard to be her friend and be there for her then you need to do whats best for you in all of this...she'll understand it.

Is it usual that once a virgo puts you in the friend category do you stay there?