@Peanutbutter
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if u know theres something there, dont let your ego ruin your chances. just follow your heart man.
"if u really liked her this wouldnt b just an "oh well" sort of situation. when a guy says this to me i take it as a " im done trying, youre not worth it, adios" sort of thing."
+1 I'm the same way!
yes leo they are hard to get but i love the challenge, i'm in the same situation as you, well actually my virgo already told me that men should always be the hunter haha I use to think the same way as you but im a hard headed taurus haha that just wont give up mostly because she is worth it ... a virgo women is worth waiting for ....
Leo33 dude i know u didnt try to kiss her on the lips... U basically cant invade in a virgos territory... Especially not on a first date... They will feel u ar moving waaaay too fast...if u imagine yourself to be a girl on a first date n your dude tries to land one on your cheek, u may think different!
We leos think nothing much of these gestures but for virgos they likely wait weeks before a kiss.
My friend got all cringy just coz the guy txt'd her after the date to make sure she is ok... See wat i am saying?
Posted by leo33
Thanks to everyone for the comments.One thing that needs to be clear is that I initiated calls and text for an entire week then there was that week of silence .
I texted her tonight and I know I messed up, Im so STUPID. said something along the lines of "Looks like I will have to chase you now, hope you don't regret it later 😛. " and called her spoiled LOL. She obviously did not reply.
I will call her later today and if she doesn't answer, then I guess that says it all.
Good luck man, hop everything happens for the best.
awww I'm sorry leo dude! 😢
Although I recognize what all these people are saying about virgo women it has also been my experience that when a virgo woman is interested it is unmistakable. They have their own way of letting you know that they're into you. This story which you told us doesn't seem to be such a case, she lost interest in you after the first date. Sorry if that's harsh but it had to be said. No amount of pursuing by you would have won the day.
Posted by leo33
Thanks for the reply.Then why, 6 days after the 1st date, when we spoke on the phone, she asked me to go see her at her job? Make someone else at work jealous?
If this is the case then she shouldn't have texted me the next day, I guess that was my second chance and I blew it 😢
Don't kill yourself over this is all I am saying. If she comes back to you again, play nice and be good. If she doesn't on't wait and worry about her and keep analysing things like you're at the moment.
You are right.
Thanks.
Posted by leo33
You are right.Thanks.
Cheers. Have fun!
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if u really liked her this wouldnt b just an "oh well" sort of situation. when a guy says this to me i take it as a " im done trying, youre not worth it, adios" sort of thing.
if youre really done with her, fine. let it be. if not dont end your texts with a ,oh whatevers, type of statement.
remember youre the hunter shes the prey, theres no way in hell i woulda messaged a dude, you do the work now.. yeah were kinda old fashioned at FIRST n very few guys can handle making all the moves, be different n put in the effort to make the connection succeed, itll rock her socks off n show her youre serious about things n itll give her the confidence (aka itll sjow her she can trust n relax in your presence) to make the moves later on along the line.
i dated a leo n it ended because well alot of reasons but one was that we had a date set out to meet n he expected me to call to remind him about it so we never communicated n i felt like he disregarded my time n ditched me. it went nowhere. if u want to hangout with her show it. i know u leos like to b swooned over but that kinda thing doesnt come out of us Virgals too easily. And when it does youll know we have a soft spot for you. Trust, you want a girl who is picky about who she lets in to her life instead of a girl who lets everyone in 😉
good luck Lion.