Cap + Virgo

Where do I begin?? A long-time(like 12 years) virgo male friend(platonic) and I are beginning a more serious 'relationship'. Right now its LDR until I move out in his area soon for a new job and yes to see if our friendship can evolve. Why we never 'got together' before? Circumstances. But now, we have a real chance. He calls it fate and has no reservations about 'us'. I do but only due to my own insecurities which he tells me time will heal, and he won't push or rush me. He told me if I decide 'we' can't be, he'd be ok with that too. He would be hurt, but we've always been friends and all he wants is my happiness.

I have never had a relationship with a virgo before. He is unlike any man I have known..he somehow 'gets me' and always has. He accepts me and my past and I, him. He has always seemed like the most self-sacrificing person I have ever met. He gives me a kick in the rear when I need one, and he has always been my rock/shoulder to cry/lean on. He said we won't have sex until I feel ready to take that step with him on my own terms. I am in my 40's and he is in his 50's.

I know virgo's can be harsh and complain, etc., but having known him so long, I accept that about him...its simply his way. And I know he has alot of love to give too. We are alike in many ways but maybe that's due to being earth people..

So I guess my question is..what is it like to date or live with a virgo? I've read Caps and Virgo's mesh. Astrology wise..

mine:

Sun Capricorn
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Aries
Uranus Libra
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
True Node Aries
His:

planet sign degree
Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Leo
Venus Leo
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Leo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
True Node Libra

Nice..another virgo guy/cappy female couple, like in my case 😄 although I dont live with my cappy I do spend a few days with her at her appartment sometimes. I think we'd do alright living together but we dont feel like rushing it in, its probably going to happen at some point though, since we've been together for 2 and half years.

I'm with a Cap.Heaven here on earth.It is real.You are on the right track.One steady step at a time.He's trying not to scare you off by moving carefully.

He'll relax (with his habits)when you two get things sorted out as to what type of relationship that you both deciede to have.We like to mother hen our loved ones.

To get to this point we had to deciede who was going to be in charge of what.Don't emasculate him.Balance the power.It's a partnership.Enjoy it.

Cafe astrology.com can help you charts.Good Luck.

Thanks for the responses. I'm letting him take the lead pretty much. I wondered about the control issues virgo's and cap's can have, so ty for addressing that 🙂