Capricorn woman CANNOT get over Virgo man

...no matter how hard she tries.....

I had a powerful spiritual experience with this one virgo (actually he may have a little leo bc his bday is Aug 24), me, a Capricorn could have had any guy I wanted but this Virgo eluded me. He gave me all the signs of someone who is interested and would get jealous if he heard of me involved with another guy. It was like he would keep me at arms length, yet the attraction was there. The sex would be explosive, I would be left trembling with orgasms and he would fall into a slumber. It turns me on just thinking about our time. Of course, we had to end it. I was becoming like an addict for him, and i guess, to him I was too distracting. 2 years past without any communication, and all of a sudden he contacts me again to rendevous. We have sex, and again I feel all the feelings I had for him come back. Was he just jerking me around?

I find Cardinal signs, particular Capricorn and Libra, have difficulty "letting go". Cancers as well, Aries not so much.

As for whether he was "jerking you around"? It's hard to tell.
You have not given us much information about him.

Okay so he's a highly visible person and after years of not talking and not seeing each other, he hits me up randomly to see me. We rendezvous , hook up, and then nothing else. However months later he hits me up to give me his updated contact info. I loved him with all my heart. He is stubborn, arrogant, and likes to push buttons. When I figured this out, I've became completely unresponsive bc, he's the one who said "we can only hookup" so i took every pain to control feelings for him. Though, its only when he found out about the drama I was having with another guy is when I ever got any kind of reinforcement of his (albeit minimal) interest of me. It's like he was never happy until he broke me down, and i was stubborn and did not want to break or be made a fool of. And I felt like he would make a fool of me. We randomly talk, but I always initiate. It's like I'm his puppet and he knows how to pull my stings. I'm afraind to look into his eyes because its like I become hypnotized and when we do hold eye contact its like we're both in a trance. We hook up, the sex is magnificent, but then in the morning, its like the spell has worn off.

Posted by SkinnyCap
He is stubborn, arrogant, and likes to push buttons.

How Virgoan 🙂

When I figured this out, I've became completely unresponsive bc, he's the one who said "we can only hookup" so i took every pain to control feelings for him.

It's pretty straightforward with us, like you quoted him here.

It's like he was never happy until he broke me down, and i was stubborn and did not want to break or be made a fool of. And I felt like he would make a fool of me.

This is one of the big reasons why, I suspect, he will not want more from you.
This independent-I-Do-It-All-By-Myself-Don't-Need-No-Man attitude of the Cardinal female signs, most prevelant in the Capricorn and Aries, that can turn a Virgo off.

Then when after we wade through all the frontin' and bs, you all break down and show us your soft underbelly that ain't nobody s'pose to know about. It pisses us off, the whole need for "a strong image". We know you're strong, we love and respect it, but once we do know, and you persist in continuing to project it in-front of us, we become intolerant.

We randomly talk, but I always initiate. It's like I'm his puppet and he knows how to pull my stings. I'm afraind to look into his eyes because its like I become hypnotized and when we do hold eye contact its like we're both in a trance. We hook up, the sex is magnificent, but then in the morning, its like the spell has worn off.

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That's a Virgo man for you, honey.
We need or recharge time and space, that doesn't mean we love you or want you any less though.

This is one of the big reasons why, I suspect, he will not want more from you.
This independent-I-Do-It-All-By-Myself-Don't-Need-No-Man attitude of the Cardinal female signs, most prevelant in the Capricorn and Aries, that can turn a Virgo off.

Then when after we wade through all the frontin' and bs, you all break down and show us your soft underbelly that ain't nobody s'pose to know about. It pisses us off, the whole need for "a strong image". We know you're strong, we love and respect it, but once we do know, and you persist in continuing to project it in-front of us, we become intolerant.

Dang.

Ya know what. What makes you angry about our need for a strong image? Wanting to be or even appear strong should not be an issue, especially knowing the type of people that will easily try to take advantage of others in this crazy world.

I think more than anything, we will continue to project that image in front of you because there may be issues with trust. Never dated a Virgo, but I have a few Virgo relatives, and I think Virgos are skilled at telling people what they want to hear. That can eventually start to feel a bit manipulative, insincere, and can cause a lack of trust, which will in-turn make our guards go up again. I don't think a Capricorn, especially, would ever have a problem letting her guards down if she is able to fully trust.

Posted by lnana04
Ya know what. What makes you angry about our need for a strong image? Wanting to be or even appear strong should not be an issue, especially knowing the type of people that will easily try to take advantage of others in this crazy world.

I think more than anything, we will continue to project that image in front of you because there may be issues with trust. Never dated a Virgo, but I have a few Virgo relatives, and I think Virgos are skilled at telling people what they want to hear. That can eventually start to feel a bit manipulative, insincere, and can cause a lack of trust, which will in-turn make our guards go up again. I don't think a Capricorn, especially, would ever have a problem letting her guards down if she is able to fully trust.

Well it all comes down to the person, honestly.
The decan helps too, Decan 2s are your best bet.
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Exactly, it was very hard to trust him because he never let his guard down! Now, i guess he's matured, so if i was to hit him up and spill my guts, I'd get a lame generic response like "Thank you, it means alot" I dont know, I feel he should succomb to his love for me lol(now im being delusional ha)

Virgos have extremely strong emotions but are not comfortable with or don't trust them. He definitely felt the connection too, otherwise he wouldn't be back, but he can't handle it for the long haul. He would prefer to be with someone long term who he is not so "crazy" about. It's kind of frightening to have such a strong connection with someone. Just my opinion.

A lot of Virgos disassociate themselves with someone when that person exemplifies an attribute they don't like or don't tolerate.

For example, bad table manners or foul language will probably turn them off from you completely.

Maybe an event or something you might've revealed to him that may have caused the change of heart?

Im loving this Cappy women/Virgo men wave of threads lately, lets keep it going 😛 you ought to admit it, we rock each others world.