May/December - Virgo/Capricorn

It's a little overwhelming if I think about the age difference. It's a sixteen year age gap so it's pretty serious, he's been through so much more than I have and I know as Earth signs we don't really like to bullshit but I can't help but wondering what he could possibly want with me. I don't want to dwell too much on the fact that he's a Capricorn because his Venus is in Aquarius and I'm not sure how much of a difference that makes in settling down or what not. I just want to know if anyone thinks I should wait for something to form or find someone my own age.

Are you a Taurus or Virgo? Just wondering?

I'm a Virgo-Libra, Gemini moon.

sounds almost as bad as mine she is 31 I am 44

But that's why I'm asking. I'm a faithful woman and would remain so as long as he is. That's why I'm asking for advice. Is it likely that he'll remain a faithful man to me?

I know a cap with a venus in aquarius. I haven't ever seen him pursue a relationship. He enjoys time with his friends tho and I'm sure he enjoys dates because we went on a few. We're just friends now, but he's a good friend.

Maybe I'm just looking too deep into it. The rest of his chart is very Earthy besides his moon so I don't think that his Venus sign should be THAT big of a problem to wear all Venus in Aquarians are like each other. It's just that we're really compatible in Eastern and Western astrological terms but I don't want to jump the gun on anything if he doesn't want anything serious.

I think if you are having to ask the question then you already know the answer.

I think she will stay with me for as long as it last.
After that who knows maybe we ask to much of others.
Maybe we just need to do the best we can and let it be.

There is no guarantee about anything when it comes to love and relationships. The only way you're going to find the answers you seek is by trial and error and living through this experience one day at a time. If you care for this man and he has shown by his actions that he cares about you sincerely and with consistency then go with your heart and leave the rest up to faith that whatever happens happens without regret in the journey. It's all a gamble and there is nothing sure or set about love. Trust your instincts, learn from your mistakes, have patience and go with the flow.

Posted by Fecioara
It's a little overwhelming if I think about the age difference. It's a sixteen year age gap so it's pretty serious, he's been through so much more than I have and I know as Earth signs we don't really like to bullshit but I can't help but wondering what he could possibly want with me. I don't want to dwell too much on the fact that he's a Capricorn because his Venus is in Aquarius and I'm not sure how much of a difference that makes in settling down or what not. I just want to know if anyone thinks I should wait for something to form or find someone my own age.

Age gap is only a problem if the older person starts parenting and seeing the younger as immature. Or if the younger starts looking at people their own age 10 years down the line and regretting their choice. Thats nothing to do with starsigns. if you feel you can find a younger person who is just as compatible Id say go for someone your own age. But if the person has a rare compatiblity with you that you feel is hard to come by I would go for it. Thats whats happened to me. At 36 I have particular tastes and having found someone who understands me the age gap doesnt matter because its more important that they are one of the few people who understands me and my quirks.