Almost every where we hear/read/listen etc. that Capricorns and Virgos are supposed to be very compatible for LTR, be it for a bussiness or personal.
My experience has been bit different. I like virgos for their honesty, most of them are good people, but somehow almost all of them have been my enemies before they became my friends.. I feel they are capable of provoking me and getting me involved into arguments. Also, I feel they always demotivate me for my "most ambitious" agendas in personal/professional matters. BUT once I start something, they are the first one to provide full support till it is finished. I also find them very tricky to deal with like I am writing an exam/quiz.
In particular, for a personal relationship could there be an ego-clash between the two? What about competition? Any Cap-Vir couple here? Could it be torcher for life time to be always perfect in his eyes? What are the positives of the relationship apart from financial security and practicality due to both being earth signs?
A language instructor was explaining to her class that French nouns, unlike their English counterparts, are grammatically designated as masculine or feminine. Things like 'chalk' or 'pencil, ' she described, would have a gender association although in English these words were neutral.
Puzzled, one student raised his hand and asked, 'What gender is a computer?' The teacher wasn't certain which it was, and so divided the class into two groups and asked them to decide if a computer should be masculine or feminine.
One group was made up of the women in the class, and the other, of men. Both groups were asked to give four reasons for their recommendation.
The group of women concluded that computers should be referred to in the masculine gender because:
1. In order to get their attention, you have to turn them on. 2. They have a lot of data but are still clueless. 3. They are supposed to help you solve your problems, but half the time they ARE the problem. 4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that, if you had waited a little longer, you might have had a better model.
The men, on the other hand, decided that computers should definitely be referred to in the feminine gender because:
1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic. 2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else. 3. Even your smallest mistakes are stored in long-term memory for later retrieval. 4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it.
are'nt virgo and cap supposed to be the best zodiac match like sag/aries or leo....?
---- Atleast from this board, it does not seem so 😉...Kidding...
The problem is that THE ONE is toughter than all virgos on this entire board, I can put him on one side with qualities (and problems) of this board's all virgos and not sure how I can handle that. So far, very few folks I can find interesting and this one has gotten quite a lot of my interest.
Agree, perfect chemistry and yes we have so much respect for each other as for me until I respect someone, I can't love them. There is something in his eyes and the slow and neat ways of his doing things and his implicit questions and actions and on and on and on...and Ofcourse his intelligent debates and arguments that have been able to make me speechless many times...
archer,
Ya - what else can we expect from a virgo besides having intelligent debats every day.. Will and can keep us really busy. The thing is- I like intelligent people and as we know we are not dealing with a stupid person, things will/could go little bit off the track.
Dy,
Yes - that's possible, I feel this guy is insecure and tends to always prove that he is better than me, which he definitely is, but does not need to be too insecure about that.
About fairness part, this is one part I like about virgos that even for people they fight with, they can be fair and see the good sides of others. Height is, even after a strong disagreement with each other on some things some times, he will make sure I ate enough or reached home safely etc..
This one is not born on cusp , so not sure if that too could play a part. This one is a perfect virgo born in the middle of sep. and I am a perfect cap.
Now the last thing I want to do on the earth is marry a virgo BUT seems like destiny is taking me in that direction already! :-)...
WOW- you have put it so perfect verbally, I liked that. That's what I feel more or less about virgos. There is some irrestable attraction between the two and yet, almost the same insecurities.
Shall reply soon for some of things you are unsure about from Caps perspective.
I mistakenly posted this feedback somewhere on cao board too.
I know a Cap Virg couple...man being the Cap. In this particular pairing, the Virg woman puts up with all kinds of crap from the man...he dominates her, and is a bit of a bully, but she is really into the whole Virg service thing, and doesn't appear to mind it too much. They had six kids and are pretty prominent in their community...they both are pretty interested in being part of the community and are a team. A pretty good match, it seems to me.
Hi to all. I'm new...and virgo...age 28. I thought I'd give my personal experience about virgo-capricorn relationships.
I dated a capricorn for three mths and found him to be controlling. He asked personal questions I'd prefer to share in my own time. His desire to control when we had sex, what we talked about, when we saw each other...was too much for me.I also found him boring.
My best friend at work is a capricorn. We get along great in that he's helpful, supportive, consistent. However, he gives me opinions when I do not ask for it. He wants to "tell" me what to do most times. There are days we get on each others nerves but the next day...we forget about whatever made us mad. I find him somewhat boring too.
bran, you're right. I was born in 1979 which actually makes me 27+. It's a bad habbit. Whenever my birthday passes each yr, I automatically start "thinking" of the year I'm approaching. I need to correct that in my profile as I'm really not anticipating getting older. But, when I get to 30...I'll keep saying I'm 30 or won't tell my age. We'll see.
I agree with I think capinlustwithleo...? A lack of respect/committment in a cap/virgo man/female respectively leads to issues. I found myself on the "serving" side I guess you could call it. I wasn't into astrology like that then but I guess I found myself in that situation. For eg. The cap guy had issues to begin with. When we started dating...about 2wks later his cell phone was turned off (for non-payment). For the life of me, I offered to pay the bill until he got paid. It was $ 150. My reasoning behind it I guess was this was the medium of communicating with him, and I wanted to keep it open. However, deep down I lost some amount of respect doing this favor so early in the relationship. Secondly, he pulled out a couple hundred dollar bills (showing off) at dinner one night...gave me $ 100 back and to date I have not received the balance of $ 50. We stopped dating 1.5yr ago. I don't mind helping...but I expect you to do what you said u would. And he had the nerve to ask me for $ 300 a mth later to go out of town. I took money from my rent and loaned him, then he said...I'll be waiting in the car. I told him...sorry I can't do this, give me my $ 300 and take care of yourself. He simply was not into me and had money problems. Well I was not a bank.
Here we go. My super analysis about Virgoman/Capwoman relationship from cap woman's perspective:
Attraction: Immediate and Magnetic, there is something in those virgo eyes that can't be described enough by words.
Virgo guys no doubt are classy, reserved, traditional, down to earth,intelligent and yet smart enough for a cap to run the social life with ease and harmony. They are well mannered and generally look younger than their age. They are controlling yet subtle, fault finders yet giving constructive criticisum.
Cap has ambitious big grand agendas well thought out, yet when represented to a virgo,that one liner comment about the one overlooked/missing item from a virgo is in fact very important. This makes cap more secure for if she is making a mistake she has a virgo better than her to turn the wrong into right. Virgos are generally loyal once committed, Caps have major major problems dealing with a person who is not loyal in personal relationships. Virgos comparatively less romantic nature infact makes cap feel secure as she finds that due to virgos this type of (boring) nature, less women will try to divert her man into them. Virgos can be really handy in fixing things at home and taking care of all long boring maticulous details. Caps find this as a sign of some one responsible and caring. As some one already mentioned, that killer look of virgo when well dressed up and his way of eating slowly and carefully (even making perfect pieces before eating😉 and actually listening and observing every thing around him makes cap feel safe that she is with some one who is going to take care of every single details of every thing...
Both are down to earth and do understand the long hours put at work by each other w/o further explanation. Cap can help virgos the big picture of a matter when virgos get caught up into minute details. Cap can keep quite when/if virgo looses his temperment occasionaly and later show him slowly the why/how of a matter for virgo sometimes can't tolerate some things and will just bluff it out.
Problems: INSECURITIES at both ends. Tell you the truth I am hearing it for the first time that "Caps may find them too good for a virgo". Cap are emotionally so insecure they are afraid, about the what ifs of , if they can't meet virgos impossibly high standards for almost every thing. Both are insecure interms of emotions. I get insecure sometimes thinking what if a guy will give me sun/moon/starts but down
I get insecure sometimes thinking what if a guy will give me sun/moon/starts but down the road won't give me enough love, this is my biggest insecurity, on the other hand virgos worry too much about being a good provider for ever. Both have terrific proud and need respect and have a desire to control every thing including each other.
Caps are generally misunderstood, in particular when they have successful careers that they won't be able to offer enough love/care/respect, which is not true. Because when a cap engages herself in a LTR, that and the family becomes her first prioroty, they won't mind quitting the career if the guy can provide enough for/if neeed for the family. Caps actually are very protective of their family and loved onces and they do take so many responsibilities on their shoulders for the sake of their loved ones. Virgos seem to appreciate this and they too have long term views for any relationship rather than short term impractical views.
Caps though considered unemotional, are actually more emotional than a virgo. This precise setting of emotions, not too much yet not none, makes virgo feel secure and keeps him away from getting over loaded with emotional stuff. Virgos are intelligent and Caps can really "manage" this intelligence in a very productive and even bussiness oriented ways, which virgos would have never thought of. Both like to save, when a virgo chooses a place for dinning/discussing etc. he really does his home work for every thing and takes care of every single details and plans and organize every thing(including the change for the toll!!!!). If we ask a virgo to remind us of something after a week or two, virgos w/o fail will do that and for a cap that is the height of the precision (as to leos we have to remind every thing 100 times and even after that they may/can forget.) and that means any important thing in the household will never go to a mess/runout. Oh that "proof reading" of a presentation slides by virgo and his thinking of my every thing more than myself is a solid proof of his being considerate of a cap and for the cap that's all it matters.
Virgos do have great ego and so do caps, this is one area both need to be careful. Also, caps might need to release up some of the controls and virgos might learn to trust others for doing the stuff with the same quality as they do. Insecurities for emotional,economical and all other stuff must not get into a way else it will end before it starts.
-uninteresting -too serious of a nature (i know right...a virgo talking about being serious...but we need a break from our own inner disaster) -annoying -unattractive -no feelings in general
They are good as friends though, nothing more nothing less... just casual FRIENDS.
In element Earth group, I find either Virgo or Taurus compatible. Capricorns in my personal experiences were not my type of people.
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Almost every where we hear/read/listen etc. that Capricorns and Virgos are supposed to be very compatible for LTR, be it for a bussiness or personal.
My experience has been bit different. I like virgos for their honesty, most of them are good people, but somehow almost all of them have been my enemies before they became my friends.. I feel they are capable of provoking me and getting me involved into arguments. Also, I feel they always demotivate me for my "most ambitious" agendas in personal/professional matters. BUT once I start something, they are the first one to provide full support till it is finished. I also find them very tricky to deal with like I am writing an exam/quiz.
In particular, for a personal relationship could there be an ego-clash between the two? What about competition? Any Cap-Vir couple here? Could it be torcher for life time to be always perfect in his eyes? What are the positives of the relationship apart from financial security and practicality due to both being earth signs?
Thanks