CapriVirgo breakup - How to handle

Folks need help...

We brokeup about 6 weeks back. I can't get out that virgo guy out of my head.
When we first met he found out so many faults in me and told me every thing on face.I felt I was treated so disrespectfully. The more I kept quite the more he kept on being descrimintaing on me. Basically he did not let me speak and argued every thing I tried to speak and won all arguments. After a while though he was under his control that he bluffed out every thing on me and then we decided for second date. During his long lectures I figured he is pretty witty and full of knowledge and that's what liked me inspite of his stupid behavior with me.

On the second date he was extremely well dressed. While on the first date he was in casual. On the second date he got suspecious that why did I select to meet him and not some one else? What are my motives to be interested in him etc.? All of a sudden he said, I don't think it will work between us.I am capri and pretty egoistic. But the reasons he had given to me were based on his very quick and false judgement about me based on his suspecion. Does any one need to be "suspecious" about why the other person shows interest in us? Isn't that a good sign? I travel by air to meet him, I think to him that was impractical and may be scary too.

The thing is, though he was weired in behavior I know he is intelligent and straight forward and seemed to me he was very reserved and not that experienced in this dating stuff.

I wrote him a long email trying to explain him that his suspecions were wrong and wrote him that his misjudging and qucikly judging others might make him loose a real relationship opportunity with some one and hence he needs to careful next time etc. Obviously no reply. After that I wrote him 2 more emails , with care without any angry words etc. Again no reply.

I am not planning to write him 4 th email, but can't get him out of my head as I feel we are both very similar in nature, likings etc. but due to his inexperience in dating, we are screwed up.Can a miracle happen in which he realizes that it is his mistake? Does a Virgo man ever come back? What are the chances?


Should I , at all attempt to win him back?
If yes- Which approach should I take to win him back?
Do I need to move on? If yes - How—?

I had read that Capri-Virgo is a good match, then why didn't it go that way?
Thanks!!!

if u love him.. let him go.. whether or not he returns only time will tell... u dont even know if you'll want him by then..but for now.. let it rest.. too much of nethings no good for u.. especially analyzing and suspicion
~~Just a tip 😉~~
Ps.. yes.. i have ben virgoed!

I have a one question. What does virgoed mean? I've never seen that before.

lol..Brandon wood love to answer that question

Ne experience especially intimate(not just sex) with Virgo qualifies as having been "Virgoed"

In my case.. i was left puzzled after a relationship with one..now over but it wasnt so much as a mutual ending of the thing.. i just decided im not good with Not communicating.. before during or after the fact of ending a relationship
He came to a decision at some time (without ME) that he wasnt gona discuss the way he really felt about things..aside from trivial sh**.. so for watever the reason..ill find out sooner or later

I was virgoed

Hopelessdreamr:

That's very sad to hear your situation. Not very nice of him to not discuss what he's feeling. You have a right to know where you stand since you were in a relationship with him.

So Virgoed means Virgos stop talking to you? Isn't that immature? Am I missing something here?

No.. as Brandon sed.. meanings are subjective.. Id say to be Virgoed is to be subdued by them..submitting to the "being" with them.. its a hold they have on u.. thats wat makes u Virgoed..

Wow. I wonder if I've been a bit Virgoed and didn't even know it.

if uve ben in love with one YES u my dear have ben virgoed..

Mine..really a piece of work
Oh BTW hes not mine nemore but for relation purposes i addressed him by that vs his name which wood have ben pointless.. lol.. im rambling

Oh, boy. Now I understand why I've been so down.

yup.. my emotions about my being Virgoed was at one point staggering..but then agen thats probably my fire sign intensities.. either way its truly a combination that is quite exciting.. in every sense of the word

Yeah, I understand what you mean. Unfortunately, I've had to step back from the Virgo guy I know as he has a lot of issues to work out. I want to help him but he doesn't seem to want help from anyone. He's the party animal.

.. funny how n me n mine i Thought were both the party animals.. but turns out Hes mr.Workbot..or so he says
..our situation was basically i was emotionally immature for lot of our knowing each other.. n also i didnt know wat i want.. i didnt figure it out til like a year ago.. then i went into overdrive tryin to just really fill him UP with my juice.. i dont know if youve experienced a Sagg... but yea weve got the lava.. dont be fooled 😉
but to watever avail.. things are just no longer wat they were.. n watever after this happens for better or worse.. ima have to keep in mind.. everything that has and Hasnt happened for that matter.. U do the same.. its quite settling.. well thats if u were given the silence like ive ben giving the silence... Ohh.. I USED TO GIVE THE SILENCE..lol.. but as i said.. i jumped thru hoops of FIRE to get him to see im not as things were..they are just as stubborn as us.. Wats ur sign btw

This Virgo guy and I are friends but something has happened along the way with me.I don't think I've been given the silent treatment. He called me at 1 AM on Saturday and told me his neighbor doesn't like him because he's so popular with the girls. I couldn't figure out why he wanted me to know this at all. Then he tells me he'll call me when he has time. What? I couldn't understand this but after I got off the phone I started to laugh because it's so ridiculous. He didn't get me jealous so now I think he's punishing me a little with not being in contact. It's okay though as I have to drop it and see what happens.

My star sign is Aquarius.

maybe they go so overboard with the Womanizing thing is cause its really not in their hearts.. they denounce something new before they embrace it.. im quite a challenger myself.. but i m not like that wen it comes to matters of the heart.. quite sensitive actually... area where ive made the most transformation over the years so far id say.. my moons in cancer, maybe thats the culprit..their attracted to it and allured behind it.. so i think it puts some electricity to the whole thing.. thats where the Love comes in.. tolerance..understanding.. common ground..etc. comes into play... Conversation beyond the nature of the Love Connection interview answers is wat im talkin about.. for real Heart to hearts.. many people dont desire to have those.. im finding out.. i myself like dealin with the raw..uncut..uncensored version of wat it is.. i dont want wat it looks like.. thats gotten me 5 years of nowhere with someone whose baby i saw myself having.. thats besides the point.. i say communication communication communication for u n ur virgo.. how do u talk about things?

Well, we talk about a lot of things. Sometimes I do a lot of the talking and other times he does. Last Sunday he told me I piss him off because I'm too positive. He sees everything dark and I try to show him nothing is as black as he sees it. This was too much for him take so he didn't speak to me until when he called me at 1 AM on Saturday. He acted like nothing was wrong at all. I guess nothing was wrong but I didn't know. Then all of sudden he has so many girls interested in him. That's fine by me but I think he wanted to get a reaction out of me which he didn't get. Now I have no idea when I'll hear from him again but it doesn't matter as I've had to drop the situation regarding him because he and I are completely opposites.

yea.. Air and Earth.. quite different perspectives.. yea i find them to be quite pessimistic as well.. im definitely more on the optimistic side.. so much more that Its staggering.. lol.. i stagger quite a bit ;P n No im not belonging to the alchy committee

Hey folks,

I was thinking of asking for "help" to my virgo-ex, if he can "hook me up" with soem of his still single friend/s.

Any sugession about this? Should I do that?

You spent 6 weeks pining over someone you had two dates with? They weren't even good dates by your account. He was a jerk.

There are plenty of men in this world. Don't suffer from scarcity thinking.