Confused.. VirgoMale/Scorpio Moon has distanced himself suddenly

Hi

I met this Virgo guy a couple of months ago and we messaged each other constantly for a couple of weeks before we met on our first date... everything went well and we really got on well.... the issue is he is working abroad but due to come home in a couple of months for good.... he has been so up and down in regards to his communication since he has been back and I know that he is extremely unhappy where he is and I have given him space by not bombarding him with messages so kept it at the pace that he has initiated or replied.. he always replies to my messages maybe not straight away as he used to but on the same day and told me last week he missed me but I don't understand how someone can go from being constantly messaging me to being so hot and cold.... I haven't spoken to him since Friday and I don't intend to message him as I was the one that last initiated even though he does initiate most the time.. We have spoken about going travelling before he comes home and even last week he said he would really like that... so I am really confused... is this guy still interested in me or shall I leave him alone? any help would be appreciated

Virgo with Scorpio Moon and I am a Scorpio Female with Pisces Moon 🙂

Yeah I've tried last week but as it's still early days I don't want to come across as being too much... What do you think I should say?

Welcome to the dealings with a Virgo lol
It'll drive you crazy and you won't understand... just stop trying. There's no sense in driving yourself insane wondering why.
They'll come around when they want to and until then... there's nothing you can do about it

How much space do you give a Virgo!
Thanks Capricornguy... Makes me feel a little reassured

Posted by Emily80

... is this guy still interested in me

Just because a guy noticed you exist and stop to chat for a moment doesn't mean he is interested in pursuing a committed relationship where you are the center of attention.


Women do this shit all the time ... and it's bullshit.

And you even go further to state you're confused, as if there is supposed to be a set of rules that lead to attending to you ..... because why else would you place a state of confusion on something as natural in life as two people saying, "hello"

You two met, and now he goes off on another life adventure, while you're sitting there trying to tie everything he said and did into knots, so you can hold tightly on.


Seriously ..... wtf?

After reading the OP again ..... it sounds to me as though once you two spent time together in person ... he backed off.

So, it sounds like he has decided to take a pass on you. You sounded good on texts, but he wasn't feeling it in person. He will respond to you, and still say nice things to you so your feelings won't get hurt ... and then just continue to fade away.


And it's his right, as a person, to decide that you're not it.

If this is the case, then be that good person you think you are .... and let him fade away.

P angel thanks for your comments although I'm not reading into his texts at all... He was very open and honest with me from day 1 and he didn't go cold after we met in fact he was even nicer to me.... But things changed in the last week or so and I guess I just would like to know if he wants to still meet up and get to know each other better? I know he's going through a tough time as he said that last week but at the same time I don't want to wait around without knowing his intentions... It's fine if he doesn't want to pursue things further but why not just say?!?!

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Go to church. Sit in Pew. Put your Head down. And Thank the LORD.

you've been saved from a nightmare.

I must agree. He doesn't seem into you

He's not into you ... do you need someone to skywrite it across the horizon for it to sink into your thick head?


Again ... be that good person you think you are, and let it the fuck go.


jfc

oh, and btw ... we all know you're not confused.


What you are is a Scorpio ..... which means you're so weak of a person that you fall prey to your own obsessions.

Thanks Magma I will take your advice and as you say time will tell 🙂

P Angel wow what's with your rudeness!!!! No need to be so rude... I'm on here for a reason to get some advice not to be belittled by you!

seriously get over yourself! You clearly don't know me so don't judge me by my star sign! Your comments are not welcome if all you're going to give is rubbish!!!