Distant Virgo

Okay, last time i talked to my virgo guy was about 5 days ago

We didn't have a fight or anything like that, so why hasn't he bothered to call me? We usually talk everyday if not, every other day.

I'm kind of worried, and I hope he's OK, and if he is I hope he has a good explaination.


So virgo guys/girls, do you have any advice as to what may be going on with him?
Like I said I'm not mad, just more worried

Call him.

starfish how funny. i just reuinited with an old virgo girlfriend and she used the same line. she said she still thought about me all the time..i felt like saying well you look fit enough to pick up a damn phone and call..lol.

starfish you are spot on..you and i must have some weird wave going on right now cause she sent me an email yesterday saying i was probably starting to figure her out and in her words "sorry i am so a $ $ backwards"..lol

yeah i am a cancer and i totally agree with you. i am starting to figure her out a bit but i know i still have a lot of work to do..lol. good for you knowing where your breaking point is..they do seem to have this ability to test ones nerves

"Call him."

Thats another thing, he shared a cellphone plan with his friend who let it get out of hand and eventually he just let it get turned off.

And I notice since then he has called me from private numbers cuz he says "if it was him and he seen a number he didn't know he would call it back," and he doesn't want me to do that. Whatever!

I feel like I'm getting played, but ain't shit i can do about it right now

Distance can be one of many reasons. For me it's

1. I am going through something big and stressing out and don't want ot be seen in that light by the object of my affection.

2. You said something that ticked me off, though I may not have let you know it did, and I am thinking on it and trying to bring myself to forgive you.

3. I got something else going on in my life that is overwhelming me that I must conquer and I am too engrossed in it.

4. I've moved on to someone else who intrigues me and should they screw up I will be back to you. However its not that they don't like you the same, the fire may have dimmed some though to the point that someone else can shine brighter than you.

5. I am not a phone person and that goes for mates too. But with mates I tend to want to call in the beginning more than when I am secure in the heart of a relationship.

"I've moved on to someone else who intrigues me and should they screw up I will be back to you. However its not that they don't like you the same, the fire may have dimmed some though to the point that someone else can shine brighter than you."

TRUE .. and that the game is over!!! the "so-called love" thing just gone stagnant .. next please .. poor little thing ..

vgurl: "the "so-called love" thing just gone stagnant .. next please .. poor little thing .."

Aint it the truth, when it's hot it's hot.

Haha...he called me at 6 but i had my phone on silent

He sounded all pitiful and sad on the voicemail, i think he's been stressin

He wanted to come pick me up and at the end of the message he says,
"I hope everything is still cool"

He's still non-reachable, and I hope he doesn't think I'm giving him the cold shoulder
But damn, its been like 2 weeks (and my some change)!

Just when I was about to let go...

weird .. if not then when is hot not hot or when is being emotionally motivated not motivated?