Do I convince a(m) virgo not to marry(f) aquarius?

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Hi nycmeme,

Virgo and Aquarius are intellectually compatible. They do have great fun together. I think virgo don't stay with a person just for fun. As a virgo with similar experience, I have a bad news for you here. He definitely wants to end the relationship although he loves her. However, he comes back because she begs him. He still has feeling for her and wants to give it another try. But it won't work.

You may ask why he said he would marry her and behaved like a player. Virgo tend to be very indecisive when it comes to marriage. They want to make sure to get the "right" person. (Perfectionism and I apologize for that.) There is no "right" person there if we keep finding faults with people. It takes quite a while for virgos to understand that. Some learn to lower their standards and compromise in relationships. Some keep searching till ....(sigh) I don't know when.

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Hi!
I know it is hard to let people make their own mistakes....but, that is what you as a friend should do. Remain the friend and be there when needed...now and later...
Unfortunately, most often it is not appreciated when a third party tries to interfere when it comes to matters of the heart...even though you have their best interest in mind...
Just the way it is..
Best To You!
Star
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I've recently be hanging out with a Virgo male and it seems the more time we spend together the colder he seems. I'm totally confused because he initiates the contact most times. He did make it quite clear that he didn't want a relationship, but he seems hurt if he finds out I've had a date with someone. I really admire his ability to stay focused, but I'm now wondering if it's worht the silent treatment or the fact that he invites me over and once I'm there, he acts as if he doesn't want me there...it may be because I can respect the fact that he doesn't want a relationship, but he can't understand how I can be in his presence and not beg him for intimacy! By the way, I'm Aquarius.
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VIRGO AND AQUARIUS

They are both rational, intellectual, and tend to view love in the abstract but the similarity ends there. Aquarius has venturesome ideas and thinks Virgo unresponsive or cold. Actually, each has a distant quality: Virgo is cautious about emotional giving; Aquarius's thoughts are in the far-off clouds. Aquarius is interested in other people, in causes, and in setting the world right. Virgo seeks personal achievement and financial security. Aquarius is outgoing, inventive, a visionary. Virgo is reserved, prudent, and very practical about its ambitions. This couple may not even make it as friends.