Do I still have my chances with my virgo guy ?

Posted by virg_goki
give him a little alone time, he shouldn't be ignoring you but just like some alone time. Keep yourself busy with activities while he does that 😉

This.

We have a habit of retreating when things don't go as planned--especially if we've put our backs into it. We need to regroup, and we can't do that as effectively if someone's over our shoulder or (not to be rude, not my intention) in our face.

Give him space, he knows you're there for him, and when he figures out what he's got to do to get back on track, I'm sure he'll appreciate that you gave him the time he needed.

Don't take this personally.

Tqura, I completely empathize with you in this situation. We too had a good and honest friendship going in the beginning. We spoke to each other almost every day. Then once I verbally expressed interest and a liking for him, he started distancing himself. That, the admittance of liking him is what I think pushed him away. It has also been more than a month for me where he doesn't communicate with me unless i initiate some sort of talk. He's not being rude but is being distant. I truly like him and believe that we could make things work and I don't want to lose him. Sure, we don't know each other that well, but I would like for us to have a chance to do so. I hope to be at a place where we can talk a bit more, at a slower pace, so as not to risk things by moving too fast, again. I just don't know exactly how to make the initial approach, because I don't want to come off as too desperate or further push him away. I sense this is what you are troubled with as well.

I am wondering, did you express to him that you liked him or loved him? Is that perhaps when he started to act like this? I too am a Taurus, and I would like to believe and know that the Virgo/Taurus compatibility were true for us, wouldn't you agree?

I had posted the below on another thread.

That's really too bad that things end up like this, where one is left hanging with no understanding or closure. I haven't necessarily been dumped, but the Virgo I was talking to just stopped communicating with me, unless I initiate contact. It started once I verbally expressed interest and a liking for him. When we do talk things are fine, but very brief. Based on everything I have learned and observed from these forums, I have backed off and am initiating contact less often so that I don't push him away any farther. I want to give him his space so that I dont completely miss a chance. Man I should've kept my mouth shut, because things were going pretty well.