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Posted by Rambunctious76Ram....u'd be surprised to find out how many actually do because some feel one has an direct impact on the other....i.e., intense strong chemistry have been known to cause others to be loyal in their relationships because they value chemistry above all. I was just reading about this on another relationship debate forum about a week ago....I think it was a relationship debate on which is better "chemistry" vs. "compatibility", and some threw loyalty in their argument/stance. It was an interesting topic to say the least. I enjoyed the takes on both sides of the fence actually.
What kind of a person values chemistry OVER loyalty in a relationship??Really?what kind of person??

Posted by SingASong41^^^THIS +1! If we get to a point where we "verbally" state we're going to block you.....please do urself a favor and back away very carefully & w/out disrupting the rest of the classroom...Lol! At this point, only WE are the ultimate decision makers that decide if we'll continue to deal with u or not any further. Nothing u say or do is gonna change it....sorry dear!
Please tell me this a joke, and that you're a troll, and we're all gonna have a good laugh about this because this thread is just too ridiculous.
You sound crazy. Definitely too insecure to be in a relationship. Why would you tell him things you don't mean? As a test? Sweetie, we don't do tests.
Also, you have NO respect for his privacy. I'm surprised he's been so patient with you. You're always forcing him to talk about things he doesn't want to and acting differently than how he feels. Like come on.
Leave the poor guy alone and focus on yourself. Build your self confidence, self esteem, and self love.

Posted by tizianiHey Tiz dear....always a pleasure seeing u! 🙂......Posted by LovelyisisDo people ever really know what loyalty means though? Too many think it involves just hanging about.Posted by Rambunctious76Ram....u'd be surprised to find out how many actually do because some feel one has an direct impact on the other....i.e., intense strong chemistry have been known to cause others to be loyal in their relationships because they value chemistry above all. I was just reading about this on another relationship debate forum about a week ago....I think it was a relationship debate on which is better "chemistry" vs. "compatibility", and some threw loyalty in their argument/stance. It was an interesting topic to say the least. I enjoyed the takes on both sides of the fence actually.
What kind of a person values chemistry OVER loyalty in a relationship??Really?what kind of person??click to expand

Posted by VanishBecause she came off as crazy as fuck.
If he had intense chemistry with her, he probably wouldnt have let go so easily. He didnt let go of his ex for a long time after she split it sounds like, yet he dropped her like everything between them meant nothing.

Posted by VanishWhite knighting is a whole other section of issues. I wouldn't brag about it. It's not a good trait to have.
It wouldnt make me run and hasnt. I'd take it on and help them work through it especially if I told someone what he told her. I mean what I say about loyalty. That's why Tauruses always want to hit this.

eps posting and deleting her original post. Here's her post from two weeks ago....
Posted by LetltB^^^^My response stands. Get your head checkedPosted by RitaleonaThe question is....what the hell is the matter with you that agreed to marry him?
Anyway I m a leo engaged to this virgo guy who is very patient, loving caring but has his mood swings which i have managed to adjust with in the past 2 years.
he is so not happy with anything, all the time when i try to talk about us and our marriage he seems distant!
he starts confusing me, he says he can never be happy with anything and that its his nature and hes cursed!
Also he is very negative, he stays quiet and half the time its me who initiates a conversation and he only contributes to a goodbye,
I wanna know whats up with this secretive guy!
Are you so desperate you need to settle? Who agrees to marry someone they don't know—?
Let me clue you in on something. I'd venture to say he only put a ring on your finger to get you off his back. It DOES NOT mean you are going to marry him. Judging by his behavior, he wants nothing to do with marriage. He also sounds like he's doing everything in his power to get you to walk and you haven't caught onto that yet, OR you are so desperate that you are clinging onto the hope that this confusion you have going on will magically go away.
Check yourself first would be my advice.click to expand
Posted by tiziani+100Posted by LovelyisisDo people ever really know what loyalty means though? Too many think it involves just hanging about.Posted by Rambunctious76Ram....u'd be surprised to find out how many actually do because some feel one has an direct impact on the other....i.e., intense strong chemistry have been known to cause others to be loyal in their relationships because they value chemistry above all. I was just reading about this on another relationship debate forum about a week ago....I think it was a relationship debate on which is better "chemistry" vs. "compatibility", and some threw loyalty in their argument/stance. It was an interesting topic to say the least. I enjoyed the takes on both sides of the fence actually.
What kind of a person values chemistry OVER loyalty in a relationship??Really?what kind of person??click to expand
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Serious advice: Leave this man and check your insecurities if you want to attempt partnership with anyone else again.
Not sarcastic, it is going to keep causing you grief to act like that.