VirgoSweetie
@VirgoSweetie
16 Years
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Emotional Support
I'll take a different approach and say that he shuts down because he feels too much? Some men honestly do not like to see a sad or upset woman, because they're fixers. And if they can't fix the problem they'll shut it down or walk off because they feel helpless.
His reaction is normal, emotions are contagious, he can't allow himself to be effected by your emotional breakdowns at work, when people have negative attitudes and fear it can easily pass on to other people, seems he may just be protecting himself from that. Try to control your emotions not everyone can deal with them effectively like a trained therapist. You really need a woman at work you can relate to and empathize and nurture your feelings when you get down.
Posted by venusianbull
Some men honestly do not like to see a sad or upset woman, because they're fixers. And if they can't fix the problem they'll shut it down or walk off because they feel helpless.
Some compelling wisdom, venusianbull.
We fear what we do not understand... and being emotional infants, most Virgos fear these overt signs of emotion.
*curtseying* Thank you gentlemen. 🙂
Yes. Everytime I see a girl sad I instantly shut down outwardly and on the inside I feel so horrible about not being able to do anything.
The solution is easy. We just need a hug, and for you to just listen to us. Don't give solutions, just listen. It'll help loads.
Posted by nedrea
Yes. Everytime I see a girl sad I instantly shut down outwardly and on the inside I feel so horrible about not being able to do anything.
I hate feeling helpless/useless!
The solution is easy. We just need a hug, and for you to just listen to us. Don't give solutions, just listen. It'll help loads.
Sure it sounds simple... but what about stupid girls who make the same mistakes over and over! Ugh!
Posted by venusianbull
*curtseying* Thank you gentlemen. 🙂click to expand
*tips hat*
Aww, why not?
That's a very honest answer, thank you for sharing that. Not to worry, some smart cookie will get a hold of you some day and take things slow and not push. *envelope to head* My prediction o' the day. 🙂
Girls cry cause well... we just do. Emotions run really high, and the 'fixing' part comes in by trying to calm them down. We just need moral support, cheerleaders so to speak.
But yeah, I wasn't taught to give or receive love freely either, so it's difficult for me to handle. Though in the past few years I have managed to get much better, so I'm a bit of a hug whore now.
But yeah, I wasn't taught to give or receive love freely either, so it's difficult for me to handle. Though in the past few years I have managed to get much better, so I'm a bit of a hug whore now.
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by venusianbull
Some men honestly do not like to see a sad or upset woman, because they're fixers. And if they can't fix the problem they'll shut it down or walk off because they feel helpless.
Some compelling wisdom, venusianbull.
We fear what we do not understand... and being emotional infants, most Virgos fear these overt signs of emotion.click to expand
Absolutely true. I'm uncomfortable with others' displays of emotion and feel very awkward. The Leo I was with pretty much taught me how to deal with her when she was in a mess, so I was able to handle her private outbursts, but with someone I'm not so close to I'm completely lost when they get emotional, particularly in a public situation. I generally try to disappear if possible when such an event starts to unfold.
Posted by Jason2213
I wasn't taught to give love freely. So I feel extremely uncomfortable to show, give, and receive it. I was only urged and pressured to to do well educationally and to be a good boy. 😐
But I have a lot of fire in me so whatever I feel can be as strong as Cancers'.
Hahaha, you're going to be so relieved when you get to spend it all on the right lass 😛
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