So I need some advice, I'm absolutely fascinated by and majorly attracted to a virgo woman...
I'm a Gemini with an Aries rising, Aries in Venus and a Sagittarian moon. I'm not sure about her astrological makeup but I know she's a Virgo and from what I can tell she has a Virgo in Venus too...
Im 26, she's 24. We first met nearly 10 years ago at a party when we were teenagers. We've been acquiantances ever since as we have a lot of mutual friends and we've stayed in distance contact as friends on Myspace and Facebook over the years... until recently. Around last August/September I guess we both suddenly took notice of each other's existance and actually started to talk to each other and get to know a little about each other. As the months have gone by we've crossed paths in person on several occasions at the local shops while we've been working and even made special trips to drop in and keep each other company on slow days at our respective workplaces. Some background though - a few months prior to us both "discovering" each other, I came out of a 4 year relationship which I was a little messed about (and still slightly am) and she has some emotional baggage with a former flame herself however he has since moved to the other side of the country.
So anyway, we don't really "flirt" as such, we actually have "proper" conversations about work, and life and our interests (she's into visual arts like painting and drawing and stuff like that and Im a musician) gradually as time as gone on, when we pop in and catch up the excitement in both of us just seeing each other is rather crazy. The way she hugs me is like she feels safe (which I know is a big thing for Virgos, the need for security) and when she talks to me it's almost like she wants to flirt? maybe? i'm not sure. I'm a little confused. She is absolutely stunning, has the most beautiful big green eyes that are hard to not get lost in, a rather bubbly and infectious personality and just seems to be one of those people that would find it impossible to intentionally hurt someone. She's really "taken my world by storm" as corny as it sounds, and the more I discover about her, the more mysterious she seems to become!
This little virgo has me absolutely baffled... and rather entranced...
Can someone shed any light on my situation and maybe tell me where I might stand on this? Does she sound like a typical virgo? am I on strong, safe ground with her?
This has fuck all to do with anyone's 'ego'. I was asking about how to approach the situation in regards to how Virgo's work and how to interact with them and you rip into me about my 'ego' and putting her on a 'pedestal'. Have all the opinions you want regarding me, whatever, I don't care, but I asked for advice about the Virgo personality and all you've done is discuss your opinion regarding me. Half of what you wrote I can't even make sense of because it's so poorly written anyway. You think I'm lying? Lying about what exactly?
"Look, let THAT go. That huge ego that somehow this little fine chick has your attention. She will chew you up and spit you out by default. She IS a person, so you're going to have to learn some consistency in your thought process if you want a woman who's had a small crush on you since grade school. (Very possible on that note...the mercurial broads don't forget a face they like or a pinch of salt lol)"
1) my huge ego that somehow she has my attention? Yes she has my attention, what's it go to do with a ''huge ego"? 2) she hasn't had a crush on me since grade school at all. Go back and read what I originally posted. We met at party and stayed in contact from a distance. There was no crush, there was no "relationship" of any kind until nearly 10 years later. We didn't take much notice of each other for almost a decade. Again I reiterate, did you actually read what I originally posted?
You haven't offered me anything constructive at all.
I'm a Gemini with an Aries rising, Aries in Venus and a Sagittarian moon. I'm not sure about her astrological makeup but I know she's a Virgo and from what I can tell she has a Virgo in Venus too...
Im 26, she's 24. We first met nearly 10 years ago at a party when we were teenagers. We've been acquiantances ever since as we have a lot of mutual friends and we've stayed in distance contact as friends on Myspace and Facebook over the years... until recently. Around last August/September I guess we both suddenly took notice of each other's existance and actually started to talk to each other and get to know a little about each other. As the months have gone by we've crossed paths in person on several occasions at the local shops while we've been working and even made special trips to drop in and keep each other company on slow days at our respective workplaces. Some background though - a few months prior to us both "discovering" each other, I came out of a 4 year relationship which I was a little messed about (and still slightly am) and she has some emotional baggage with a former flame herself however he has since moved to the other side of the country.
So anyway, we don't really "flirt" as such, we actually have "proper" conversations about work, and life and our interests (she's into visual arts like painting and drawing and stuff like that and Im a musician) gradually as time as gone on, when we pop in and catch up the excitement in both of us just seeing each other is rather crazy. The way she hugs me is like she feels safe (which I know is a big thing for Virgos, the need for security) and when she talks to me it's almost like she wants to flirt? maybe? i'm not sure. I'm a little confused. She is absolutely stunning, has the most beautiful big green eyes that are hard to not get lost in, a rather bubbly and infectious personality and just seems to be one of those people that would find it impossible to intentionally hurt someone. She's really "taken my world by storm" as corny as it sounds, and the more I discover about her, the more mysterious she seems to become!
This little virgo has me absolutely baffled... and rather entranced...
Can someone shed any light on my situation and maybe tell me where I might stand on this? Does she sound like a typical virgo? am I on strong, safe ground with her?