Forgiveness?

So my virgo never talked to me again, although I cried and pleaded with him. I accepted the loss and decided to move on. I ended up dating another guy (which I later found out the were acquaintances). Well, I heard through the grapevine that the virgo was upset and sad that I dated his friend, when his friend and I broke up I tried to patch things up with the virgo once again and he STILL did not respond to my texts. I have been told that the vigo still likes me, what holds him back? Is he too proud, scared of getting hurt or just plain got over me for good? We were friends for a year and he told me he had feelings for me, then have not spoken in one year. How can I win his friendship back wihout looking uttelry psychotic?

I would really appreciate all of your advice, but especially the advice from the virgo with a libra moon. Thank you!

You scard him with your incessant phone calls this time last year ... you even said in your post that during the times he needed to withdraw to do his Virgo thing of going into deep contemplation .... that the more he ignored you, because you require an abundance of attention, the more you pesterd him and invaded his private space.

It's likely you'll never get him to talk to you again .... for he clearlly realizes that you don't respect his personal space.

I got that information from one of your post in Feb 2007 ... you admitted to pestering him and bombarding him with phone calls and texts when he needed his private time.

You'll just have to walk away from this one ... I doubt he will respect you now, and once a Virgo does finally make a decision, they hold to it.

Hi Paige99,

I am Virgo with Libra Moon sign, and my interpretation is that there were 2 phases:

1) After you broke up, and before you went with his friend, he still liked you and might have got back with you. Prsonally, I find it very difficult to just forget someone with whom I had a deep relationship.

But remember...we expect reciprocation. There is nothing worse than expressing your feelings to someone, only for that person not to respond in kind (at least to a small degree).

2) Once he found out that you went with his friend, he lost all interest and now thinks you are cheap and/or 'used goods'. He may have taken this as a personal affront, and a double treason (by you and his friend). I would not be surprised if he does not speak to the other guy either...

He either believes that you did this to get back to him (win him back) or to make him jealous. Virgo have a tendency to over-analyse.

My opinion is that you should move on. I don't see any future in this. I am sorry, and I hope that after some time (when the emotions are less intense and he has stopped judging you) you can stll be cool-headed friends.

All the best 🙂