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here is the link http://www.astrozoom.com/astrologer/astrology/ascendant-sextile-neptune/ ">Link text I have pluto in the first house which meaning its conj to my ascendent or rising sign plus other stuff but here is pluto in the first house.
Ascendant Conjunct Pluto

You have the power to determine the kind of world that can be constructed from its available resources. You know how difficult it is to function and develop under environmental conditions and economic pressures that frustrate you at every turn, but it is in your grasp to arouse the people to make public officials yield to their demands. You can play an important role in urging the public to eliminate the parasites who cause decaying social conditions and the depraved human qualities that lead to them. Because you speak and conduct yourself with authority, no one dares dismiss you merely as a troublesome critic. You are not easily aroused to taking action unless the situation is serious. If it is, you will use every trick you can devise to compel those responsible to take the actions that are necessary to restore order from chaos. You will not be satisfied until a system is working effectively.

You do not tolerate abuse in your personal affairs either. In general you know what you want out of life and are ready to make any investment in talent and effort to realize your goals. You defend those entrusted to your care, and the people you love know you will protect their interests at all costs. You must guard against driving yourself or others to excess. Choose your adversaries with care, or you could antagonize someone who would deal violently with you. You tend to bring out the worst qualities in people at times.

Your personality has a strong impact on others in one-on-one situations, which can be a tremendous asset if you are careful in the way you use it. You can overwhelm people quite easily, which will not lead to successful relationships unless you learn when to pull back and give your partner freedom for personal assertion and communication.
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The lesson you must learn is to use the power of your personality for the good of both partners in a relationship and not merely to serve your own goals. You may need to watch yourself carefully, for it is easy for you to step in and take control of the situation, especially if a less assertive partner seems to accept it at the time. But you may be stepping on your partner's toes without realizing it.

The unspoken resentment that builds up will eventually explode and destroy the whole relationship. You must be very careful to give your partner plenty of room and enough time to make decisions uninfluenced by you, even if you feel an urgent need to step in and make the decision yourself. If power plays and games or attempts at domination must exist in the relationship, it is better to fulfill this need through bedroom fantasies. In that way both you and your partner can learn more about your inner needs and drives without interfering with the external course of the affair.